CILO Victim Services Program - PBC

07/12/2025

Domestic violence is a pattern of behaviors where one partner in a relationship tries to gain power and control over another partner. Some studies estimate that nearly all abusers choose to commit financial (or economic) abuse against a partner, and it can be an extremely powerful way to keep victims trapped in a relationship.

If a partner has ever chosen to do these or other abusive things toward you, remember: it's not your fault, you're not alone, and help is available. 💜 Learn more: https://buff.ly/FzJOv7c

[Image description: Against a purple background, text reads: "Financial abuse is one of the most common reasons why victims stay with (or return to) abusers. Examples of financial abuse can include: giving you an allowance, hiding family assets, not letting you have your own money, running up debt in your name, ruining your credit, interfering with your job. Abuse is never a victim's fault. Help is available." NNEDV logo below. The NNEDV logo consists of 66 small house shapes arranged in a large house shape, and text reading: "NNEDV National Network to End Domestic Violence."]

07/11/2025

Caring for children who have experienced violence or trauma starts with simple, meaningful actions.

Here are 16 powerful ways you can help children heal. From being a good listener to creating calm, predictable environments, your support makes a difference! ✨

07/03/2025

When survivors bravely come forward and publicly share their stories, it is incredibly powerful, especially for others experiencing relationship abuse. It can be validating to see others sharing their journeys and know that you’re not alone. To all those who have experienced domestic violence: We see you. We hear you. Your bravery is not in vain.

Justice for victims and holding those who cause harm accountable for their behavior is complex. We know that many are feeling disappointment with today’s ruling in the Sean Combs trial. This news continues to make its way through our social media feeds and in the headlines, and for some it can be triggering. We want everyone impacted by domestic violence to know they are not alone and if you are needing support The Hotline is always here for you.

07/03/2025

06/09/2025

Weekend continues today. 🧡 Fi****ms and domestic violence are a deadly mix, and many abusers choose to use guns to threaten, terrorize, and even kill their partners. NNEDV honors all victims of domestic violence whose lives have been cut short or forever changed by abusers with guns, and we remain committed to advancing policies that can help keep survivors safe. Keep reading: https://buff.ly/XJXc0Hn

[Image description: Against a dark purple background, white and orange text reads: "When a male abuser has access to a firearm, the risk that he will choose to shoot and kill a female partner increases by 1,000%. Source: Spencer, C. M. & Stith, S. M. (2020). “Risk Factors for Male Perpetration and Female Victimization of Intimate Partner Homicide: A Meta-Analysis,” Trauma, Violence, & Abuse, 21(3), 527-540." NNEDV logo below text. The NNEDV logo consists of 66 small house shapes arranged in a large house shape, and text reading: "NNEDV National Network to End Domestic Violence."]

05/21/2025

05/11/2025

AI experts say this is likely the first time that AI has been used in the U.S. to create an impact statement read by an AI rendering of the deceased victim

05/05/2025

04/29/2025

04/17/2025

04/16/2025

I’ve treated kids who have suffered in silence, without telling their parents, far too often.