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Andrea Kinnaugh, LMFT

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03/11/2026

It's insulting to your pleasure to use it as a band aid. S*x is a gorgeous form of communication but it is supposed to be a congruent extension of what has already been shared. It cannot replace the healing and intimate powers of when clarity with words is required.

*x

03/04/2026

Our unfulfilled kiddo dreams are a fork in the road - you can take the path of seeing them as unachieved regrets and failures OR you can take my preferred path and you can keep dreaming.

At a psychological level, our willingness to dream is a neuroplasticity hack that unstucks our brain and allows for imagination, creativity, and happiness in the possibility of what-if!

Dreams are insights into our needs, but not necessarily goal posts. So we may need to update our dreams to our present self but the allowing of a wish, regardless of its practicality, lights a much needed fire in our souls.

Our ability to hold our creativity, style, and authenticity even when others can't see our vision means that our passion is not connected someone else's measure. I cannot say there won't be rejection and roadblocks but why can't our belief in ourselves be limitless?

02/26/2026

Happy February! This month's glimmers are all the things that brought me comfort, connection, and hope. I ask for so much vulnerability and trust in my therapy room that sharing these pieces of me and my world seem like a fair offering. These items and songs are truly in my life. There are clinical boundaries needed in my professional world, I'm learning more and more the importance of letting people in my personal life into my true world. My question for you to ponder is, are you letting people into your beautifully weird world??

This month's playlist is drama you can dance to, make-out to, or cry to. It's whatever you need.

The glimmers

Mug - a gorgeous mug to hold all the gorgeous hot beverages in this chilly weather

Kumquats - little bursts of joy! They're sweet like an orange/ sour like a lemon and I had so much fun introducing them to my youngest niece

Babybel- therapists love snacks because we don't typically have time for a meal between sessions and these gems are the perfect bite

Bay leaf - I add them to soups and stews or burn them written with hopes and wishes. Either way, they're magic

Mushrooms - who doesn't love whimsy?? These salt and pepper shakers are the perfect dose and apropos to my KAP work

Poems- a couple of years ago, I started to buy a book of poetry in February. This one is a dark, s*xy, beautiful gem. I was blessed to see him perform before he passed and still enjoy the rawness of his words

I hope your February has had moments fun and ease ✨️

02/18/2026

In the solar system of a relationship, each person is like a planet orbiting around the relationship like it's the sun...

If one person decides to put themselves in the center, the relationship and the other person orbit around them; centering the relationship around that person's needs. The gravitational pull is based on their perspectives, wants, and point of view which leaves out the other person and the relationships needs. It becomes caretaking.

Have you been able to center the relationship or is one of you wanting to eclipse the sun?

02/12/2026

The act of chosing to be in love is so much more than being in a relationship. It's not falling or just being but an active choice that you continue to choose again and again. Most importantly, it requires both people to be ready for it to work. Are you ready?

02/04/2026

How do you pursue love?

01/28/2026

January 2026 has been a month. The most common response when I ask people in my everyday world how they are includes a disclaimer - personally, they are well... everything else, not so much. I love the truth in this because I know it's important to hold the good and it's just as important to acknowledge what sucks. If we don't, it's incongruent and therefore dysregulating. My nudge is to allow all the feelings and to remember we can hold more than one feeling at the same time. This month's playlist does just that if you need help tapping into all those emotions.

The glimmers ✨️
Coffee Pot - it is a perfectly brewed cup that stays warm while not getting burned.
TRX - this is strength and whimsy combined - if you're gonna do push ups, why not do it fighting gravity??
Sumo oranges - reminder that not all sweet things can last all seasons
Matches - I love that matches are coming back. They're both nostalgic and useful.
Lip gloss - I no longer have chapped lips because of this beauty. Plus, the color is all class.
Pom Pom Trivet - instant inspiration to make a warm dish to share with friends that you will place ontop of this cutie

As always, I hope your days have moments of fun and ease.

01/21/2026

One of my favorite topics in a relational session is to ask each person what they need their person to do to care for them? How can they get it right?

The simplicity of the answer is often astounding -
a kiss when they get home
putting their phone down when they're talking
a compliment
some alone time
making / getting them a coffee or tea and knowing how they like it

What often happens in these moments is a defensive responses of how they ARE showing their love and the disappointment of that not counting and this my dears is where it gets tricky.

We want to care for those we love in ways that make sense to us or in ways that have worked before but humans aren't simple, linear lines. We change and our needs shift but our desire to be cared for remains consistent.

So much of loving someone is willing to learn how to love them over and over again. So much of being loved is sharing what we need. Here's your nudge to listen and share.

01/14/2026

I'm blessed with having friendships that are over 30 years old. I would be mortified if they held me to the same person I was when they met me. Like, can you imagine someone expecting you to forever be like your younger self??

I have so much love for the past versions of me, but I also have lived those decisions, both good and not so good, and therefore have grown... and changed.

Relationships are built at the moment of time we meet someone with that moment-in-time version of us. Long-lasting relationships are built on the expectation that we will meet a new version of each other many times over.

Here is your nudge to hold the uncomfortable oof that people will change regardless of our approval and to see this as an opportunity to grow with them.

01/07/2026

So much of relational work is learning that how we perceive a situation is what we believe happened. If the relationship has been in an unsteady spot or you're not sure what direction it's going, every sigh, delayed text, pause may not be coming from a negative place but is perceived with a negative perspective. So how do we start to get things back to the positive? We talk.

Say the I want you, I love you, I miss you, etc

Acknowledge that you sighed, but it was about something else and not them.

Ask for clarification if you thought you heard something in a negative way. (In a curious not retaliatory way)

Share that you are upset and when you can talk about it.

There are too many songs, books, movies, etc, where all they had to do was say the thing. If you want this person to know how much you want this to work, you have to be willing to put yourself out there in a very clear way. So, here's your nudge to not be a tragic statistic of silence.

01/01/2026

Wishing you a new year with moments of peace, connection, rest, and celebration ✨️✨️✨️

#2026

12/26/2025

wishing you merry mindfulness this holiday season

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