Wholefamily Therapy & Wellness

07/16/2025

The countdown to getting the relationship you and your partner desire and deserve has begun!! Allow yourself to finally prioritize what truly matters to you and join us in just SEVEN days from now!!

We know that life is busy and about a million other things need your attention. We also know that you and your partner need some time together to connect, relax and enjoy each other again. You are so often making schedules work for everyone else. This is your chance to make your schedule work for you and your significant other. So, if you are feeling the call, please join us!!

The transformative Getting the Love You Want Couples Retreat is happening from Thursday, July 24 through Sunday, July 27, 2025 at Seminary Hill.

For more info and to register, go to: www.wholefamilynj.com/workshop

07/10/2025

If you don't take time to care good care of your relationship, your relationship won't be able to take good care of you!! This transformative Getting the Love You Want Retreat will give you and your partner exactly what you both need to enjoy the relationship you want.

Join us in the majestic Catskills to connect, communicate, rest and restore!!!

There is only room for one more sign up, so please register now to guarantee your spot!! Go to www.wholefamilynj.com/workshop

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07/06/2025

It's getting close... The opportunity to prioritize you, your partner and your relationship is just about here!

This is your chance to connect and communicate in the way for which you've been longing. In just a few days, get the boost you need to have the relationship you want.

Come join us at Seminary Hill for the transformative Getting the Love You Want Relationship Retreat.

Register at www.wholefamillynj.com/workshop

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06/23/2025

The kids are off from school, your load is (a little) lighter and it’s time for you to finally be able to prioritize time for you and your partner!! If you are ready for the perfect couples summer getaway where you can both relax AND improve your relationship, you are in just the right place.

You can get everything you want and get it all close to home, with just a quick drive to the peace and beauty of the Catskills! Join us from Thursday, July 24 through Sunday, July 27, 2025 at Seminary Hill for a transformative couples retreat.

Whether things with your partner are good, great or really in need of some improvement, this weekend is for you! It’s NOT therapy, but rather an opportunity for you and your partner to create a deeper, more satisfying connection and improve your communication skills so that you can truly enjoy the satisfying partnership you deserve.

For more info and to register, go to: www.wholefamilynj.com/workshop

Email me with any questions, trisha@wholefamilynj.com

05/05/2025

Wanted to share a special glimmer and appreciation from this past weekend for the gifts of , and !! I had the pleasure of enjoying not one, but two different drag shows at ,starring these brilliant performers.

The art of drag embodies many values that are in alignment with my own, including self-expression, creativity, empowerment and the freedom to blaze your own trail (rather than blindly follow societal norms...). 🔥

It was an honor to be entertained and inspired by these beautiful humans. ✨

How do you express yourself? What are your creative outlets?

How do you find the courage to be yourself, even when others don't see, accept or make safe space for the real you?? Comment below!

Know that I see you and it's part of my purpose to help create safe enough space in this world for EVERYONE to be seen, accepted and feel connected. 💖

04/12/2025

The importance of attachment theory has really been coming into mainstream awareness. I find this to be an important shift, as this is my area of professional expertise. Understanding attachment can be invaluable in having healthier relationships! I am privileged to be featured on this very topic in this Verywell Mind article, "How Do I Deal With an Avoidant Friend?" Check out the link for the whole article and let me know what you think.

Certain individuals live with an avoidant attachment style, which can manifest as emotional distance and hyper-independence. Fulfilling and supportive relationships with these individuals is possible with self-awareness and the right approach. Here's how to approach them with patience and compassion...

04/10/2025

I was recently interviewed by Katherine Miller on Divorce Dialogues. It was a great experience!

Divorce Dialogues is a forum for talking about splitting up. Here experts and thought leaders talk about all things related to divorce: money, children, relationships, moving, dating, and more. It was a pleasure to be on the show. Katherine Miller is passionate about what she does!

Here are just a few of the topics we covered:
-Maintaining boundaries, avoiding negativity, and fostering open communication with children is important during divorce.

-Emotional intelligence and effective communication are key in healing and strengthening relationships during and after divorce.

-Structured communication techniques like mirroring, empathy, and validation are crucial in high-tension situations like divorce.

-Learning skills to deal with difficult personalities is valuable for personal growth, particularly for young children and teenagers.

-Effective communication strategies, such as mirroring and validation, are crucial during divorce to avoid criticism and conflict.

Check out the whole episode here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/structured-communication-methods-for-healing-relationships/id1022959632?i=1000703019353

03/24/2025

Do you know what it feels like to go back and forth in your decision about whether or not you want to end your relationship? When you love someone, but the being together feels hard so much of the time and you just haven’t been able to figure out how to make things better, the indecision can be painful.

If you are in this tough spot, it can be very helpful to focus on the relationship you have with yourself. Practicing deep love and self-care can be what helps bring you just the clarity you are seeking.

For more about this and support in making a conscious decision about the status of your relationship, check out the latest When Depression is in Your Bed podcast episode, “Should I Stay or Should I Go? 7 Questions for Making a Conscious Decision About Break-Up, Separation or Divorce.”

Check out this episode at: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/should-i-stay-or-should-i-go-7-questions-for-making/id1781065658?i=1000699754450

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03/23/2025

Did you know that an even better relationship with your partner is possible??? If you want to discover the path to a relationship in which you both feel more heard, more connected and more joyful, , join us this week!!!

The Getting the Love You Want Couples Workshop weekend happening in Saddle River from Friday, March 28-Sunday, March 30!!

Create the roadmap to the relationship you want to have, gain the communication skills and relational tools you need to get there and have some fun as you work your way along!!

Discounted hotel rooms, that include breakfast for Saturday & Sunday, may still be available for booking directly with Residence Inn Saddle River!

To register, go to www.wholefamilynj.com/workshop

Questions? Contact Trish at trisha@wholefamilynj.com

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03/21/2025

I am beyond excited to announce that we are launching the first ever Getting the Love You Want Babymoon from 5/29- 6/1 in Derby, NY, right on the gorgeous Lake Erie!!

Get prepared to parent and partner like a pro!!

Are you excited for your new bundle of joy, but feel a bit concerned about how this big life change may impact your romantic relationship?? If so, take this precious time to focus on you and your partner! Get the communication skills and relational tools you need to successfully navigate whatever comes up in the months and years ahead. You won't regret getting this information now!

Do you want to get support creating the smoothest path possible from peri through postnatal?? Get the invaluable opportunity to meet with a Certified Birth Doula to get just what you need for your growing family.

This is an extraordinary opportunity for expectant parents to squeeze in one last getaway before baby arrives. You can even take an extra day to visit nearby Niagara Falls!

For more info and to register, go to www.wholefamilynj.com/workshop

Know someone who is pregnant?? Please feel free to share!

03/21/2025

I am thrilled to share that I was a guest on the Good Neighbor Podcast with Doug Drohan. The episode is called "Healing Through Dialogue: A Therapist's Journey to Whole Family Wellness," and you can check it out at:

Ep. # 96 Healing Through Dialogue: A Therapist's Journey to Whole Family Wellness

03/07/2025

Do you want to feel more connected with your romantic partner? Are you longing to feel more heard in your relationship?! Have you been trying to figure out how to improve your marriage or committed partnership and nothing has seemed to help??

If so, please join us, Tuesday, 3/11, for this FREE virtual event from 7:30-9 PM ET to learn the first steps towards transforming the communication and connection you have with your partner. Walk away with a valuable tool and information to help you start creating the romantic relationship of your dreams!

Whether your relationship needs a little tweaking or a major overhaul, you can begin the journey by joining us for this FREE 90-minute webinar!

Come alone or with your partner. Therapists are welcome to come learn more about Imago Relationship Therapy and Getting the Love You Want Couples Retreats! All people and all relationships are welcome!!

The link to register, go to: www.wholefamilynj.com/webinar

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