01/21/2026
Everybody does NOT need access to your marriage.
Read that again. Slowly.
Not your friends.
Not your family.
Not your coworkers.
Not your group chat.
Your marriage is a covenant, not a community project.
Every time you let outside voices in,
you give them influence over decisions they don’t have to live with.
Boundaries are not secrecy.
Boundaries are protection.
Strong couples agree on this:
• We don’t vent to people who can’t help us heal
• We don’t allow disrespect—toward our spouse or our union
• We handle conflict in-house, not online
• We present a united front, even when we’re still working it out
If everyone has access, no one has authority.
What you don’t protect, you will eventually lose.
So guard your marriage like it’s sacred…
because it is.
