06/19/2024
🌟 🌟 🌟 Expressions of self-advocacy don't always look like what we might expect. Sometimes, even neurodivergent people (kids and adults!🙋♀️) who can speak, can't actually do so when overwhelming emotions and desperation hijack their nervous system.
🌟 🌟 🌟 And if someone doesn't have the ability to speak at all, there may not be any other way to self-advocate except through behavior - especially if alternative robust modes of communication are lacking or non-existent.
🚨🆘🛑 So their mode of self-advocacy in the moment might not look like "a polite request," or “good behavior,” or “compliance.” 😫 😡 😭 It may look like "non-compliance" or maladaptive or "bad" behavior.
🔎🔎🔎 But we need to look beyond the "behavior."
✅ ✅ ✅ When someone is expressing "help" or "no" or "stop" in a way that seems loud or disruptive or "dramatic" or "attention-seeking" and it's not in the mode of communication you want, it’s crucial to recognize this as a call for empathy and helpful action - not a signal for planned ignoring or other behavior management tactics and demands for immediate compliance.
✨✨✨ This is a moment to listen, seek to understand, and support. And when they're ready, for empathetic co-regulation. – Julie, AuSLP 💛
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The image is an advocacy poster from the Therapist Neurodiversity Collective. The background is a bright lime green with abstract blue and teal shapes scattered across it. At the top, the organization's name is written in bold black text, with "Therapist Neurodiversity Collective" on one line and "International" in smaller font beneath it. Below this, there is a horizontal line separating the organization's name from their mission statement, which reads "Therapy • Advocacy • Education" in black text with colored dots (red, blue, green) separating each word. The phrase "Established January 2018" is written below the mission statement in smaller black font.
In the center of the image, there is a circular photo of a young girl with light blonde hair, wearing a light blue dress, standing in a room and screaming or expressing strong emotion. The photo is bordered with a blue circular line. Overlapping the photo, there is a bold blue text that reads "Sometimes SELF-ADVOCACY looks like this." The message emphasizes that self-advocacy can take various forms, including strong emotional expression.