11/20/2025
Regarding one’s journey— most life discord begins with an unmet pain point or pain points in the body and the psyche that has been neglected and left unhealed. If one continues to move through life without addressing said pain points they can easily travel a path of destruction, allowing the wrong people into their lives, accepting jobs that are not aligned for them and how they’re wired. Or they learn to self medicate through s*x, drugs, po*******hy, alcohol, shopping and the like.
In the collective, it has been firmly taught by the majority that we are to pick ourselves up by our boot straps and continue moving forth, not ever taking into account that these are teachable moments, and we should allow ourselves some space to be introspective or to ask for help. It’s been my personal experience that a lot of people don’t make it easy when you come to them for help. I’ve been met with a lot of closed doors. Some people receive that as rejection and rejection does not feel good so therefore many do not ask for help based off of any past experiences. Otherwise known as cognitive imprinting.
Many of us have been brainwashed into believing that our emotions are useless information and that we are to ignore that information. That has been a huge lie to keep us under the thumb of the darkness. A very low vibration, which continues to perpetuate more of the same. It’s really a beautiful success when an individual is able to hear and listen to their own internal (from the heart space) guidance that brought them together with a supportive community, a place of healing, forgiveness and immense positive growth as a human; as a soul.
Let’s all learn to be more open, receptive people; and instead of waiting for others to ask for help, offer it! Raise your havingness for offering help to those in need year-round as well as asking and accepting help. Let’s raise our havingness for introspection of self. Clearing away our own personal harsh judgment of self, which reflects outward to others and to being more understanding & curious about others and their stories. Let’s live in compassion, making empathy a positive word when many have made it sound negative.