01/30/2026
Are you still playing pretend?
Pretending you are happy isn’t happiness.
Pretending you feel inspired and connected isn’t feeling inspired and connected. �
Pretending you have a fulfilling marriage when your partner regularly doesn’t talk to you about anything substantial but buys you roses for Valentine’s Day isn’t the same as having a fulfilling marriage.
When you’re used to playing pretend (aka lying), the Truth will feel uncomfortable and painful. You’ll likely argue against it at every turn. But when you’ve acknowledged and released the lies (that’s what pretend really is), the Truth is a poetic, liberating feeling. It’s a breath of fresh air.
Awareness, understanding, and accepting the Truth of what you’re experiencing is a vital first step to peaceful living.
How open are you to Truth? To feeling your feelings? To unraveling the stories you’ve been told since before you can remember? To getting comfortable being uncomfortable?
Seeing what you’re doing and why—in Truth—will be uncomfortable. It’ll require effort, a willingness to face the pain, and the courage to keep going instead of playing pretend.
When you're ready to do your work, I'm here (and honored) to support you!