Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife I am an LDS relationship and s*xuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology

https://buytickets.at/jenniferfinlaysonfifephd/2128158It’s the marriage prep course we all wish we could have taken—now ...
03/19/2026

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It’s the marriage prep course we all wish we could have taken—now available for YOUR kids (our yourself :) ).

This powerful course was designed for couples who are just starting out their lives together (or who are preparing to).

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Plus each couple who comes together will get a signed copy of That We Might Have Joy 🙌🏻

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03/17/2026

Having a strong relationship takes more than just luck.

Saving money doesn’t.

TODAY ONLY save $18 on the podcast that will change the way you show up in your relationship.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s private consultation waitlist is closed until further notice. Subscribing allows you to benefit from her expertise today. Room For Two®. JFF Studios, LLC claims trademark rights to "Room for Two". Any unauthorized use is expressly prohibited. 

03/17/2026

Moral development is shifting from "who do you want me to be?" to "who do >>I

03/17/2026

Doing s*xual things is not the same as being at peace with your s*xuality.

03/16/2026

Talking to your kids about s*x is going to be uncomfortable, but do it anyway.

Engaging early and regularly will make it easier, but speaking up at any time (even if you fear it is too late) will help your kids in the process of s*xual integration.

When you offer your perspectives, you send the important message that s*x is a normal and valuable part of the human experience and that you will be a resource to your child as you both stumble through this process.

Being a good parent is not about doing this perfectly. You can expect that your kids will have challenges and pitfalls, as will you. The real issue is staying clear about your intention to help your child relate to their s*xuality in a positive way.

Your child’s ability to track your intentions, no matter how awkwardly or imperfectly those intentions are executed, is worth a great deal. Your kids will see your investment in them, and this makes you and your message compelling (even if your child pretends otherwise).

03/16/2026

S*xual integration isn’t easy. But the more compassion we have for ourselves in the process, the better it will go.

Our s*xual thoughts can be unruly and strange—but sharing these unique parts of ourselves with a spouse can be a powerfu...
03/13/2026

Our s*xual thoughts can be unruly and strange—but sharing these unique parts of ourselves with a spouse can be a powerful way to build intimacy and connection.

In this episode, Dr. Jennifer answers questions from our Facebook Group about the role of fantasy in long-term relationships. She explores why fantasy often feels taboo, and how—when grounded in morality and friendship—it can become a meaningful tool for strengthening intimacy and deepening connection.

https://www.finlayson-fife.com/podcasts/conversations-with-dr-jennifer/post/fantasy-q-discussion

03/11/2026

Your kids are learning about s*x—whether you talk to them or not.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife's How to Talk to Your Kids About S*x course equips you to handle tough topics with clarity and confidence.

Through the course you’ll become the safe, wise guide your children need when facing questions about s*xuality and relationships.

https://finlayson-fife.com/courses/course/how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-s*x

03/10/2026

Why policing a spouse doesn’t work.

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Dr. Finlayson-Fife

Jennifer Finlayson-Fife grew up in Burlington, Vermont as one of eight children. She studied Psychology and Women’s Studies at Brigham Young University, and went on to receive her Masters and PhD in Counseling Psychology from Boston College. She has a private practice in Chicago, IL where she works primarily with LDS couples on relational and s*xual issues. She is a frequent guest on LDS-themed podcasts, and has written articles for LDS-themed magazines and blogs on the subjects of s*xuality and modesty as well as mental health and faith. She is married to John Finlayson-Fife and has three wonderful children.