03/26/2026
This is the misunderstanding that hurts families the most:
When people can’t see the illness, they assume it’s a character problem.
In this episode, we talk about the reality that PANS involves brain inflammation — and inflammation in the brain can change behavior, emotion, impulse control, and perception… even in a child who is kind, loving, and trying their best.
Aiden also describes something we hear often:
Teachers or adults who never knew the “before” version of the child may think the flare is who they are.
But families know:
This isn’t their personality. It’s their physiology.
When we shift from punishment to understanding, the entire approach changes:
- safety improves
- stimulation can be reduced
- expectations become realistic
- recovery becomes more possible
🎧 If this resonates, I encourage you to listen to the full episode:
Episode 53 of Demystifying PANS/PANDAS — “Inside a PANS Flare: A Child Explains What It Feels Like.”