Coast Counseling LLC

Coast Counseling LLC Choosing to engage in therapy is a journey to wellness that takes courage. I am honored to be walking with this path with you. Hours are by appointment.

Please reach out with any questions. Email or through my website is the best way to contact me. Nicole Tilton is a LPC in the State of NJ who has been working in the field for over 10 years. She has in BA Psychology from The Richard Stockton College of New Jersey and a MS in Mental Health Counseling with a certificate in Couples & Family Counseling from Monmouth University. She also is a National Certified Counselor, an Approved Clinical Supervisor, and a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. Nicole specializes in working with individuals who have been affected by trauma as well as grief and loss. She also works with primary mental health diagnoses including Depression, Anxiety, and Bipolar Disorder from ages 10 and up. To receive the credential of Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, Nicole has completed and continues to receive education that consisted of the classifications of trauma and trauma-related disorders, assessment of psychological trauma including PTSD and complex trauma, evidenced based trauma approaches, and primary treatment issues in trauma therapy.

11/25/2025

🦃🍁 Thanksgiving is a time for gratitude… and healthy boundaries. 🍁🦃

As you gather with family and friends, remember:
You’re allowed to step away.
You’re allowed to say “no.”
You’re allowed to protect your peace.

Setting boundaries isn’t rude—it’s an act of self-respect and emotional safety. 💛
Give yourself permission to choose what feels right for you this holiday season.

Take a breath. Check in with yourself. And honor the limits that support your well-being. 🌿✨

11/25/2025

🌧️ Mental illness is more than just an “episode.” 🌧️

It’s not a moment you “snap out of,” a phase you “get over,” or a bad day that simply passes. Mental health conditions can be ongoing, complex, and deeply intertwined with how we think, feel, and navigate the world.

💛 Healing isn’t linear.
💛 Support matters.
💛 And you deserve understanding—not minimization.

When we recognize that mental illness isn’t just a single moment but a broader experience, we create room for compassion, patience, and real connection.

If you’re managing something that others can’t see, your strength is real. Your experience is valid. And you don’t have to walk through it alone. 💚

11/24/2025

✨ Being assertive isn’t the same as being aggressive — and learning the difference can transform your relationships and your mental health. ✨

Assertiveness means expressing your needs clearly and respectfully. It’s about standing up for yourself without stepping on anyone else. 💛

Aggression, on the other hand, pushes past boundaries, prioritizing your needs over others and often leaving tension in its wake. 🚫🔥

When you choose assertiveness, you choose healthy communication, stronger boundaries, and more authentic connections. And remember: it’s a skill — one you can learn and strengthen over time.

11/22/2025

🌿 Therapy is powerful… and sometimes adding medication is too. 💊💚

Deciding when it’s time to include medication in your mental health treatment isn’t a sign of failure—it’s a sign of self-awareness and strength.

If you’re noticing that:
✨ Therapy is helping, but not quite enough
✨ Your symptoms are getting in the way of daily life
✨ You’re feeling stuck despite doing the work
✨ Your mind and body feel constantly overwhelmed

…it might be time to talk with a professional about whether medication could support your healing.

Just like you’d take medication for blood pressure or a cold, caring for your mental health deserves the same compassion and openness. 🧠💛

Choosing medication is not “giving up”—it’s giving yourself a better chance.
You deserve every tool that helps you feel well.

11/21/2025

🌿 Did you know that mental fatigue and physical fatigue aren’t the same thing? 🌿

Both can drain you — but for very different reasons.

🧠 Mental fatigue shows up when your brain has been “on” for too long… decision-making, worrying, problem-solving, caring for others, or carrying emotional weight.

💪 Physical fatigue is your body’s way of saying it needs rest, nourishment, or recovery.

Sometimes we try to treat one with the solution for the other — and that’s when frustration builds. Understanding the difference helps you meet your true needs with compassion.

Take a moment today to check in with yourself: Is my mind tired? My body tired? Or both?
Your answer can guide your next step toward balance.

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11/20/2025

✨ Boundaries aren’t just words — they’re actions. ✨

In therapy, we often talk about the importance of setting boundaries… but here’s the truth: a boundary without a consequence is just a suggestion.

If you say what you won’t accept but nothing changes when that line is crossed, you’re not protecting your peace — you’re hoping others will. And your healing deserves more than hope… it deserves follow-through. 💛

Consequences aren’t punishments. They’re commitments to yourself. They sound like:
➡️ “If you speak to me that way, I’ll end the conversation.”
➡️ “If you continue to ignore this limit, I will take space.”
➡️ “If this pattern doesn’t change, I will choose differently.”

Holding the boundary is where the growth happens. You’re allowed to mean what you say. You’re allowed to protect your energy. You’re allowed to follow through. 💫

11/20/2025

💬 You can disagree with someone and still treat them with respect.
Two things can be true at once — you can hold your own beliefs and honor another person’s humanity.

In a world that often encourages us to “pick a side,” remember: healthy relationships are built on empathy, curiosity, and choosing connection over conflict. 💛🌿

The goal isn’t to win an argument — it’s to understand each other better, even when your perspectives don’t align. Respect is a bridge, not a compromise of your values. 🌉✨

Let’s practice pausing, listening, and speaking with kindness — especially when we disagree.

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🌱 Sometimes, it’s okay to pause and feel what you’re feeling. This TikTok is a reminder that therapy isn’t about “fixing...
11/18/2025

🌱 Sometimes, it’s okay to pause and feel what you’re feeling. This TikTok is a reminder that therapy isn’t about “fixing” everything right away — it’s about creating space for understanding, healing, and growth. 🌿

If you’ve ever wondered whether therapy could help you make sense of what’s going on inside, you’re not alone. Whether it’s anxiety, burnout, or just wanting to feel more grounded — you don’t have to navigate it all by yourself.

👉 We offer a safe, non-judgmental space to explore your thoughts and emotions. Reach out if you want to learn more or set up a session. You deserve support — and we’re here to help.

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11/17/2025

💬 Advocating for yourself with family and friends isn’t selfish — it’s self-respect.
Your needs, boundaries, and feelings matter, even with the people you love most. ❤️

It can feel uncomfortable at first, especially if you’re used to keeping the peace or putting others first. But every time you use your voice, you strengthen your sense of self and create healthier, more balanced relationships. 🌱

✨ Remember:
🗣️ You’re allowed to say “this doesn’t work for me.”
🧘‍♀️ You’re allowed to protect your peace.
💛 You’re allowed to choose what feels healthy and supportive.

Advocacy isn’t confrontation — it’s clarity. And clarity builds connection. 🤝

11/16/2025

🌿 Grounding Skills: Your Anchor in the Storm 🌿

When overwhelm hits, grounding skills can bring you back to the present—back to safety, clarity, and control. ✨
Whether it’s focusing on your breath, naming five things you can see, or feeling your feet firmly on the floor, these simple tools can help reconnect your mind and body in moments of anxiety or stress. 💚

Grounding doesn’t erase the storm—but it reminds you that you’re still standing. 🌱

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11/15/2025

🌟 Physical pain doesn’t just affect the body — it impacts the mind, too. 🌟

When we’re hurting physically, our emotional world often feels heavier. Chronic pain can increase stress, drain our energy, impact sleep, and even make day-to-day tasks feel overwhelming. 🧠💭

It’s important to remember:
✨ Your pain is real.
✨ Your feelings about it are real.
✨ You don’t have to navigate it alone.

Therapy can help you build coping strategies, understand the mind–body connection, and create more compassionate space for yourself as you heal. 💛

Taking care of your mental health is taking care of your physical health. 🤝

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11/14/2025

💊🌱 Consistency is care.
When it comes to mental health medication, taking it regularly isn’t just routine—it’s an act of support for your mind and body. Consistency helps your medication work effectively, keeps your symptoms more stable, and gives you the best chance to feel grounded and balanced.

It’s not about perfection—it’s about commitment and compassion for yourself. Set reminders, pair it with daily habits, and celebrate the small wins. Your future self will thank you. 💚✨

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