Kate Scharff, MSW

12/23/2025

Honored that my new book for middle schoolers, "We Need to Talk About Divorce," tops this terrific list from this highly respected source. Check out all the great books featured on this list at the link below!

The books below help young readers understand divorce, name their feelings, and trust that love and connection remain constant.

12/15/2025

‘“Because We Both Love You” — New Year’s Resolutions for Divorced Parents’ article can be found at the HuffPost https://www.huffpost.com/entry/new-years-resolutions-for_b_4505703

I wrote this for the Huffington Post several years ago. I was so bowled over by the thousands of emails I received from grateful parents and divorce professionals that posting it has become a New Year tradition. What children of divorce want their parents to know never changes. I hope this article will help you and your coparent work together a little better this year. Sending my loving support for 2026.
Kate

12/05/2025

Navigating Winter Break and the December Holidays After Divorce: Pt. 4 - Be Kid-Centric

If you’d like more guidance on helping children manage the holidays — and all the changes that come with living in two homes — you’ll find practical tools, honest language, and emotional support in my book: ‘We Need to Talk About Divorce: An Important Book About Separation, Step-Families, and Feeling Heard.’ It’s written for middle school children and their parents, and offers ways to talk openly, lower anxiety, and strengthen connection — even through big transitions. Available at https://tr.ee/HWKMxD

Have other questions about navigating separation and divorce with or without children? Comment them below and I’ll answer them in a future post.

12/04/2025

Navigating Winter Break and the December Holidays After Divorce: Pt. 3 - Don’t Split the Day

If you’d like more guidance on helping children manage the holidays — and all the changes that come with living in two homes — you’ll find practical tools, honest language, and emotional support in my book: ‘We Need to Talk About Divorce: An Important Book About Separation, Step-Families, and Feeling Heard.’ It’s written for middle school children and their parents, and offers ways to talk openly, lower anxiety, and strengthen connection — even through big transitions. Available at https://tr.ee/HWKMxD

Have other questions about navigating separation and divorce with or without children? Comment them below and I’ll answer them in a future post.

12/01/2025

Navigating Winter Break and the December Holidays After Divorce: Pt. 2 - Ways to Divide the Break

If you’d like more guidance on helping children manage the holidays — and all the changes that come with living in two homes — you’ll find practical tools, honest language, and emotional support in my book: ‘We Need to Talk About Divorce: An Important Book About Separation, Step-Families, and Feeling Heard.’ It’s written for middle school children and their parents, and offers ways to talk openly, lower anxiety, and strengthen connection — even through big transitions. Available at https://tr.ee/HWKMxD

Have other questions about navigating separation and divorce with or without children? Comment them below and I’ll answer them in a future post.

11/29/2025

Navigating Winter Break and the December Holidays After Divorce: Pt. 1 - Clearly Define the Break

If you’d like more guidance on helping children manage the holidays — and all the changes that come with living in two homes — you’ll find practical tools, honest language, and emotional support in my book: ‘We Need to Talk About Divorce: An Important Book About Separation, Step-Families, and Feeling Heard.’ It’s written for middle school children and their parents, and offers ways to talk openly, lower anxiety, and strengthen connection — even through big transitions.

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Have other questions about the holidays or other post-split co-parenting challenges? Comment them below and I’ll answer them in a future post.

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11/12/2025

5 Tips for Handling Thanksgiving After Divorce: Pt. 5 - Keep an Open Mind

If you’d like more guidance on helping children manage the holidays — and all the changes that come with living in two homes — you’ll find practical tools, honest language, and emotional support in my book: ‘We Need to Talk About Divorce: An Important Book About Separation, Step-Families, and Feeling Heard.’ It’s written for middle school children and their parents, and offers ways to talk openly, lower anxiety, and strengthen connection — even through big transitions.

Available at https://tr.ee/HWKMxD

MacKids Books
Macmillan Publishers
Macmillan Audio
Macmillan Children's School & Library

11/12/2025

5 Tips for Handling Thanksgiving After Divorce: Pt. 4 - Think Before you Call

If you’d like more guidance on helping children manage the holidays — and all the changes that come with living in two homes — you’ll find practical tools, honest language, and emotional support in my book: ‘We Need to Talk About Divorce: An Important Book About Separation, Step-Families, and Feeling Heard.’ It’s written for middle school children and their parents, and offers ways to talk openly, lower anxiety, and strengthen connection — even through big transitions.

Available at https://tr.ee/HWKMxD

MacKids Books
Macmillan Publishers
Macmillan Audio
Macmillan Children's School & Library

11/11/2025

5 Tips for Handling Thanksgiving After Divorce: Pt. 3 - Don’t Split the Day

If you’d like more guidance on helping children manage the holidays — and all the changes that come with living in two homes — you’ll find practical tools, honest language, and emotional support in my book: ‘We Need to Talk About Divorce: An Important Book About Separation, Step-Families, and Feeling Heard.’ It’s written for middle school children and their parents, and offers ways to talk openly, lower anxiety, and strengthen connection — even through big transitions.

Available at https://tr.ee/HWKMxD

11/10/2025

5 Tips for Handling Thanksgiving after Divorce: Pt. 2 - What if One Parent has a Family Tradition and the Other Doesn't?

If you’d like more guidance on helping children manage the holidays — and all the changes that come with living in two homes — you’ll find practical tools, honest language, and emotional support in my book: ‘We Need to Talk About Divorce: An Important Book About Separation, Step-Families, and Feeling Heard.’ It’s written for middle school children and their parents, and offers ways to talk openly, lower anxiety, and strengthen connection — even through big transitions.

Available at https://tr.ee/HWKMxD

MacKids Books
Macmillan Publishers
Macmillan Audio
Macmillan Children's School & Library

11/04/2025

5 Tips for Handling Thanksgiving after Divorce: Pt. 1 - Define the Holiday.

If you’d like more guidance on helping children manage the holidays — and all the changes that come with living in two homes — you’ll find practical tools, honest language, and emotional support in my book: ‘We Need to Talk About Divorce: An Important Book About Separation, Step-Families, and Feeling Heard.’ It’s written for middle school children and their parents, and offers ways to talk openly, lower anxiety, and strengthen connection — even through big transitions.

Available at https://tr.ee/HWKMxD

MacKids Books
Macmillan Publishers
Macmillan Audio
Macmillan Children's School & Library

10/27/2025

Halloween Post-Split: 5 Ways to Keep it Sweet (for your kids) Pt. 5

If you’d like more guidance on helping children manage the holidays — and all the changes that come with living in two homes — you’ll find practical tools, honest language, and emotional support in my book: ‘We Need to Talk About Divorce: An Important Book About Separation, Step-Families, and Feeling Heard.’ It’s written for middle school children and their parents, and offers ways to talk openly, lower anxiety, and strengthen connection — even through big transitions.

Available at https://tr.ee/HWKMxD

MacKids Books
Macmillan Publishers
Macmillan Audio
Macmillan Children's School & Library