Doane Beal & Ames - West Harwich

Doane Beal & Ames - West Harwich Doane Beal and Ames in West Harwich, Massachusetts, has provided funeral and memorial services on Cape Cod since 1926.

For more than 90 years, we have provided families comfort and understanding when they need it most.

ATTENTION📣📣SCAM ALERT❗️❗️ Dear Friends, It has been brought to our attention of a known scam currently targeting some of...
07/28/2023

ATTENTION📣📣SCAM ALERT❗️❗️

Dear Friends, It has been brought to our attention of a known scam currently targeting some of the beloved families we service here on Cape Cod and beyond. These individuals are calling/texting unsuspecting families and impersonating an employee of the funeral home demanding deposits be made to an unknown account or the funeral services will be canceled.
Please know this is a SCAM! These calls and messages are NOT coming from anyone here at Doane, Beal, and Ames. We urge anyone who may receive a call from someone who identifies themselves as an employee of Doane, Beal, and Ames with these demands to NOT disclose any information to them and to call the funeral home right away. We also encourage to call your local police station and file a report at

Protect your community by reporting fraud, scams, and bad business practices

12/11/2021

Clare A. Stone (Part 3)
JUNE 1, 1934 – NOVEMBER 30, 2021

Thank you for joining us in celebrating the life of Clare A. Stone, for online condolences, please visit www.doanebealamesharwich.com

04/23/2021
Stephen P. FordAugust 7, 1952–April 9, 2021Surrounded by his family, and with an Irish tune playing, died peacefully jus...
04/13/2021

Stephen P. Ford
August 7, 1952–April 9, 2021
Surrounded by his family, and with an Irish tune playing, died peacefully just as the sunset left his room on Friday, April 9, 2021. He took on life with caring, spirit, commitment, and a side of humor, as all who knew him understood. Born in Virginia Beach on August 7, 1952, he was the loving son of the late Barbara Brett Ford. The youngest of five children, he grew up in Harwich. Stephen met his wife, Patsy, at American University in 1976. They were married in Pittsburgh on October 6, 1979. The couple moved to Harwich to begin their life together where they had three daughters. They moved to Pittsburgh in 1997, where they spent the next 20 years, returning to Harwich in 2017. Stephen began his career in politics, working for Congressman Gerry Studds, before transitioning to financial services. He was proud to represent the Town of Harwich on the Board of Selectmen for the last several years. Stephen will be deeply missed by his wife, Patsy Welsh Ford, his daughters, Caroline Ford Regan (Sean), Erin Ford Gallagher (Patrick), and Molly Ford Meinert (Max), his six grandchildren, Tierney and Rory Regan, Eoin, Sloane, and Brennan Gallagher, and Connor Meinert, and one on the way, to whom he was known as Beach. He is also survived by his five siblings and their spouses, Patricia Barnicle (David), Peter Ford (Sara), Robert Ford (Linda), and Michael Ford (Judy), his devoted dog, Tadhy, and loving family and friends. Stephen valued nothing above his family.
Visiting hours will be held at Doane Beal and Ames Funeral Home in Harwich on Wednesday, April 14 from 3–7 pm. Mass of Christian burial will be at Holy Trinity Parish in Harwich on Thursday, April 15 at 10 am. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Boys Hope Girls Hope of Pittsburgh (https://bhghpittsburgh.org/donate/) and The Family Pantry of Cape Cod (https://thefamilypantry.com).
For online condolences, please visit www.doanebealamesharwich.com .

FEMA COVID-19 Funeral Assistance Guidelines.If you lost a loved one due to COVID-19 and paid for that loved one's funera...
04/12/2021

FEMA COVID-19 Funeral Assistance Guidelines.

If you lost a loved one due to COVID-19 and paid for that loved one's funeral, interment or cremation after January 20, 2020, the Federal Emergency Management Agency (FEMA) has stepped up to provide reimbursement for those expenses.

You may qualify for up to $9,000 for funeral costs related to a single loved one and up to $35,500 for funeral costs related to multiple COVID-19 deaths.

Applications for assistance open Monday, April 12, 2021, through a dedicated FEMA call center at 844-684-6333 (or 800-462-7585 for TTY).

FEMA does not permit us to submit documentation on your family's behalf.

In fact, no one can register you for FEMA Funeral Assistance but you. FEMA has received reports of scammers reaching out to people offering to register them for funeral benefits. FEMA has not sent any such notifications and will not contact you before you register for the program.

Learn more and find out if you qualify for reimbursement HERE.

We continue to serve our guests with the highest standard of health and safety.

As always, we are committed to honoring your loved one with the highest level of dignity. And we will ensure you and your guests feel safe conducting services with us.

Unfortunately, there may be unavoidable delays during this challenging time. We apologize for lengthy hold times or delays in arrangements as we serve each family with the highest level of care and compassion.

For your safety, we have developed rigorous health and safety procedures in conjunction with local, state, provincial and CDC guidelines. We are offering multiple options for arrangements and services to serve you, including:
•In-person arrangements and pre-planning consultations at the location or your home.
•Phone, email and web arrangements to help families with funeral arrangements.
•Livestreamed funeral and graveside services..
•Web and phone pre-planning consultations for funeral and cemetery arrangements.
•In-person or no-contact cemetery visitation and tours.

You can trust that we are taking the steps necessary to responsibly serve the communities we are privileged to be a part of. Please contact us directly if you have questions or for more information.

Harwich - Marion Long, 98, who lived with her husband, Jack, in Harwich from 1981 until Jack’s death in 2008, died on Ma...
03/30/2021

Harwich - Marion Long, 98, who lived with her husband, Jack, in Harwich from 1981 until Jack’s death in 2008, died on March 18, 2021, in her home in San Rafael California.

The daughter of George Willemsen and Emily Mardos Willemsen, Marion was born in New York, NY in 1922. She and Jack married in 1946, while living in Beechhurst, Queens NY, and raised their family in Ossining, NY, while Jack worked as an art director at Time & Life. They were married for 63 years.

In 2014, she had relocated to California to be closer to her family. Always active, and a role model for many, she continued socializing, baking, working out at the gym, and driving into her latest years until she had suffered a fall on March 3 of this year.

Known for her prodigious creative energy in making a home life for her family, Marion was the force that kept the generations together. She was a consummate decorator, gardener and hostess. She succeeded at quilt making, basketry, and, especially, flower arranging for which she received multiple blue ribbons. One of her trademark recipes, among many, was her sour cream cake.

A member of the First Congregation Church of Harwich, Marion volunteered much of her time to the church Thrift Shop. Together with Jack, she volunteered at the Food Pantry and Meals on Wheels, while Jack gifted monumental murals to his church.

She and Jack, who was a well-known Cape artist and art instructor on “Jack’s Place” his show on Cape Cod public access television, circulated among a large group of life-long friends and traveled widely.

Marion is survived by her two sons, Jeffrey of San Rafael, CA and Brian of El Prado, NM, her son-in-law, Ed Galvez of San Rafael, her niece Sally Willemsen of Sacramento, CA and eight other nieces and nephews.

Burial service will be held at Island Pond Cemetery, Harwich at noon on April 17. In lieu of flowers donations in Marion’s memory can be made to the Mass Audubon – Wellfleet Bay Wildlife Sanctuary.

Jack Bradley—a masterful photographer, a gifted sailor, and a beloved Cape Codder—passed away on Sunday evening, March 2...
03/23/2021

Jack Bradley—a masterful photographer, a gifted sailor, and a beloved Cape Codder—passed away on Sunday evening, March 21, at the Pleasant Bay Nursing Rehabilitation Center in Brewster. A man with the heart of a kindly lion--and the good taste to marry his marvelous wife, Nancy--has left us.

Born in Cotuit in 1934, Jack discovered his two passions—boating and Louis Armstrong—early, thanks to a father figure, Bob Hayden, who opened up his home to Jack, introducing him to Armstrong’s recordings on 78’s. Little did young Jack realize the role that Louis Armstrong would play in his life.

Jack wore many hats over the years—photographer, road manager, manager, writer, booking agent, charter boat captain, nightclub manager, disc jockey, lecturer, concert producer, and founder of both the New York Jazz Museum and co-founder, with the late Marie Marcus, of the Cape Cod Jazz Society. To those who knew him, Jack will always be remembered for his warm-hearted crustiness, his absolute honesty, his ribald humor, and his ceaseless generosity.

A graduate of the Massachusetts Maritime Academy, Jack did a stint as a Merchant Marine before landing in Manhattan in 1959 with a camera around his neck. Through a girlfriend, Jack met his idol Louis Armstrong, soon becoming like a son to the musical giant. “The first time I visited his home in Corona, Queens, I was so nervous that I was shaking,” remembered Jack. “Louis, though, had a way of putting you at ease. He put his hand on my shoulder and said, ‘Everything’s cool, man. We’re just two guys hanging out.’ Instantly my nerves vanished.”

For the next 12 years, Jack attended hundreds of Armstrong concerts and recording sessions. “I think Pops liked me because I never asked him for anything. He had a lot of hangers-on always asking for bread—and Louis was generous to a fault. But for me, just hanging out with him was enough.”

Jack believed that Armstrong was the perfect subject for any photographer. “With that face and his beautiful smile, how could anyone take a bad shot?” Yet a Jack Bradley photograph of Louis Armstrong seems to dig deeper to the true soul of the man. Perhaps it was because Pops loved, respected and trusted Jack so deeply.

Soon an in-demand photographer, Jack’s photographs of Armstrong, Duke Ellington, Billie Holiday, Coleman Hawkins, and dozens of others are considered to be some of the very finest Jazz photographs ever taken. In fact, Jack’s photograph of Billie Holiday in early 1959 is believed to be the very last picture of Lady Day taken in performance.

Jazz musicians loved Jack for his humor—and his heart. Jack Bradley’s generosity was legendary. When the trumpeter Henry “Red” Allen died in the spring of 1967, Jack immediately organized a benefit to bring in much needed money for the Allen family. When trumpeter Bobby Hackett died in Chatham in 1976, it was Jack who raised the money for a headstone for this magnificent musician. “When help is needed,” remembered the late cornettist Ruby Braff, “Jack is always there.”

Let’s allow Jack himself to speak about his wife Nancy, a retired Cape Cod educator: “To my dear Nancy, my wife, my partner and my love. Our time together has been more precious than any treasure.”

After leaving Manhattan for Cape Cod in 1976, Jack began a successful charter boat business, as well as co-founding the Cape Cod Jazz Society. Renowned Jazz musicians such as Bobby Hackett and Ruby Braff also moved to the Cape after Jack rhapsodized about our island’s many charms. A man driven by his love of Jazz, Jack founded a top-notch record store, “Vintage Jazz,” and produced his own Jazz radio show on WFCC.

A voracious collector, Jack amassed a Jazz collection of over 25,000 recordings (ten thousand 78’s alone!); over 200 hours of 16 milimeter Jazz films; over ten thousand pieces of sheet music; and thousands of photographs, books, magazines, and paintings. In 2005 Jack sold the Louis Armstrong section of his collection to the Louis Armstrong House Museum in Corona, Queens, nearly doubling the museum’s holdings. “I was paid a fair price,” he said at the time. “Plus, I now know that my collection will be taken good care of.”

When Jack visited New York City for the last time in February 2015, it was to see his superb photography exhibit at the Armstrong House Museum. When Jack visited nightclubs such as Iguana and Birdland, the musicians lined up to say hello and pay tribute to one of Jazz’s finest photographers, philanthropists, and characters.

Says legendary radio host Dick Golden: “It’s been said that ‘teachers affect eternity’ and among Jack’s many skills was his ability to teach…through his jazz photography, captivating lectures, and producing concerts. I’ll be eternally grateful to have had Jack and Nancy as friends and being a guest in their Harwich home viewing great Jazz films and listening to Louis Armstrong recordings. Whenever I had the honor of having Jack as a radio guest, or in many personal encounters and phone conversations, when Jack spoke about his friend Satchmo, I always felt as if Louis Armstrong was in the room with us!”

Throughout his life, Jack’s touchstone remained Pops, the one and only Louis Armstrong. “Louis is my grand guru and idol. I feel that everything great in music came from Pops. For me, Jazz is two words: Louis Armstrong.”

A celebration of Jack’s life will be held later in the spring. He is also the subject of a soon-to-be-released documentary, Through My Lens: Classic Jazz Visions with Jack Bradley.

Jack Bradley is survived by his beloved wife, Nancy, as well as by his brother Bob Bradley and his wife, Joan, of Punta Gorda, Florida; his sister Bonnie Lee Jordan of East Falmouth; his youngest sister Emmy Lou Shanley and her husband Brian of Saunderstown, Rhode Island; as well as three nephews and one niece. Jack is predeceased by his mother, Kay Beatty; his stepfather, Walter Beatty; his sister, Polly Ann Bradley; his nephew, Allen Bradley; and his niece Kim Quigley.

To leave an online condolence, please visit: https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/1011864

03/20/2021

Remembering Rodger S.Bacon

03/20/2021

Remembering Rodger S. Bacon

You and your family are invited to join us for a special virtual holiday memorial service. Our Holiday Remembrance Servi...
12/16/2020

You and your family are invited to join us for a special virtual holiday memorial service.
Our Holiday Remembrance Service may look a bit different from years past. We may not be gathering to pay tribute to the loved ones we’ve lost this year, but we can still come together to honor and remember them during this special time of year.
Please join us this coming Saturday, December 19th, 2020 at 2:00pm on Facebook for this year's remembrance video.

10/24/2020

Service of Committal for Jayne Elizabeth Sully (1966-2020) on Saturday, October 24th at 1pm.

09/29/2020

In a talk that's by turns heartbreaking and hilarious, writer and podcaster Nora McInerny shares her hard-earned wisdom about life and death. Her candid approach to something that will, let's face it, affect us all, is as liberating as it is gut-wrenching. Most powerfully, she encourages us to shift...

08/06/2020
07/10/2020

While it’s impossible to protect your children from grief, you can help ease some of their burden by pre-planning your funeral arrangements. Prepaid funeral plans ease financial and emotional pain at one of the hardest times of life.

06/21/2020

She texted her father's number on 4th anniversary of his death. This year she got a reply.

What are the small things you do to remember loved ones who have passed away?

Today we celebrate the fathers, grandfathers and father figures in our lives. What's the best (or worst) piece of advice...
06/20/2020

Today we celebrate the fathers, grandfathers and father figures in our lives. What's the best (or worst) piece of advice your dad gave?

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