08/29/2025
Betty Kissner
Our loving, Betty Byrd Kissner, of Salome, Arizona / Mineral, Washington received her wings on August 14th, 2025, at the age of 85. Betty was more than an angel on earth, but a loving wife, mother, sister, grandmother, great grandmother, aunt and friend. She was the heart of our family, known for her warm smile, winning hand at poker, and of course, always catching the biggest fish out of us all.
Betty was born in 1940, in Elkhorn City, Kentucky, daughter of Henry and Ruby Cavins. The oldest of five, she grew up in the holler, a coal miners daughter. As time passed, Betty became a mother to Wade, Salina, and Seth Sampson. Fate would bring her to Washington, where she gained employment with one of the largest aerospace companies in the country, Boeing. Betty was proud to work for the company and was directly involved in building the very first B2 Bomber. While at Boeing, she met her beloved husband, Thomas Kissner. After an instant connection, they'd spend the following years building a life they loved, full of camping, hunting, travel, gardening and most importantly, spending time with family. At 55, Betty retired from the Boeing company and in her early retirement, she would spend time between their home in Auburn, painting treasures at their in home Ceramics Business "Cave-In Crafts" and their cabin in Ocean Shores, Washington. Once Tom retired, they moved full time to their cabin on the coast, and enjoyed the simple life in "paradise". Retirement brought them more time spent with family and more travel. They explored the country in their travel trailer, from Alaska to Georgia, and all sorts of places in between. Among these trips, Betty and Tom found the warm desert of Arizona, and with her sights set on seeing the Cactus bloom in the spring, Tom and Betty sold their cabin in Ocean Shores with plans to become snowbirds. Leaving the cold winters of Mineral, they headed south to warmer weather, finding themselves West of Phoenix, they landed in Salome, Arizona. Betty enjoyed the warm winters and sunny days, planting a new garden in this new climate came with a few challenges, but nothing her green thumb couldn't handle. Tom and Betty enjoyed their retirement in the desert gardening, reading, crafting, and of course, a nightly meeting with Marshall Dillon - another favorite of theirs, Westerns.
Betty is survived by her husband of 47 years, Thomas and their three fur babies Norma, Paco and Tony; three children Wade (Patsy) Sampson, Salina (Tim 1957-2024) Bilbao and Seth (Diana) Sampson; 9 grandchildren, and 11 great-grandchildren; and siblings Joann Schwartz, Bonnie Lampp, and Charles Cavins.
She is preceded in death by her parents, Henry and Ruby Cavins, her brother Ronnie Cavins, sister's Rachel Deel and Cora Sue.
Betty loved her garden and found great joy in watching things grow. In lieu of flowers or gifts, family asks that you plant a cactus or even a new house plant and name it Betty so you can talk to her and when it blooms, it will be a beautiful reminder of our dearest Betty.
Cards may be sent to:
Thomas Kissner
PO Box 1421
Salome, AZ 85348
A celebration of life will be held in Washington at a later date. Service details will be shared once they are finalized.
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