Bilingual (English/Spanish) Psychotherapist
Pregnant and Postpartum Support - Soporte durante y post
05/09/2025
Thank you to the Weston Florida Chamber of Commerce for the warm welcome!! I am honored to be part of such a wonderful organization.
🆕Welcome Violeta Parilli to the Chamber! Violeta Parilli Therapy offers compassionate English/Spanish psychotherapy for new and expecting mothers, couples, and families across South Florida. With a focus on nurturing relationships and strengthening family bonds, she helps clients navigate transitions like parenthood while fostering connection and emotional well-being.
🔹 How you speak to your children is powerful, your words, tone, will dictate whether your child feels safe and respected or threatened and degraded.
It is important to know that you are helping shape their inner voice which shall be with them in their adulthood. Hopefully, this voice will be respectful and will foster self-compassion and self-love.
Today I invite you to speak to your children as you would like to be spoken to, with a more loving, comforting and patient tone of voice.
🔸 La forma en que hablas a tus hijos es poderosa, tus palabras, tu tono, dictarán si tu hijo se siente seguro y respetado o amenazado y degradado.
Es importante que sepas que estás ayudando a formar su voz interior, esa que les acompañará en su vida adulta. Esperemos que esta voz sea respetuosa y fomente en ellos la autocompasión y el amor propio.
Hoy te invito a que hables a tus hijos cómo te gustaría que te hablaran a ti, con un tono de voz más cariñoso, reconfortante y paciente.
01/02/2023
🔸 Hoy te invito a que te enfoques en todo el progreso que tuviste en el 2022, en aquellas cosas que SI funcionaron.
Mira, con ojos de cariño a la persona que empezó el 2022 y compárala con la que comienza este 2023. ¿Qué cosas aprendistes? ¿Qué relaciones has mejorado? ¿Que hábitos positivos has implementado? ¿Qué cosas buenas y lindas SI pasaron?.
🎉 Bienvenido 2023, celébrate con compasión y amor propio!
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🔹 Today I invite you to focus on all the progress you made in 2022, on those things that DID work.
Look, with loving eyes, at the person who started 2022 and compare it with the person who is starting this 2023.
What things have you learned? What relationships have you improved? What positive habits have you implemented?
What good and nice things DID happen?
🎉 Welcome 2023, celebrate yourself with compassion and self-love!
-love
12/30/2022
12/21/2022
En esta época de rituales te invito a tomar un momento para conectar contigo, para felicitarte por todo el camino recorrido.
Abrázate y date cuenta de todo lo que la vida te ha mostrado este año y todo aquello que has integrado.
Acoge este tiempo con amor ♥️
12/15/2022
“But he looked so happy”
“But she was so pretty”
“But he made everyone laugh”
“But she had such a beautiful family”
“But…but…but….”
▫️ Sometimes we cannot understand why people decide to end their lives. The picture we see outside is so different than what’s going on inside. They are in SO.MUCH.PAIN. It’s unbearable to them, and they just want to feel better. As hard as it sounds, this is most likely what’s going on for them.
▫️ If you notice a friend or family member struggling, don’t stay quiet. Offer your help and shoulder and don’t be afraid to voice your concern to them and the people closest to them. A good support system is crucial.
▫️ Find a therapist that can help, or call 988, the su***de helpline here in the US.
Sending lots of love to everyone out there. You are not alone. 🤗
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▫️ A veces no podemos entender por qué la gente decide poner fin a su vida. La imagen que vemos fuera es tan diferente a lo que pasa dentro. Sufren MUCHO DOLOR. Es insoportable para ellos, y sólo quieren sentirse mejor. Aunque suene duro, lo más probable es que esto sea lo que les pasa.
▫️ Si notas que un amigo o un familiar está pasando apuros, no te quedes callado. Ofréceles tu ayuda y tu hombro y no tengas miedo de expresarles tu preocupación a ellos y a las personas más cercanas. Un buen sistema de apoyo es crucial.
▫️ Busca un terapeuta que pueda ayudarte, o llama al 988, el teléfono de apoyo al suicidió aquí en Estados Unidos.
Les mando mucho amor a todos. No estás sol@. 🤗
***deprevention
***deawarness
12/07/2022
Hay familias de todo tipo, colores y sabores! Honrémoslas todas y caminemos juntos para preservar relaciones armoniosas donde sus integrantes se acepten tal cual son.
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There are families of all kinds, colors and flavors! Let's honor them all and walk together to preserve harmonious relationships where its members accept each other as they are.
11/16/2022
🔹 What is Conscious Parenting?
To be “conscious” or mindful is to be aware—so we can identify the difference between reacting to our children’s behaviors and responding from a place of calm. It’s all about the ability to be in the present moment in any situation that arises as we parent and not let the situation take over our emotions, instead, we take over the situation.
Let your kids know regularly how accepted and appreciated they are simply for being themselves. In my opinion, one of the most important goals of parenting should be creating a safe space for our children to be in touch with their uniqueness and develop their individuality.
Concious parenting invites you to honor your child’s individuality, while setting healthy boundaries for their development.
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🔸 ¿Qué es la crianza consciente?
Ser "consciente" o estar atento es ser consciente, de modo que podamos identificar la diferencia entre reaccionar a los comportamientos de nuestros hijos y responder desde un lugar de calma. Se trata de la capacidad de estar en el momento presente en cualquier situación que surja mientras somos padres y no dejar que la situación se apodere de nuestras emociones, sino que nosotros nos apoderemos de la situación.
Haz que tus hijos sepan regularmente lo aceptados y apreciados que son simplemente por ser ellos mismos. En mi opinión, uno de los objetivos más importantes de la crianza debería ser crear un espacio seguro para que nuestros hijos estén en contacto con su singularidad y desarrollen su individualidad.
La crianza consciente le invita a honrar la individualidad de su hijo, al tiempo que establece límites saludables para su desarrollo.
11/09/2022
🔸 Ningún sentimiento es permanente. ¿Cómo te has sentido estos días tan acelerados y movidos?
Te leo en comentarios. 👇😊
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🔹 No feeling is permanent. How have you been feeling these fast-paced and hectic days?
I read you in comments.👇😊
11/02/2022
🔸 Looking for intimacy
▫️ Create a space for communication
▫️ Express your feelings
▫️ Listen actively
▫️ Have physical contact
▫️ Take care of your partner's vulnerability
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Hello! My name is Violeta Parilli and I am a bilingual psychotherapist in Miami. I earned my Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy degree at Nova Southeastern University and I am a Registered Marriage and Family Therapist Intern in the state of Florida.
In my previous experience I worked at a non-for-profit organization that help people undergoing domestic violence and sexual abuse. Here my passion for helping women and families fostered and I decided to start my private practice.
My passion is working with women and couples, in particular those pregnant or with young children. To become well versed in these areas, after my graduate degree I have completed trainings in:
· Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level 1 – The Gottman Institute.
· Seven Principles to Make Marriage Work, a workshop for couples looking to strengthen their relationship – The Gottman Institute.
· Perinatal Mood Disorders - Postpartum Support International Organization.
· Bringing Baby Home, a workshop for couples or individuals having a baby - The Gottman Institute
I focus on building partner relationships and creating a happy, healthy, nurturing family environment.
Through this platform I hope to share significant mental health information covering the topics of Couples Therapy, Pregnancy and Postpartum.
Disclaimer: Please keep in mind that the contents of this social media account are not a substitute for psychotherapy. If you are in crisis and need assistance, please call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for immediate support.
