01/09/2026
Richard J. Altemueller
October 30, 1935 - January 7, 2026
Richard J. Altemueller, 90, of Washington, passed away on January 7, 2026. Richard, son of the late Frank Altemueller and Anna nee Roetheli, was born on October 30, 1935, in Washington. He received his education from St. Francis Borgia High School. On April 11, 1959, he was united in marriage to Marlene Gross at St. Francis Borgia Church. Mr. Altemueller served his country honorably as a member of the United States Army.
Richard owned and operated Altemueller's Restaurant in Washington alongside his wife Marlene, for many years. Prior to opening the restaurant, they catered many weddings and events over the years – too many to count. Richard jokingly referred to himself as the “chief” of PR and BS, a title that fit him well, as he loved visiting with the patrons and teasing the staff.
He was deeply involved in the community, serving on the ambulance board, and holding memberships in the Rotary Club, Knights of Columbus, Elks, and Jaycees, among others. Richard was a member of St. Francis Borgia Church where he attended regularly with his family.
In his free time, he enjoyed fishing and spending time at the Lake of the Ozarks with his family, especially taking his grandchildren out on his boat. He was an avid St Louis Cardinals fan. For the past 10 years Richard was a familiar face at McDonald’s, where he met daily with his early morning coffee buddies.
Richard will be greatly missed by his family, friends, and the many lives he touched.
He was preceded in death by his parents; wife, Marlene Altemueller; two sisters, Lois Evans and Donna Hoffmann and husband Gary and In-laws, Jeanie Buscher, Carol Gross, and Jerry Alferman.
Among his survivors are his children, Mike Altemueller and wife Valerie of Lebanon, MO, Judy Obermark and husband Kevin of Washington, Tim Altemueller and wife Jean of Beaufort, Mary Ann Walde and husband Dan of Washington, and Barb Scheffer and fiance Shawn Tuskey of Huntersville, NC; thirteen grandchildren, Geri Carlyon and husband Josh, Dominic Obermark and wife Kirsten Brauch, Dale Obermark and fiance Caitlin Sams, Andrew Obermark and wife Sierra, Heidi Hellebusch and husband Jack, Cory Altemueller and wife Alysia, Megan Beck and husband Tyler, Charles Walde and wife Paige, Grace Mills and husband Micah, Henry Walde and wife Gwyneth, Nicholas Hellebusch and wife Kari, Hannah Malloy and husband Brian, and Isabella Scheffer and significant other Dustin Hale; thirteen great-grandchildren; brothers and sisters-in-law, Michael Gross and wife Sharon, Fritzie Alferman, and Michael Buscher; loved ones and friends.
A visitation will be held on Sunday, January 11, 2026, from 2-6 p.m. at Nieburg-Vitt, Miller Funeral Home. Mass of Christian Burial will begin at 10 a.m. on Monday, January 12, 2026, at the St. Francis Borgia Church. Interment will be in the St. Francis Borgia Cemetery. Memorial donations can be made to the St. Francis Borgia Church or the Pregnancy Assistance Center.