
08/05/2025
Why are we nice to people who make us feel small, drained, or invisible? Why is it so hard to stand up for ourselves, even when we’re hurting?
This blog post explores a trauma response that often flies under the radar: fawning. It’s when we try to stay safe by pleasing others, even at the cost of our own needs.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in patterns of over-apologizing, avoiding conflict, or putting everyone else first, this one’s for you.
Being “the nice one” isn’t always about kindness. Learn how the fawning trauma response hides beneath people-pleasing and self-abandonment.