Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife I am an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology

Our Christmas Sale is LIVE, which means you can SAVE 20% on ALL full-length courses (including the newly released S*x Wo...
12/13/2025

Our Christmas Sale is LIVE, which means you can SAVE 20% on ALL full-length courses (including the newly released S*x Worth Wanting Course!).

Plus, you'll save an EXTRA 10% when you purchase 2 courses and an EXTRA 15% when you purchase 3 or more.

www.finlayson-fife.com/courses

"This course has changed our thirty year marriage in so many ways after having been to multiple therapists throughout the years. Nothing worked until we took this course!"

"Our marriage has taken 180 degree turn. I’m not sure if we have ever been this happy!"

"So many couples have the same struggles and that is why the courses are SO Good! Because JFF has seen these issues so many times that the material can help every couple and save hours of therapy and thousands of dollars. It is so worth the money!"

12/11/2025

When we aren’t getting the desire we want, it’s very easy to do things that get us a sense of control and superiority but that interfere with the very precious ecology of desire.

In this NEW episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Tammy Hill of the Live Your Why podcast to talk about what impacts sexual desire and what we can do when facing frustration about desire differences in marriage.

https://www.finlayson-fife.com/podcasts/conversations-with-dr-jennifer/post/lets-talk-libido

Navigating the aftermath of a disclosure or discovery of intimate deception (including emotional or physical infidelity,...
12/11/2025

Navigating the aftermath of a disclosure or discovery of intimate deception (including emotional or physical infidelity, po*******hy use, financial deception, etc.) is a painful and complicated process.

In this Q&A session, Dr. Finlayson-Fife addresses audience questions about emotional and sexual infidelity and gives guidance on what is required for couples to rebuild trust and connection after there has been a breach of trust in the marriage.

You can listen to Betrayal Trauma and Restoring Trust here: https://www.finlayson-fife.com/podcasts/conversations-with-dr-jennifer/post/betrayal-trauma-and-restoring-trust-q-discussion

Did you know Dr. Finlayson-Fife also has a mini-course for those working through the disclosure or discover of intimate deception?

You can find that here:

https://www.finlayson-fife.com/podcasts/conversations-with-dr-jennifer/post/betrayal-trauma-and-restoring-trust-q-discussion

Last night was such a success that we are doing it all again TOMORROW (12/11) at Benrik Boutique in American Fork! Come ...
12/10/2025

Last night was such a success that we are doing it all again TOMORROW (12/11) at Benrik Boutique in American Fork!

Come and pick up SIGNED copies of That We Might Have Joy-- the perfect gift!

And while you're there, knock out your Christmas shopping at Benrik Boutique (you'll get an exclusive promo to use while in store!).

See you there!

Don't forget to come see Dr. Jennifer (and John!) TONIGHT (12/9) at Deeply Rooted in Spanish Fork! She'll be signing cop...
12/09/2025

Don't forget to come see Dr. Jennifer (and John!) TONIGHT (12/9) at Deeply Rooted in Spanish Fork!

She'll be signing copies of That We Might Have Joy (and if you already have a copy, you can bring it for her to sign!).

See you tonight!

Happy Birthday to my amazing assistant and friend, Kristi!Kristi is a gift of a human being!Not only is she invested and...
12/09/2025

Happy Birthday to my amazing assistant and friend, Kristi!

Kristi is a gift of a human being!

Not only is she invested and responsible, personable and authentic—she brings a gratitude and joy to life that is both genuine and contagious.

Kristi has the unusual ability to see wonder in ordinary moments. So when I’m with her, I am more awake to the beauty of nature and the gift of being alive.

She sees the best in other people (including me)—and to be seen this way is a grace that makes our lives better.

Kristi also recognizes the humor in life. She takes great pleasure in our shared humanity and fallibility and helps me / all of us to find delight in an otherwise challenging world.

She makes me laugh ALL THE TIME. Truly—constantly. I have a serious job, and yet doing it with Kristi is a continual source of pleasure, laughter, and joy.

These remarkable gifts bless my life—because to be with Kristi is to enjoy life more fully.

So, what a gift Kristi has been to my life. Thank you, Kristi, for being born and being who you are! You make all of our lives better.

🩷

Jennifer

“The reward of living honestly and with integrity is enormous, even though it doesn’t keep us from the messiness and unc...
12/07/2025

“The reward of living honestly and with integrity is enormous, even though it doesn’t keep us from the messiness and uncertainty of life. The reward instead is greater wisdom, greater self-respect, and a greater understanding of God and Goodness.”

- Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Developing spiritual maturity is a soul-expanding experience, but—as with all growth—the process of coming to understand what is true can be challenging.

In this episode, Jody Moore of the Better Than Happpy podcast interviews Dr. Finlayson-FIfe about spiritual maturity—what it means, and how we can better facilitate our own spiritual growth and development.

https://www.finlayson-fife.com/podcasts/conversations-with-dr-jennifer/post/developing-spiritual-maturity

12/06/2025

**Time is running out to SAVE $200 on JFF’s 2026 in-person events—https://buytickets.at/jenniferfinlaysonfifephd**

Her content is alive.

It evolves in real time.

I’ve watched for nearly five years now and in countless presentations.

She’s got an outline. She’s got core ideas. But when she picks up the microphone and connects with her audience, her heart takes over and something magical happens.

And then all her years of experience and expertise, all the hours of studying, all of the books read, podcasts listened to, and theorists learned from, converge into a beautifully unique, incredibly tailored presentation.

One that is meant for the group right in front of her.

It’s unreal, and yet, it is real. It’s who she is. It’s how she does it. It’s why each group feels so connected to each other and to her.

She sees through to the heart of their concerns and says what needs to be said to reach through and break new ground.

Nothing compares to being there and learning from her in person.

Our 2026 event schedule is live and for the first time ever we are offering $200 of ANY of our domestic in-person events.

Don’t miss the opportunity to come and experience more growth in a few days than most accomplish in years on their own.

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It takes emotional maturity to show up honestly in your life and expose what you really think, feel, and desire–especial...
12/06/2025

It takes emotional maturity to show up honestly in your life and expose what you really think, feel, and desire–especially when those thoughts and feelings diverge from the norms of your larger social group. The fear of not belonging can keep us from acknowledging who we really are.

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Sarah Carter of the Heart and Soul podcast to discuss the complexity of making room for your own thoughts and desires when you also belong to a family or larger group, and how unyielding expectations can interfere with self-acceptance, body acceptance, and honest relationships with others.

https://www.finlayson-fife.com/podcasts/conversations-with-dr-jennifer/post/owning-your-life-and-reclaiming-your-sexuality

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Dr. Finlayson-Fife

Jennifer Finlayson-Fife grew up in Burlington, Vermont as one of eight children. She studied Psychology and Women’s Studies at Brigham Young University, and went on to receive her Masters and PhD in Counseling Psychology from Boston College. She has a private practice in Chicago, IL where she works primarily with LDS couples on relational and sexual issues. She is a frequent guest on LDS-themed podcasts, and has written articles for LDS-themed magazines and blogs on the subjects of sexuality and modesty as well as mental health and faith. She is married to John Finlayson-Fife and has three wonderful children.