05/21/2026
As a functional medicine certified health coach, I spend a lot of time making people think. The questions I ask don't have "yes" or "no" answers. We might not get to the true answer in our current session. Lowering your blood pressure, reducing stress, making time for more exercise, or improving nutrition might be part of what you're working on. Those are obvious health goals, but they might not be involved in your goals in any way. A bit less obvious and equally import might be balancing work and personal life because being out of balance is affecting your health. Perhaps you need to work more or less but don't know how to find the proper balance.
My question to myself was, "Why do I feel like this?" Not how do I feel, but why. I'm working a lot. The questions go deeper from there.
Working with someone on our health and wellness requires a degree of vulnerability. A lot of people make themselves vulnerable when they're on one of my massage tables, nearly n**e and covered with a sheet and light blanket. The degree of trust between us is incredible. Others open up their lives to tell me what's wrong in their bodies, why somethings are off, and work through goals and plans to correct issues. I don't at all mind showing you my vulnerabilities.
My work and personal lives are out of balance at the moment, so I'm on a bodywork break. Mentally, I'm ready to go back to work (I'm only on day two of my 12-day break...) in massage and stretching, by my neck and shoulders are not. I absolutely LOVE what I do in massage, but my body needs a rest. I'll be touching up the paint on the studio. Later this morning, and I'll dig holes and plant perennials shrubs and flowers. These are things that make my neck and shoulders ache more. For balance, I'll see Amanda for a deep tissue massage.
I don't have a good balance of work and home life right now. That's caused me to lose a lot of the time I need outdoors to stay physically active, sleep well, and get grounded. There's a balance to this, and I'll figure it out.
Think this through. No answer required here, of course, though you're most welcome to share. In what ways are you out of balance?
Wishing you a great day!
Be well,
Robin
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