12/09/2025
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When a child makes a mistake, they’re not just looking for consequences—they’re looking for connection.
They’re wondering:
“Am I still loved?”
“Am I safe?”
“Will you still accept me?”
If we respond with harshness or shame, they learn to hide.
If we respond with calm, compassion, and guidance, they learn to come closer.
We don’t need to excuse the behaviour—but we do need to protect the relationship.
Because over time, that trust becomes the foundation for honesty, accountability, and emotional safety.
Let’s be the ones they run to, not the ones they fear.
More information in my book
Guidance from The Therapist Parent
Available on my website www.thetherapistparent.com and Amazon