01/18/2026
What if trauma wasn’t what happened to you…
but what you learned to believe about yourself because of it?
Most emotional wounds and limiting beliefs aren’t formed from the actual event or circumstance…they’re formed from the meaning we attached.
The majority of our subconscious programming is set before the age of eight.
Before we have logic, language, or full context, we interpret experiences through emotion, mental pictures and repetition.
So a child doesn’t think: “My parent is emotionally unavailable because of their own wounds.”
They think: “It must be me.”
Those meanings get stored in the subconscious as familiarity.
And familiarity feels like safety even when it doesn’t serve you.
That’s why:
•You may find yourself repeating toxic relationship patterns
•You’re drawn to emotionally unavailable or addicted partners
You’ve learned to function in your masculine energy, causing you to lack playfulness, people-please, or stay hyper-independent.
Not because you want these patterns.
But because the subconscious is loyal to what it recognizes and interprets anything different as a threat.
Awareness is great, but it’s only the first step.
Patterns don’t change through insight alone. They change when they are rewired.
And it’s work you don’t just owe to yourself,
but to the future relationships and generations that come after you.
I help clients through hypnosis, intuitive insight, and integrated attachment coaching to release survival patterns and build secure, healthy relationships starting from the inside out.
If you’re ready to break the cycle and do the deeper work, I’m here to guide you.
With love,
Jenna