02/02/2026
Choosing who will support you during birth matters. A lot.
Birth works best when you feel safe, supported, and comfortable. Your body needs that sense of safety to relax, open, and do the work it was designed to do. The people in the room play a huge role in creating that environment.
Your support people should be those who trust birth, respect your choices, and support your decisions without questioning or adding doubt. A doula can also help guide and support your birth partner so they’re able to show up for you with confidence and calm.
You don’t owe anyone a spot in your birth space just because they’re family or really want to be there. This isn’t about meeting expectations or sparing feelings. This is about you, your body, and your journey into parenthood. Choose the people who help you feel confident, safe, and supported.