
07/25/2025
Your child used to love the game. But now? Game day = stress.
Performance anxiety in sports is more common than you might think—and it’s often misunderstood. It can look like tummy aches before practice, explosive outbursts after mistakes, or sudden withdrawal from a once-loved sport.
Here are 4 therapist-backed ways to help your child feel more confident in group sports:
🎧 Teach calming tools before and during competition (like belly breathing, visualization, or listening to their favorite music).
💬 Normalize their nerves: Instead of saying “Don’t be scared,” try “It’s okay to feel nervous—your body is preparing to do something brave.”
🔁 Praise progress, not perfection: Applaud effort, sportsmanship, and resilience—not just scores.
👥 Be their safe space: After the game, avoid replaying every mistake. Offer unconditional support and reflection only when they’re ready.
Performance doesn’t define their worth and therapy can help your child rebuild self-trust, emotional regulation, and joy in what they love.
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