Real Solutions Professional Counseling

02/08/2026

I'm Building a Self I Can Live With✨🫂

02/08/2026

🧠 💕 How we are loved as children doesn’t just shape our memories--- it shapes our nervous systems.

Decades of attachment research show that early caregiving experiences help wire how we experience:
• closeness
• safety
• trust
• conflict
• repair

When children feel consistently seen, soothed, and emotionally safe, their brains learn that relationships are a place of comfort—not threat. This becomes the blueprint they carry into friendships, partnerships, and parenting later in life.

This doesn’t mean parents have to be perfect.
✅ It means repair matters.
✅ Consistency matters.
✅ Emotional presence matters.

Love in childhood isn’t about grand gestures---it’s built in everyday moments of responsiveness, warmth, and connection.

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01/31/2026

IF YOU EVER NEED TO FIGURE OUT WHO THE REAL BULLY IS AND WHO THE ACTUAL VICTIM IS, LOOK AT WHO STANDS ALONE.

THE VICTIM IS ALMOST ALWAYS HATED FOR CARRYING IT ON THEIR OWN, WHILE THE BULLY IS SURROUNDED BY GROUPS, ENABLERS, AND PEOPLE WHO LAUGH ALONG TO KEEP IT GOING.

The victim bears the weight quietly, resilient yet unseen, often judged for their strength instead of being supported for it.

The bully thrives in noise, in numbers, in the illusion of power, feeding off the approval and complicity of those too afraid or too blind to speak the truth.

In the end, history remembers who stood alone with courage and who hid behind crowds with cruelty.

01/28/2026

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🌱 Today, your child is more capable than they’ve ever been — and still so very young.

They can do more, understand more, and handle more than yesterday…
and they still need softness, patience, guidance, and grace.

💛 Both things can be true at the same time.

When their behavior feels big, remember how little they still are. When they surprise you with growth, pause to notice how far they’ve come. Parenting lives in this in-between — holding pride and tenderness together.

⏳ Slow down when you can. Stay close when it’s hard.

Childhood is happening right now.

01/28/2026

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01/25/2026

01/23/2026

I didn’t raise them to repeat my story. I raised them to be stronger, freer, and to go further than I ever did, and being their mother will always be my greatest honor.

01/23/2026

Our kids are learning who they are through how we respond to them.

When we lead with patience, understanding, and love, we
give them a safe place to grow,
even on their hardest days.