01/11/2026
"The longer we resist growth, the more likely we are to stay stuck in patterns that don’t serve us. That’s how people live decades in unhealthy dynamics, toxic mindsets, or painful loneliness, because change, even when it's positive, demands the end of certainty. Stubbornness says, “I know best.” Resistance says, “I’m not ready.” Growth says, “What if both of those are wrong, and that’s okay?” It’s important to avoid shaming people for their resistance. Try to recognize it as a signal—there's a part of them that doesn’t feel safe yet. So, we create safety first, emotional safety, relational safety, and self-trust. Only then can we help someone unhook their identity from their rigidity and start choosing development over defense."
J. Donohue
The Donohue Approach™️