09/02/2025
Needs can be identified and met in moments.
There is such power in taking a little time, reflecting on what YOU need, and moving towards that need, maybe even meeting it. Meeting your own needs builds autonomy and lets your nervous system know, “I’ve got you”, so it can settle.
Identifying and meeting one’s own needs takes practice. Start small (yes, I do need a cardamom bun right now, thank you self) and build up (why, I do need a partner who can listen to me for 6 minutes straight without interjecting their own experience because it helps me feel seen and heard and important).
Cheers to September 😎