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DID YOU KNOW THIS ABOUT HOSPICE CARE? Hospice care has changed over the years, expanding their care and services to thos...
12/18/2023

DID YOU KNOW THIS ABOUT HOSPICE CARE?
Hospice care has changed over the years, expanding their care and services to those who are terminally ill. Hospice care can be administered at home, hospital, or a care facility. In years past, we would consider contacting hospice when our loved one had just a few days to live. Now, it’s possible to enlist hospice services for your loved one months sooner. If you are the caregiver, this is a very important consideration. Hospice nurses, doctors, social workers, spiritual counselors, and music therapists provide on-going care and support for your loved one. Nurses will make weekly visits to provide palliative care and will increase visits as the illness progresses. The goal of hospice is to provide the best quality of life for patients and their families while addressing physical, psychological, social, and spiritual needs. It must also meet the needs of the family. This is done through a coordinated plan of care, in consultation with the patient and family. Hospice also includes bereavement support. This helps people who have lost loved ones. Michigan law requires hospice to provide this at no cost for at least a year after the loss of a loved one.
An important note to caregivers: It’s sobering to think that 40% of caregivers die before their ill loved one does. Hospice can be a much-needed support and comfort to patients and their caregivers earlier than once thought. I was the recipient of wonderful hospice care for my husband, Larry, for eight months. Our hospice team provided tremendous support to me as his caregiver. Larry passed away July 26, 2023, at home with our family and caring hospice nurse by his side.
When a terminally ill patient is being considered for hospice care, they go through an extensive approval process. If approved, they are visited by a hospice doctor every couple of months to be “re-certified” to stay in the program. Some patients even improve over time and are “graduated” out of hospice and then later re-certified and enrolled again.
Many of us don’t realize there are two types of hospice groups: 1) for-profit hospices and 2) non-profit 501(c)3 hospices. Let’s cover for-profit hospice groups first.
For-profit hospice groups are in business for just that – to make a profit. For-profit hospices are primarily focused on generating revenue and profits for their owners or investors. As a result, they may prioritize cost-cutting measures over patient care, which can impact the quality of care provided. For-profit hospices stand to make a larger profit margin by accepting longer-term patients, i.e., dementia patients as one example. They may provide a lower level of care and fewer services than non-profit hospice.
Let’s cover non-profit hospice groups.
Non-profit hospices, on the other hand, are focused on providing compassionate care and support for patients and their families. They prioritize the patient’s well-being over profits, which can result in higher quality care and more comprehensive services. Non-profit hospice groups rely solely on donations. They will accept any terminally ill patient regardless of disease, age, or financial circumstances.
When choosing a hospice, consider several factors, including the quality of care, range of services, availability of resources, and cost, look for hospices that the following: a good reputation for providing high-quality care, offer comprehensive services that meet the patient’s needs, have access to the latest medical equipment and technology, and offer affordable rates or financial assistance programs.
Mary Bartlett, Licensed Pre-Planning Consultant
Excerpts taken from michigan.gov (Hospice Care in Michigan) and HospiceReport.com.

At a time of year when all is supposed to be “merry and bright”, many are trying to figure out how to live without a pie...
12/08/2023

At a time of year when all is supposed to be “merry and bright”, many are trying to figure out how to live without a piece of their hearts this holiday season. This time of year can be especially difficult if you or someone you love is struggling with the loss of a loved one. You may find comfort from friends and family, support groups, or in the poems and stories of others. May you find comfort in the words of Wanda Bencke, who penned the poem, Christmas in Heaven, as her daughter; Lysandra Kay Bencke lay in a coma for five days. She wrote it from the perspective of her daughter, showing Lysandra’s excitement of being in Heaven while being keenly aware of the heartache and sadness her family was experiencing on Earth.

Christmas in Heaven, by Wanda Bencke

I see the countless Christmas trees around the world below
With tiny lights, like Heaven's stars, reflecting on the snow
The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away the tear
For I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear
But the sounds of music can't compare
with the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description, to hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me, I see the pain inside your heart
But I am not so far away, we really aren't apart.
So be happy for me, dear ones, you know I hold you dear.
And be glad I'm spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year.
I sent you each a special gift, from my heavenly home above.
I sent you each a memory of my undying love.
After all, love is a gift more precious than pure gold
It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.
Please love and keep each other, as my Father said to do
For I can't count the blessing or love he has for each of you
So have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear
Remember, I am spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year.

Lysandra Kay Bencke was a child born with severe cerebral palsy. She was a silent daughter, unable to walk or talk. On December 25, 1997, Lysandra had a severe seizure that lasted for three hours. The seizure left her in a coma for five days. On December 30, 1997, the Lord took her to be with Him in His eternal home in Heaven. Lysandra was 13 years old. It is believed that Wanda sent the poem out in belated Christmas cards to friends and family. It is presented here with appreciation to Wanda Bencke for sharing her beautiful poem with the world.

Grieving is hard work, but it is also an essential part of healing. At Griffin Funeral Home, we’re here to offer resources and provide many practical suggestions to help you move toward healing in your unique grief journey.

Please visit our online Grief Library, brought to you by the Center for Loss and Life Transition - Alan Wolfelt, Ph.D., Director
https://www.griffinfuneralhome.com/griefarticle/article/helping6

Wishing your family, a season of comfort and peace,
The Griffin Family

November is National Children & Teens’ Grief Awareness Month. Grief is a complex and painful emotion for anyone to exper...
11/07/2023

November is National Children & Teens’ Grief Awareness Month.

Grief is a complex and painful emotion for anyone to experience, especially for young people. According to recent statistics from the JAG Institute’s 2023 Childhood Bereavement Estimation Model Report, studies show that “1 in 12 children in the United States will experience the life-altering loss of a parent or sibling by age 18.” Children & Teens Grief Awareness Month is an opportunity to become more aware of the unique needs of these children and teens.

There are few things more difficult than dealing with the anguish of losing a loved one, but the emotional suffering children and teens go through can often be misunderstood. Their reaction to loss follows different timelines than adults, and they will experience grief in many ways over time as they enter various developmental stages. While children have a limited ability to understand what death is, teenagers have a complete understanding of the permanence of death and likely worry about it for themselves. Teens may feel overwhelmed and display unexpected anger or suddenly withdraw from activities they love.

Grieving is a process, and it is important to provide an environment where kids can ask questions, cry, or express their grief when they’re ready. The first step is to educate yourself about how best to talk with young people about death and dying.

At Griffin Funeral Home, we understand the importance of helping children and teens understand and express their grief.

Please visit our website, www.griffinfuneralhome.com, and click on Grief Resources to learn more.

Going The Extra MileAt Griffin Funeral Home we go the extra mile to meet your unique needs and we do it with a level of ...
10/24/2023

Going The Extra Mile

At Griffin Funeral Home we go the extra mile to meet your unique needs and we do it with a level of care and compassion that families desire.

If you have recently lost a loved one, we would like to offer you our deepest condolences and prayers. We know that, for most people, planning a funeral is an unfamiliar process. At Griffin Funeral Home, we strongly believe that a funeral should not only honor your loved one, but honor and reflect the life that has been lived.

That’s why it’s important to select a trustworthy funeral home that will help celebrate your loved one while offering unique services and pricing that are appropriate for your family’s beliefs, values, and budget. From the time your first call is received, until long after the funeral, our thoughtful, experienced staff is totally committed to you and your family.

Let us walk the extra mile with you!

We invite you to call us 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year at any one of our five locations.

Contact us today! https://www.griffinfuneralhome.com/our-locations

Over 65 years ago we opened the door of our first funeral home in Detroit with a commitment to servicing families who tr...
10/18/2023

Over 65 years ago we opened the door of our first funeral home in Detroit with a commitment to servicing families who trusted us in their time of need.

Today, with funeral homes in the Westland, Northville, Livonia, Canton and Brighton communities, our dedication to serve families with care and professionalism has become a “family tradition”.

From grief and healing to creating a full range of personalized funeral services, everyone who walks through our doors can expect compassion, integrity, and excellence in service from our experienced staff. We’ll carefully guide you through the many decisions that must be made during this challenging time.
We invite you to explore our many locations and discover what has made L.J. Griffin Funeral Home the ultimate provider of funerals in your community.

Allow us to be the resource center you turn to for the answers you need. Learn more at www.griffinfuneralhome.com.

You are welcome to visit any of our locations for a tour or to discuss your funeral planning concerns, www.griffinfuneralhome.com/our-locations.

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