08/27/2025
FIBROMYALGIA:
LISTENING TO THE UNBEARABLE WHISPER OF THE BODY
In the presence of fibromyalgia patients, I have witnessed a complexity of human experience that transcends the limits of medical descriptions. Their bodies speak a language of pain that is both overwhelming and precise. Every touch carries the possibility of comfort, but also the risk of intrusion. It is as if the nervous system itself has lost its filters, leaving the person exposed to the raw intensity of life.
What strikes me most is the paradox: these patients are often among the strongest individuals I have met, yet they carry the weight of extreme vulnerability. Beneath the exhaustion, the tenderness of muscles and fascia reveals a history of resilience stretched too thin. Pain, unfortunately, becomes their constant companion, and with it comes an incredible sensitivity, not only physical, but emotional, relational, and existential.
Medical Reflexology sessions, I have seen how even the gentlest approach can awaken profound and unexpected reactions. Sometimes tears flow, not from suffering alone, but from the sudden relief of being understood without words. And this is the most impactful achievement when working with these patients: the moment they feel genuinely understood.
Other times, silence reigns. This silence feels sacred, as if the body is finally allowed to rest. Or perhaps it is because the stories they carry are so heavy that they prefer to keep the scream deep inside. It is difficult to reconstruct the painful situations that, in most cases, brought them there. These encounters remind me that fibromyalgia is more than a clinical condition, more than a label on the patient’s forehead. It is a dramatic human condition, a testimony of survival where the body itself holds the memory of battles fought in silence. Battles they never asked to fight.
Medical Reflexology is communication. And the way I understand the subtle communication that must be established between the patient and me offers a way to enter this territory with profound respect, and I have always felt privileged to access these hidden records of suffering. My hands became translators between the nervous system and the possibility of calm, but my heart remained open to connect with theirs, as far as they would allow. I noticed that every careful movement and every word carried an unspoken promise: you are safe here, you can soften, you can breathe. Over time, the body begins to learn again that it does not need to remain in a perpetual state of alarm.
To walk alongside someone with fibromyalgia is to witness the courage it takes to live every day with heightened perception. It is to honor their story, not by trying to erase their pain, but by offering presence, patience, and the possibility of small victories. Sometimes those victories are not measured in the absence of pain, but in a night of restful sleep, in a few hours lived without fear, in the freedom of a breath that does not hurt.
And within this understanding, one truth becomes clear: their feelings of failure and imperfection are not weaknesses, but openings: the key that allows us to offer a hug from soul to soul.
Thank you for reading me.
I´d love to know about your experience, and your insights are warmly welcome. 🙏