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04/13/2026

Have you ever tried to talk about something important — and the other person simply shuts down?

They stop responding.

They avoid eye contact.

They give short answers or leave the room.

When this happens, the conversation often ends without resolution.

This pattern is sometimes called stonewalling, and it usually occurs when someone feels emotionally overwhelmed during conflict. My late husband, who was a good man but bad at handling conflict, used to do this all the time. It was so frustrating!

Instead of continuing the conversation, they withdraw in order to cope with the stress.

The difficulty is that silence can feel deeply frustrating to the other person, who may interpret it as indifference or rejection. Not too surprising, since that is exactly what it can feel like.

Healthier ways to handle these moments include:

• Take a short break to calm down. Stepping away briefly can allow emotions to settle.
• Return to the conversation later. Let the other person know you’re willing to talk again once things feel calmer.
• Practice emotional awareness. Recognizing when you’re becoming overwhelmed can help prevent shutdown.

When I was doing Family Therapy I frequently suggested a break when things got heated. But – here’s the important part – you have to get back to the discussion in a reasonable amount of time. Otherwise the other person gets the message that things will never be dealt with.

Healthy relationships allow space for people to pause — but also encourage returning to the conversation with openness.

04/10/2026

Have you ever tried to talk about a concern in a relationship — only to have the conversation suddenly turn into a debate about something you did wrong?

You bring up an issue, and instead of discussing it, the other person quickly explains, justifies, or shifts the focus.

Before long, the original problem is lost, and both people feel frustrated.

This pattern is called defensiveness, and it’s very common in relationships. I tell clients frequently, “this is understandable, but not helpful”.

Defensiveness usually happens when someone feels criticized or blamed.

Instead of listening, they instinctively try to protect themselves. Usually this is done by going on the attack.

The problem is that defensiveness often prevents the real issue from being addressed.

A few healthier responses can make a big difference:

• Pause and listen before responding. Try to understand the concern before explaining your perspective. The Speaker-Listener is very effective here. I discussed this in my post on April 1st.
• Take responsibility when appropriate. Even small acknowledgments can reduce tension. Example: “You’re right, I could have handled that better.” Taking responsibility with going into defensive mode is an amazing skill and it will get you far in life!
• Focus on solving the problem together. Conversations become more productive when both people see themselves on the same team.

When people feel attacked communications shut down. When they feel safe, communication becomes much more constructive and trust grows.

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04/08/2026

Sometimes relationship problems aren’t caused by one big issue.

They’re caused by small communication habits that repeat over time.

• Criticism.
• Sarcasm.
• Belittling comments.
• Angry reactions.

These patterns can slowly erode trust and emotional safety.

Many people use sarcasm or sharp humor as a way to express frustration, but those comments often land as criticism — even when the speaker didn’t intend it that way.

Over time, repeated negativity can make people feel defensive, hurt, or hesitant to speak openly.

Healthier communication habits can help restore connection.

Some examples include:

• Build each other up instead of tearing each other down. Encouragement strengthens relationships. My mom was one of the best encouragers ever! She regularly wrote positive, encouraging notes for each of her 5 children and taped them to our door frames – this was before Post It Notes. We left those notes up for months!

• Use humor carefully. Humor that lightens the moment can be helpful — sarcasm that cuts the other person down usually isn’t. You want to laugh with the person – not at them.

• Express appreciation regularly. Noticing what someone does well helps balance everyday frustrations. This is incredibly powerful when you praise someone for what they did well in front of other people – at home or work. They’ll be floating on air for hours!

Small changes in communication can have a powerful impact on the tone of a relationship.

04/06/2026

Most relationships don’t struggle because people never disagree.

They struggle because people don’t know how to disagree well.

Many of us were never taught healthy conflict resolution skills. Instead, we learned patterns like avoiding the issue, raising our voices, bringing up past mistakes, or trying to “win” the argument.

When conflict becomes a competition instead of a conversation, relationships can slowly become exhausting and can begin to feel stuck.

Healthy conflict resolution doesn’t mean eliminating disagreements.

It means learning how to work through them constructively.

A few helpful practices include:

• Focus on the issue, not the person. Discuss the behavior or situation instead of attacking character.

• Let go of the need to be right. Sometimes the goal should be understanding — not winning. When I was doing therapy a friend of mine, who was also a therapist, would routinely ask his clients, “Do you want to be right, or do you want to be married?” There is great wisdom in this question!

• Be willing to compromise. Relationships often require flexibility and finding solutions that work for both people. I’ve often said that one of my super-powers is creating win-win situations. If a solution doesn’t give each person at least some of what they want, they’ll like end sabotaging it.

Conflict handled well can actually strengthen a relationship.

It shows that two people are willing to listen, adapt, and grow together.

04/03/2026

Have you ever tried to explain how you feel — only to walk away feeling like the other person didn’t really hear you?

Maybe they interrupted.

Maybe they quickly defended themselves.

Or maybe they changed the subject before the conversation was finished.

Over time, moments like that can leave people feeling unimportant, dismissed, or invisible in a relationship.

One of the deepest emotional needs people have is simply to feel heard and understood.

When someone feels genuinely listened to, tension decreases and connection grows. But when people feel ignored or misunderstood repeatedly, frustration and resentment can begin to build.

The good news is that small communication changes can make a big difference.

A few helpful habits include:

• Use “I” statements.
Instead of saying, “You never listen,” try something like, “I feel discouraged when I don’t feel heard.”

• Practice the Speaker–Listener technique.
When I was a Family Therapist for 28 years, one tool I loved giving to my clients was the Speaker-Listener technique. Due to space and time, I’m not going to go into it all here. The following is a link to an article that explains beautifully how it works. https://www.watermarkresources.com/blogs/wmr-blog-post-stop-arguing-the-speaker-listener-technique

One person speaks while the other listens without interrupting, then briefly summarizes what they heard before responding. Here is a link to a video that explains how the technique works. You can see that it was helpful even though the couple didn’t use the technique 100% correctly.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pF8sCmJDzoQ

• Slow the conversation down.
Listening to understand — rather than listening to respond — creates space for real connection.

Feeling heard doesn’t require perfect communication.

But it does require intentional listening.

04/01/2026

When people think about health and wellness, they usually think about things like diet, exercise, sleep, or stress management.

But there’s another powerful influence on our health that often gets overlooked.

Our relationships.

We live, work, and move through life in a web of overlapping relationships — spouses, family members, friends, coworkers, neighbors, and community. These connections shape our emotional well-being far more than many people realize.

After more than 28 years working as a family therapist, I’ve seen firsthand how relationship habits can either strengthen people or slowly drain their energy, peace, and health.

Healthy relationships bring encouragement, stability, and support.
Unhealthy relationship patterns can increase stress, anxiety, loneliness, and emotional exhaustion.

The good news is that relationship habits can be learned and improved.

During April, I’ll be sharing a series of posts about common relationship challenges — along with simple, practical strategies that can help strengthen communication, trust, and connection.

Because improving your relationships doesn’t just improve your life.

It improves your health.

Which relationship habit do you think makes the biggest difference in a healthy relationship?

03/30/2026

The Problem: Stress and Inflammation

Chronic stress doesn’t just affect mood — it affects the immune system.

Persistent cortisol imbalance can promote inflammation in the body. Over time, this may contribute to joint pain, muscle tension, digestive issues, headaches, and difficulty moving comfortably. You might feel stiff in the morning or notice aches that weren’t there before.

Inflammation is part of the body’s protective response — but when it remains elevated, it can create discomfort and fatigue.

Stress and inflammation often reinforce one another.

The Solutions: Hydration, Stretching & Nutrition

1 - Drinking adequate water supports cellular function and helps flush metabolic waste. Even mild dehydration can increase fatigue and headaches. Staying hydrated assists the body in regulating inflammatory responses.

2 - Gentle stretching improves circulation and reduces muscle tension. Movement signals safety to the body and can decrease inflammatory markers over time.

3 - Diet also plays a role. Anti-inflammatory foods such as leafy greens, berries, fatty fish (like salmon), nuts, olive oil, and whole grains help regulate inflammation. Reducing highly processed foods and excess sugar can lower inflammatory stress on the body. I am very careful of how much sugar I take in for this very reason.

When the body is supported physically, the stress response softens.

03/27/2026

The Problem: Doubt During Stressful Seasons

Seasons of intense stress can trigger spiritual doubt.

When suffering continues or prayers seem unanswered, fear and questioning may increase. You may quietly wonder why hardship is allowed or whether you’ve been overlooked. Emotional exhaustion can make faith feel fragile.

Stress narrows perspective. It magnifies fear and uncertainty. The absence of felt peace can sometimes be misinterpreted as the absence of God.

But emotional numbness is not the same as spiritual abandonment.

The Solutions: Music, Prayer & Rest

1 - Music — especially singing — engages breath, rhythm, and emotion simultaneously. Singing praise and worship, alone or with others, regulates the nervous system and strengthens communal connection. Studies show group singing can reduce stress hormones and increase feelings of belonging. I have often said, that a good sermon is important. But praise and worship music, sung with other believers, transforms me.

2 - Prayer creates intentional space for surrender. Honest conversation with God — even when filled with questions — maintains connection. Sharing burdens with trusted believers and asking for prayer support reduces isolation.

3 - And sometimes, what the body needs most is rest. A short nap can reduce cortisol and improve emotional regulation. When fatigue lifts even slightly, perspective often improves. I try to take a short nap (20 minutes) every day if my schedule permits. I truly feel refreshed when I do.

Clarity frequently returns when stress decreases.

03/25/2026

The Problem: Stress and Reduced Productivity

Stress doesn’t improve productivity long-term — it undermines it.

When stress becomes chronic, focus declines, decision-making slows, and mistakes increase. You may work longer hours but accomplish less. Mental fatigue builds. Tasks that once felt manageable start to feel overwhelming.

The brain cannot sustain peak performance in survival mode. Chronic cortisol overload reduces clarity and creativity.

The Solutions: Water, Plants & Boundaries

1 - Being near water — whether it’s a lake, fountain, or even a shower — has a calming effect on the nervous system. Research suggests that blue spaces (areas near water) are associated with reduced stress and improved mood. The sound and visual rhythm of water can lower physiological arousal.

One of the few things I dislike about living in Waco, TX, is there isn’t a beach nearby. When I walk on a beach I can literally feel my stress level dropping – naturally and quickly!

2 - Adding green plants indoors can also help. Studies show that indoor plants improve mood, reduce stress, and may enhance concentration. Even small desk plants can make a difference. I have plants all over my home and my office. They really do help me feel calmer and happier.

3 - Setting healthy boundaries is equally important. Overcommitment fuels chronic stress. Learning to say no, delegating when possible, and protecting focused work time preserves cognitive energy.

Productivity improves when stress decreases — not the other way around.

03/23/2026

The Problem: Irritability and a Short Fuse

Have you noticed that when you’re stressed, your patience shrinks?

Chronic stress keeps the body in a heightened state of alert. Small frustrations feel bigger. Minor inconveniences trigger disproportionate reactions. You may find yourself snapping at loved ones or feeling irritated over things that normally wouldn’t bother you. And then you heap guilt on top of the stress because you overreacted.

Cortisol and adrenaline prepare the body to respond quickly. When stress is constant, that reactivity becomes your baseline. You’re not necessarily “an angry person.” You may simply be overloaded.

The Solutions: Pets, Substances & Hobbies

1 - Spending time with pets has been shown to lower blood pressure and reduce cortisol levels. Petting a dog or cat increases oxytocin — the bonding hormone that promotes calm and connection. Even a few minutes of interaction can shift your emotional state. I make it a point to sit down with my 2 dogs several times during the day. I pet both of them, talk to them (and no, they don’t talk back too much), and we all feel calmer and better.

2 - Limiting caffeine, alcohol, and to***co also matters. Caffeine can increase heart rate and anxiety. Alcohol disrupts sleep and emotional regulation. Ni****ne stimulates the nervous system. Reducing these substances lowers physiological reactivity.

3 - Finally, hobbies provide a healthy outlet for stress. Whether it’s gardening, painting, reading, or cooking, enjoyable activities increase dopamine and create mental space away from pressure. When your nervous system settles, irritability often decreases.

Calm bodies respond more gently.

03/20/2026

If your s*x drive has decreased during stressful seasons, you’re not alone — especially as a woman.

Stress shifts the body into survival mode. When cortisol is elevated, the body prioritizes safety over connection. Blood flow shifts away from areas related to pleasure and toward muscles needed for action. Mentally, your brain stays focused on responsibilities — work deadlines, children, caregiving, finances — not intimacy.

Many women describe feeling “touched out,” mentally exhausted, or emotionally unavailable at the end of the day. This was particularly true for me when my sons were young. It’s not that desire disappears permanently. It’s that stress crowds it out. When the nervous system feels overwhelmed, intimacy becomes difficult to access and enjoy. S*x can begin to feel like just one more chore.

The Solutions: Fun & Bedtime Routines

1 - Doing something fun — with your spouse or on your own — lowers stress hormones and increases dopamine. Shared laughter, trying something new, or even a lighthearted conversation can rebuild emotional connection. Research shows couples who engage in novel or enjoyable activities together often report increased closeness and satisfaction.

2 - Bedtime routines also matter. If the evening is chaotic — screens on, emails open, minds racing — it’s hard to shift into connection. Creating a calming nighttime routine (dim lights, soft music, no screens 30–60 minutes before bed) helps the body transition out of stress mode.

When the nervous system feels safe and relaxed, intimacy becomes more accessible.

Desire often returns when stress decreases.

03/18/2026

The Problem: Guilt, Shame & Spiritual Stagnation

Stress doesn’t just affect the body — it can amplify guilt and shame.

When we’re overwhelmed, we may replay mistakes more harshly. We may hold grudges against others or ourselves. Chronic stress narrows perspective and increases negative self-talk. Thoughts like “I should have done better” or “I’ll never forgive them” become louder. Those are the times we really beat ourselves up.

Over time, unforgiveness can feel heavy. It can create emotional distance, strain relationships, and hinder spiritual growth. When shame dominates, it becomes difficult to fully receive grace — even when it’s freely offered.
Stress magnifies what we haven’t released.

The Solutions: Journaling & Christian Community

1 - Journaling provides a structured way to process thoughts rather than letting them swirl endlessly. Writing can help identify patterns, clarify emotions, and create cognitive distance from painful memories. Research shows expressive writing can reduce stress and improve emotional well-being.

2 - Connecting regularly with other believers is equally powerful. Small groups, Bible studies, or regular fellowship provide accountability, encouragement, and perspective. Social and spiritual support are consistently associated with better mental health outcomes. When others remind you of truth, it becomes easier to release shame and move toward forgiveness.

Healing often happens in community. You may need to give yourself permission to connect – or re-connect – with others.

When guilt is processed and grace is embraced, stress loses one of its strongest footholds.

3 - And once again, your internal message matters. Instead of “God has left me,” try, “I am overwhelmed, but He is still here.” Reframing doesn’t deny pain — it anchors truth.

Stress can cloud your sense of connection.

But it cannot remove God’s presence.

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