Heather Finley Family Clinic

09/20/2025

🚩PART 2🚩

👉 It is not the situation that’s making them angry, but the feeling that they are entitled to things from others. They want to control others, and as a result, they have no control over themselves. So when they lose their wished-for control over someone, they “lose it.” They get angry.

The first thing you need to learn is that the person who is angry at you for setting boundaries is the one with the problem. If you do not realize this, you may think you have a problem. Maintaining your boundaries is good for other people; it will help them learn what their families of origin did not teach them: to respect other people.

▶️ Learn more at https://www.boundariesbooks.com/.

NOTE: Content posted here is from the books written by the Boundaries authors and is for informational purposes only; it should not be taken as professional advice. Although great care is taken to provide adequate context, all posts should be understood within the context of the substantial body of work by the authors.

09/20/2025

I have personally read this book numerous times. My patients past and present KNOW how often I recommend it! I even have a printed copy of the book cover ( dust jacket) that I give them so they know what to purchae.

Truth- people have no idea how much mental health we treat in Primary Care! Not just ear aches, high blood pressure, etc.

👉 The most common resistance one gets from the outside is anger. People who get angry at others for setting boundaries have a character problem. Self-centered, they think the world exists for them and their comfort. They see others as extensions of themselves.

When they hear “no,” they have the same reaction a two-year-old has when deprived of something: “Bad Mommy!” They feel as though the one who deprives them of their wishes is “bad,” and they become angry.

They are not righteously angry at a real offense. Nothing has been done “to them” at all. Someone will not do something “for them.” Their wish is being frustrated, and they get angry because they have not learned to delay gratification or to respect others’ freedom (Prov. 19:19).

▶️ Learn more at https://www.boundariesbooks.com/.

NOTE: Content posted here is from the books written by the Boundaries authors and is for informational purposes only; it should not be taken as professional advice. Although great care is taken to provide adequate context, all posts should be understood within the context of the substantial body of work by the authors.

08/31/2025

Important reminder! Our office will be closed on Monday, September 1st in observance of Labor Day. We'll be back on Tuesday, September 2nd, ready to assist you. Wishing you a joyful and relaxing Labor Day weekend from HFFC!

08/01/2025

07/13/2025

07/04/2025

The world is thrilled to welcome the most gorgeous baby girl ever!
💕Meet Miss Davey Kate! 💕💕

I don’t post often, but trust me, my camera is bursting with memories. There’s nothing quite like snuggling up with a beautiful newborn, getting neck kisses, and all that sweet sugar to brighten my day! This was love at first sight! Just ask her beautiful momma!

James 1:17

07/04/2025

The world is thrilled to welcome the most gorgeous baby girl ever!
💕Meet Miss Davey Kate! 💕💕

I don’t post often, but trust me, my camera is bursting with memories. There’s nothing quite like snuggling up with a beautiful newborn, getting neck kisses, and all that sweet sugar to brighten my day! This was love at first sight! Just ask her beautiful momma!

JAMES 1:17

Danielle Colvin you know it is true!

05/26/2025

We will never forget the sacrifices of those who fought for our freedom and independence. 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
We are closed today in honor of those who gave their lives for us.🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

03/09/2025

I hope this is encouragement for my friends & patients. It is completely normal that we all love the “mountain tops, and hate the valleys.“

KNOW AND BELIEVE that He promises never to leave us or forsake us.

And don’t ponder the now, the list(s) of the why’s you cannot make the mountain move, the future, the issues, the outside noise, or the situation.

He knew, He knows, and is present walking with you. He will always lead you. Good always wins.

02/24/2025

A 5-3 victory against St. Thomas More signified a West Monroe celebration for “a lot of different things.”

02/15/2025

WEST MONROE, La. (KTVE/KARD) — Due to the heavy rain on Saturday, February 15, 2025, the Krewe of Janus Mardi Gras Parade will now start at approximately 3 p.m. Photo courtesy of City of West…