Healing the Erotic Self

Healing the Erotic Self You will be able to register for the healing track that applies to you. For more information about the HTES program, visit HealingtheEroticSelf.com.

Healing the Erotic Self Life Coaching Program offers a self-paced Liberation System, AASECT CE eligible masterclasses, personal healing and professional learning intensives centering marginalized erotic lived experience of Black queer and trans folks. Transform Your Erotic Intelligence

When was the last time you felt connected to…

+ Your Desire

+ Your Pleasure

+Your Intuition

+Your Ability to Set or Reclaim Your Boundaries

+Your Erotic Embodiment

+Your Mind, Body, Spirit, & Breath

Founded by Clinical Somatic Sex Therapist Mx. Queen, LCSW, Healing the Erotic Self (HTES) is an erospiritual coaching program that guides you with erosomatic embodiment practices & offers a personal healing track and a professional development track for therapists, educators, counselors, coaches, medical and healing professionals. HTES offers multi-week live and self-paced coaching groups, Sexuality & Somatics and Authentic Consent Professional Development Learning Intensives with queer-inclusive, pleasure-affirming somatic and erotic group coaching, guided meditation audios, erotic liberation books wellness and erotic care practices and guidance. This erotic liberation program includes:

Multi-week erotic coaching program (live and self-paced)
Complimentary access to monthly Erotic Intelligence Masterclass
Post coaching program support with LIVE monthly group healing sessions including HTES Erosomatic Healing Sessions and SHIFT Somatic Healing Circles
Somatic and erotic guide meditation audios
HTES workbook (digital),
Erotic Affirmations Journal (digital)
HTES Erotic Care Practices Library
Erotic Breathwork Sessions
Erotic Liberation Retreats
Professional CE opportunities
Sexuality & Somatics Peer Supervision for Professionals
Virtual Office Hours with Queen
Private Virtual Community

There are 3 membership tiers including a professional development tier for helping and healing professionals like therapists, counselors, educators, and life coaches. To register for HTES offerings, visit the HTES community hub- Erospirituality.com.

Spiritual Awakening is Erotic 2025 HTESx SDS VIRTUAL EXPERIENCE: Spiritual AwakeningProviding 3 VIRTUAL EXPERIENCES to s...
08/21/2025

Spiritual Awakening is Erotic

2025 HTESx SDS VIRTUAL EXPERIENCE: Spiritual Awakening

Providing 3 VIRTUAL EXPERIENCES to support your spiritual awakening:

This HTES x SDS partnership is your official guide to safely prepare for the S*x Down South's conference theme of Spiritual Awakening, providing you with the erosomatic tools, erospiritual rituals, and erotically like-minded community to experience a profound awakening—not just in your mind & body, but in your spirit.

Prepare for your S*x Down South experience of Spiritual Awakening. From August 28-September 3, 2025 with:

1) Healing Your Erotic Energy, the HTES 7-day erotic energy practice to receive daily rituals, somatic practices, and guided meditations from Healing the Erotic Self Practice. Arrive at this year's S*x Down South Conference energetically ready to receive.

2) Erospirituality: Decolonizing Sacred S*xuality:

This is the deep dive your soul has been asking for. In this immersive 2-hour workshop, you will move beyond theory and into embodied practice. Mx. Queen will guide you through the core tenets of Erospirituality and how they decenter colonial concepts of sacred s*xuality helping you map your unique erotic needs and heal the oppressive blocks that keep you from your most authentic, spiritually-aligned self.

3) Erotic Liberation: The Erotic Alchemy of Choice, Practice, and Surrender

This post-conference healing session is a sacred space to integrate the weekend's lessons. Through guided practice and community sharing, you will learn how to alchemize your experiences into lasting change, surrendering to the wisdom of your newly awakened erotic self.

A 2-hour post-conference integration session to alchemize your experience into lasting erotic liberation. Attending the 2025 s*x Down South Spiritually Awakened Conference- you came (possibly quite literally), you learned, you awakened.

About
HEALING THE EROTIC SELF™ (HTES)

Healing the Erotic Self (HTES) is a personal healing and professional development platform founded to center q***r, trans, and Black, Caribbean, African, Indigenous Turtle Islander, Latine, Asian American, and Pacific Islander (BCAILAAPI) professionals such as educators, therapists, somatic professionals, wellness leaders, and survivors in reclaiming erotic intelligence through somatic and erosomatic practices, spirituality, ancestral care, and healing-centered practice.

ABOUT HTES x SDS Partnership:
This procedes from this event supports the that support SDS Foundation and Erospirituality Centre.

Healing the Erotic Self (HTES) is the Official Sensual Wellness Partner for the 2025 S*x Down South (SDS) Conference, Spiritual Awakening. SDS is a q***r Black femme-led global gathering of s*x-positive, liberation-focused, erotically curious lovers, professionals, and communities.

One of my favorite meditationa is the body scan meditation. When its a consistent part of your practice, its impact wil...
08/20/2025

One of my favorite meditationa is the body scan meditation. When its a consistent part of your practice, its impact will help someone move from awareness to mindfulness.

My time abroad affirmed that to navigate the internal chaos caused by the “rush” of capitalist presssure in our day to day requires us to integrate mindfulness into a “presence practice.”

This embodied practice is the work and how we reclaim our health and well-being: mind, body, spirit, & energy.

The rabbit hole of automatic negative thoughts and distressing feelings is why learning how to rest is an important part of the work.

Have you take your Sacred Pause today?

Take 5 minutes to come home to your body. The Sacred Pause is an erotic mindfulness guided meditation and Authentic Consent practice designed to help you slo...

In what lifetime are you waiting to experience pleasure and to be honored?What erotic lessons are you leaning into?
08/11/2025

In what lifetime are you waiting to experience pleasure and to be honored?

What erotic lessons are you leaning into?

It is NOT a mid-life crisis. It is a spiritual awakening of self-discovery.Women are questioning- rightfully- what we have been taught that gives us value an...

08/02/2025

Erotic Affirmation:

“I may not be perfect but I AM DIVINE.”

07/31/2025

Therapy, coaching, & educating are a co-regulation processes.

You are holding space to help people safely learn how to regulate.

The issue in which YOU feel helpless is bc YOU believe it’s your job to “fix” when really it’s your job to “reflect”.

However, if you do not have the foundation to reflect how colonialism & capitalism informs the helplessness you & your client feels, you will reinforce the powerlessness thy oppression wants you to internalize.

This is the practice of decolonization.

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Out of the office: No Erotic Lessons today.But you can discover ways to build your erotic confidence by taking The Eroti...
07/30/2025

Out of the office:
No Erotic Lessons today.

But you can discover ways to build your erotic confidence by taking The Erotic Confidence Self-Assessment and purchase the self-paced erotic care plan helps you create new erotic lessons:

Clinical Somatic S*xologist & Erotic Spiritualist| Erospirituality.com

How well do you know your body and how comfortable are you in it?
07/25/2025

How well do you know your body and how comfortable are you in it?

Join me for Erotic Lessons today at 1230pm EST on YouTube
07/23/2025

Join me for Erotic Lessons today at 1230pm EST on YouTube

The official podcast of HTES' Erospirituality Centre: Erotic Lessons is where erotic healing meets decolonial truth-telling. Hosted by Mx. Lena Queen, LCSW, ...

The baby face with my energy has people thinking & assuming romantically, sxually, & platonically I am the Jezebel and S...
07/22/2025

The baby face with my energy has people thinking & assuming romantically, sxually, & platonically I am the Jezebel and Sapphire.

I have been judge for being authentic, for learning, for growing, for loving, for simply existing.

This is 51 & on the road to my 52nd birthday 9/3 I am hosting a series of talks:

✨Erotic Intelligence: The Other EQ

✨Erospirituality: Decolonizing Sacred S*xuality

✨Erotic Liberation: The Erotic Alchemy of Choice, Practice, & Surrender.

I am going to teach you how to turn judgement into erotic confidence.
Whether you are a survivor or survivor who is also a healing professional- these workshops are for us.
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2 AASECT CEs per workshop





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Introducing Erotic Lessons, a weekly Youtube podcast and Tiktok series exploring love, desirability, self-worth, and ero...
07/19/2025

Introducing Erotic Lessons, a weekly Youtube podcast and Tiktok series exploring love, desirability, self-worth, and eroticism as a healing practice.

The official podcast of HTES' Erospirituality Centre:

Erotic Lessons is where erotic healing meets decolonial truth-telling. Hosted by Mx. Lena Queen, LCSW, M.Ed., Clinical Somatic S*xologist and founder of the Erospirituality Centre, this podcast offers unapologetic conversations on love, desirability, self-worth, and the erotic as healing praxis.

Starting Wednesday 7/23/25 and every Wednesdays and Sundays at 1230pm EDT-

Come reclaim your erotic truth, one episode at a time.

Join Mx. Queen Wednesdays at 1230pm EDT for professional insight as they bring their 23 years of experience as a therapist, professional mentor, and clinical supervision in exploring how professionals can expand their capacity and support their burnout with the erotic.

Join Mx. Queen Sundays at 1230pm EDT for personal insight into healing as they bring their 30+ years of experience to discuss the importance of choosing yourself, how healing your lovership is for ALL of your relationships, and how to tap into the erotic as a spiritual practice that affirms your WHOLE-Self.

Trust what you know.
02/19/2024

Trust what you know.

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