12/12/2025
“It’s me. I’m the problem. It’s me.” Taylor Swift has a point. 99% of the time, fighting what is happening to us causes more suffering than what is happening. If we can stop resisting, rejecting, and refusing whatever we fear, a surprising peacefulness washes over us. We find ourselves free to live our way through it (whatever “it” is) – which is always much less awful than worrying about it was.
Click here to read my whole essay about finding peace no matter what is going on.
“It’s me. I’m the problem. It’s me.” Taylor Swift has a point. Usually our resistance to what is happening to us is more upsetting than what is happening.