04/04/2026
Bringing work "home?"
In this case, it has made me smile all Saturday!
My sweet boy, who struggles with emotions, melted my heart at the end of a long Friday for both of us.
He was excited to play with my train set, complete with elaborate bridges that raise and lower, and tunnels that make pretty cool noises if I do say so myself.
But we had some things to do first.
But he got frustrated, and very quickly turned angry. He promptly tore up the paper with 3 dots that I made to help him say his favorite 3-syllable words (and chewed up a piece for good measure.)
When I grabbed my photo and told him he could have just told me he was "frustrated," he swatted the picture and said "no frustrated." When I told him I was sad not to play trains, and that we would need to make a new paper with dots, a loud "No" and a head down on the table was his reply.
I'd seen this before. Usually it meant game over for the remainder of the session, and my heart sank.
But, as I do, I went in my back room to get the bucket of cool train stuff, just to remind him what he was missing and see if it helped bring him "back."
And as I got back there, I heard him loud and clear say, "FRUSTRATED" (a 3-syllable word in and of itself.)
When I re-entered with the trains, there on the table was a new paper, complete with 3 dots... and a big checkmark copying those that I make when goals are achieved in sessions!
We got to build the coolest train track ever! Needless to say, I was (and am) astonished, and continue to smile about it today!