11/20/2025
As Thanksgiving approaches, many people feel a mix of excitement and anxiety. While the holiday can bring connection and tradition, it can also bring overstimulation, complicated family dynamics, triggering conversations, and pressure to be “on” even when you’re emotionally drained. If family gatherings tend to leave you overwhelmed, here are some gentle reminders and tools to help you navigate the day with more ease:
Set Expectations Before You Go
Give yourself permission to decide what feels manageable. That might mean staying for a shorter amount of time, taking your own car, or having a plan for when you’ll head home. You don’t have to commit to more than you can emotionally handle.
Prepare for Potential Triggers
Family conversations can touch on sensitive topics like relationships, weight, parenting, politics, or your future plans. Remind yourself:
You do not have to answer every question.
You do not have to explain your decisions.
And you are allowed to change the subject or excuse yourself.
Use Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty
Simple phrases you can prepare ahead of time:
• “I’m focusing on positive things today, let’s talk about something else.”
• “I’m not comfortable discussing that.”
• “I’d rather not get into that right now.”
Boundaries are not rude… they’re healthy.
Create a Sensory and Emotional Exit Plan
If the environment gets loud, crowded, or overstimulating, take a break. Step outside for a few breaths, sit in a quiet room, or take a short walk. Regulating your nervous system is not avoidance, it’s self care.
Plan Support for After the Gathering
Schedule something nurturing for when you get home — a warm shower, comfy clothes, a quiet movie, or time to decompress.
Remind Yourself You Can Leave Early
You’re allowed to go when you’ve had enough. You don’t need a dramatic reason, just your own emotional well being.
Check In With Yourself Compassionately
If you feel anxious, snappy, or drained… there’s nothing wrong with you. Holidays can be hard, even when you love the people around you. Be kind to yourself.
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