Kristin O'Brien, LCSW

Kristin O'Brien, LCSW Integrative Holistic Therapy. Helping you heal one session at a time; EMDR certified, IFS Informed and DBT. Mind~Body & Soul.

Offering in person in Westport, CT and Teletherapy.

Very true!  Easy does it. Everything unfolds the way things should đź’•
02/26/2026

Very true! Easy does it. Everything unfolds the way things should đź’•

When people ask me if “I love what I do”?  My answer is always without a doubt YES! And this is why… “I’m incredibly gra...
02/20/2026

When people ask me if “I love what I do”? My answer is always without a doubt YES!

And this is why…

“I’m incredibly grateful for my work with Kristin and especially for her use of EMDR. With her guidance I’ve been able to process experiences that had felt stuck for a long time. EMDR has helped me move through anxiety and trauma in a way that has felt both gentle and effective. I’ve noticed meaningful shifts in how I respond to stress and how I feel in my body and mind. I truly can’t recommend her highly enough” -Anonymous

I am very passionate in helping people improve their lives and helping them break through barriers that are holding them back Although EMDR is one modality that I use it tends to be the most profound. What I love most about EMDR is its profound healing capability and its ability to break through unconcious barriers, that goes past talk therapy. It’s the perfect compliment to talk therapy💕

With love and light Kristin 🙏💕

www.kristinobrienlcsw.com

Kristin O'Brien, LCSW offers integrative psychotherapy specializing in helping those dealing with divorce, anxiety, and health issues

Love this!
02/17/2026

Love this!

The Year of the Fire Horse is here.

This is not a quiet year.
This is momentum. This is ignition. This is decisive movement.

Fire Horse energy does not wait for permission. It rewards boldness, self-trust, and action taken from identity, not fear.

If you have been hesitating, this year will feel uncomfortable. If you have been preparing, this year will feel like acceleration.

The Fire Horse brings:

• Sudden opportunity
• Fast pivots
• Passion reignited
• Visibility increased
• Courage tested

It exposes where you are playing small. It amplifies where you are already aligned.

This is not chaotic fire. This is directional fire.
The people who win in a Fire Horse year are the ones who move when the door opens instead of overthinking whether they deserve to walk through it.

You are either pulled forward by momentum… or pushed forward by pressure.

Either way, movement happens.

If you’ve felt the shift building, that’s not random.

The frequency has changed.

Comment ACTIVATE if you’re ready to move with the fire instead of resisting it.

02/17/2026
You don’t always need more coping skills… sometimes you need resolution.EMDR helps your brain finish processing what it ...
02/17/2026

You don’t always need more coping skills… sometimes you need resolution.

EMDR helps your brain finish processing what it never got to finish — old memories, stuck emotions, and the patterns they quietly create in your life.

Healing isn’t about reliving the past.
It’s about freeing your present.

👉 Swipe through to learn how your mind already knows how to heal — it just needs the right pathway.

✨ DM me to schedule a free 15 minute consultation.

Stopping generational trauma doesn’t mean you hate where you came from.It means you love yourself—and future generations...
01/07/2026

Stopping generational trauma doesn’t mean you hate where you came from.
It means you love yourself—and future generations—enough to choose differently.

It’s recognizing patterns that were normalized but never healthy.
It’s unlearning survival modes that once kept your family going but now keep you stuck.

Stopping generational trauma looks like:
• Setting boundaries where silence once lived
• Choosing healing over loyalty to pain
• Learning to regulate emotions instead of suppressing them
• Saying “this ends with me” without needing permission

It’s not easy work.
You’ll feel guilt. You’ll feel misunderstood. You may feel alone.

But healing was never meant to be convenient—it was meant to be transformational.

You are not breaking the family apart.
You are breaking the cycle.

And that is one of the bravest things you’ll ever do. 🙏🙏💕

www.kristinobrienlcsw.com

12/31/2025

✨ New Year. New beginning.

But not in the pressure-filled, “reinvent everything overnight” way.
A new year is simply an invitation.
An invitation to pause.
To reflect on what you’ve carried.
To release what no longer fits.
To step forward with a little more clarity, compassion, and courage than before.
New beginnings don’t require perfection.
They don’t erase the past-they build from it.
This year, may you choose progress over pressure.
Alignment over approval.
Peace over proving.
You don’t need a brand-new you-just a more honest, grounded, and self-connected version of who you already are.

Here’s to fresh starts, gentle growth, and becoming. Happy New Year 🙏🏻✨

Best wishes,
Kristin

The holidays don’t feel the same for everyone.For some, they bring joy, laughter, and full tables.For others, they bring...
12/17/2025

The holidays don’t feel the same for everyone.

For some, they bring joy, laughter, and full tables.
For others, they bring memories, missing seats, quiet moments, and emotions that don’t always have a name.

You can be grateful and sad.
You can love the season and feel overwhelmed.
You can show up smiling while still carrying heaviness inside.

If the holidays stir up loneliness, grief, anxiety, or exhaustion — you’re not broken. You’re human.

Give yourself permission to feel it all.
Rest when you need to.
Say no when your heart asks for space.
And remember: it’s okay if this season looks different than it used to. Create your own Joys!

You’re allowed to move through the holidays at your own pace.

🎄🎄🎄

Icsw
healing

Very true… EMDR is so helpful in healing PTSD.  Powerful 💪💪
11/19/2025

Very true… EMDR is so helpful in healing PTSD. Powerful 💪💪


Your value doesn’t diminish just because someone couldn’t see it.Read that slowly.Not every person is meant to recognize...
11/18/2025

Your value doesn’t diminish just because someone couldn’t see it.
Read that slowly.

Not every person is meant to recognize your heart, your depth, your potential — and that’s okay.
Your worth was never meant to be validated by selective vision.


💚 Let’s Talk About Green Flags 💚We often hear about red flags — the warning signs that something isn’t right.But just as...
10/28/2025

💚 Let’s Talk About Green Flags 💚

We often hear about red flags — the warning signs that something isn’t right.
But just as important are the green flags — the signs that show safety, respect, and emotional health. 🌿

✨ Are you affected by a narcissist? According to the DSM, Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is marked by grandiosi...
10/21/2025

✨ Are you affected by a narcissist?

According to the DSM, Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is marked by grandiosity, need for admiration, and lack of empathy, among other markers.

Common traits:
✨ Controlling
✨ Prone to narcissistic rage.
✨ Craves constant praise
✨ Feels “special” or superior
✨ Lacks empathy & avoids accountability
✨ Exploits or manipulates others
✨ Shows entitlement or arrogance

(Remember: someone can have narcissistic traits without full NPD.)

Protect your peace:
* Grey Rock Method — stay neutral, don’t engage
* Set boundaries
* Create distance when needed
* Accept they won’t change
* Seek support & fill your cup

⚠️ Only a licensed professional can diagnose NPD. Awareness = freedom

✨ Are you suffering from narcissistic abuse? Let’s talk. DM me to book a free fifteen minute consultation.

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