11/23/2025
From class this morning…
Years ago, my Teacher told me once to “stay for the lesson.” I had asked for her opinion about the difficulty I was having with a person I felt was trying to control me. How could I stay true to myself as I navigated my way through even though what I really wanted to do was get the hell away from her? I was mad that I needed certain things from her professionally.
When I didn’t get the permission I was seeking—telling me it was absolutely right that I should walk away or at least confront her—I was pretty upset. Mostly because I just didn’t want to spend the energy on her or the situation. You know how when you just feel totally exhausted at the thought of dealing with it? But I thought about my Teacher’s words and thought about them more and realized she was right. And it turned out to be some of the best advice I’ve ever received. Both for that situation and many others through the years.
Treat everything—every thought, feeling, experience as a messenger. And be grateful.