11/29/2025
Whose fault is it ???
One of the greatest things
to ever happen to me ,
happened in
August of 2020.
On a Thursday night while
sobbing at a level I don’t
know that I’ve ever
cried at before or since ,
I realized that every aspect
of my life was my own fault.
It wasn’t my wife’s fault.
It wasn’t my parent’s fault.
It wasn’t the weathers fault.
Or my job.
Or the street I had to drive down.
Or the town I lived in.
IT WAS MY FAULT.
And it was never going
to get better until
I got better.
No one was going
to save me.
Since that night I have taken responsibility for everything.
All aspects of my life.
You know what ???
It’s been the most freeing and liberating thing that’s ever
happened to me.
It’s opened up doors
of opportunity.
It’s given me a free pass to
take on any challenge
because I know that my success
or failure isn’t
anything or anyone’s fault
except my own.
I’m in control of my life.
It’s allowed me to hang
my hat on the fact that
I WILL figure it out.
If you haven’t yet ….
I pray that you one day
have your Thursday night
in August of 2020.
Because when we finally
decide to take accountability
and stop blaming
everything else for
our issues ….
We truly begin to live.
Have a great Saturday.
Keep Growing 👊