05/20/2026
“When you are defensive or dismissive, you are trying to prove (through deception) that you are better than you are — this does. not. work.” -Dr. Jennifer
Defensiveness is just one of the many losing relational strategies that Dr. Jennifer dissects at length in the beautifully updated Strengthening Your Relationship course.
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Kristi, here, and I’ve got to admit…even if all that I had ever learned from Dr. Finlayson-Fife was the definitions of the ten losing strategies, it would have been enough.
Enough to justify the cost of a course.
Enough to transform the way I show up in relationships.
Enough to see myself and my behavior more clearly.
It’s the session that I visit over and over (and over) again because it’s just so…searingly insightful.
You can’t change what you can’t see…and those losing strategies, they help you see yourself much more clearly.
It’s what knocked me off my feet the first time I heard Jennifer present.
That bit of clarity is what gave me the momentum to start down this incredibly beautiful, challenging, difficult, rewarding path of self and relational development.
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Here’s what a few past course participants have said:
“My husband and I have been taking your classes over the last 6 months and we finally feel like we are making real, meaningful progress in our relationship that we had begun to feel may not even be possible.”
“This courses was crammed full of simple to understand concepts that instantly (well, ALMOST instantly) made a difference in our relationship!”
“Our marriage is so different today than it was even a few short years ago. We genuinely enjoy our intimacy, there is freedom for both of us to be ourselves, there is partnership, there is respect and genuine care, we can talk about hard things and we just enjoy being together. We love our marriage.”
“We are deeply indebted to JFF. Our marriage has been transformed and she was the catalyst for all of the change.”
