04/28/2026
Your kid isn’t only giving you a hard time. They’re having one.
I know. It doesn’t FEEL that way when dinner’s burning and they’re losing their mind over the wrong color cup.
But every big behavior has an even bigger feeling hiding behind it. The screaming? Overwhelm. The defiance? Powerlessness. The shutdown? Fear.
They don’t have the words yet. So they use their bodies. Loudly. In public. Of course.
Next time it happens, try asking yourself: what are they feeling that they can’t say? That one shift changes everything.