12/11/2025
JOSEPH “JOE” CROWLEY JR. – a lifelong, active resident of Woburn, passed away peacefully at the age of 86 on Tuesday, December 9, 2025. Joe passed away in the way that he lived his life, with joy, faith and an unwavering happiness in his heart. He was surrounded by the beloved people in his life and even at the very end of his life well-lived, he was smiling.
Joe was born in Woburn in 1939 to a strong and loving family who built their family values on faith, loyalty and working hard. His family spent every Sunday at St. Charles, where he was an altar boy and a dedicated parishioner. Eventually Joe graduated from Keith Academy in Lowell, then attended Boston College.
In his 20s, Joe coached football and baseball, ultimately serving as the little league and pop warner president multiple times for multiple years. He was an ever-present face in almost every single Woburn activity that supported Woburn youth, and was a beloved figure for many kids. Today, people remember Joe fondly as a coach and will often say that he had a positive impact on their lives. Joe is best known for ice hockey in many capacities. In the late 1960s, Joe grew impatient with the lack of an organized ice hockey program in Woburn, which was an increasingly popular sport for many kids. As such, Joe founded Woburn Youth Hockey which remains to this day, a thriving organization nearly 50 years later. Joe was an active and proud member of several civic organizations such as the Lions Club and served on the Woburn Recreation Commission.
Joe was an educator. He taught math at the Kennedy Junior High throughout the tumultuous 1960s and at McCall Middle School in the 1970s. He was a very popular teacher gaining the respect of all colleagues and students. Often times, kids sought him out for counsel and advice even when they were not his students due to his high level of compassion and kindness.
In 1969, Joe ran for Woburn School Committee and won his first term. He was a strong advocate for the schools, and had an innate ability to navigate difficult situations and approach problems with a level-head and intelligent demeanor. One city official remarked about Joe, “he was a man of integrity, if he asked for something for the schools, we knew it was legit.” Joe was not afraid to have public spats with other city officials about the funding of the school department, particularly in times of economically tough years. He went on to serve 38 years on the School Committee.
In 1974, when Joe was 35 years old, Joe met a beautiful young redheaded store clerk named Audrey Devlin at the Towne Book Fair in the south end. Audrey was a serious, studious bookworm and Joe was a dynamic, popular bachelor who divided his time between coaching and indulging in shenanigans at Kitty’s Restaurant in North Reading with other members of the Lions Club. Sparks flew between Audrey and Joe, and six weeks later, the couple got married at Saint Barbara Church on March 23, 1974. At that point, Joe changed his bachelor lifestyle, traded in his red convertible for a station wagon and soon welcomed his daughters Megan and Ellen into the world. Joe and Audrey went on to enjoy a 51 year marriage and lived on Middle Street in Woburn.
In the early 1990s Joe left the education profession a started a real estate brokerage company called Crowley Real Estate, while raising two highly active teenaged daughters. Crowley Real Estate became a small, thriving real estate company, which employed many people and merged into Century 21 Crowley. Joe worked long and hard hours to make the company successful and to support his family, often at the risk to own personal health and wellbeing.
After Joe’s very reluctant retirement from politics and real estate in his late 70s, Joe was often sought-after for civic engagement and volunteer opportunities. He enjoyed leadership roles on the Woburn Historical Society, and was a founding president of the Woburn Community Education Foundation. Even then, Joe was not just a passive member of these causes, but took leadership roles and enjoyed active commitment to important things into his early 80s.
Above all else, Joe was a dedicated family man and a wonderful son, brother, husband, dad uncle, and papa. He loved to spend time and try new things with Audrey and had many memorable vacations to Aruba, the Cape, and his beloved Maine. He was truly Audrey’s best friend. Audrey, perhaps, was the only person who could tear him away from watching Friday night Red Sox games and simultaneously rooting against the Yankees in every way, shape, and form.
The main source of joy and contentment in his life was raising his two daughters, and offering unfettered adoration to their children, Joseph, Erin, Brooke, Gabby and Calvin. Joe’s life changed forever in 1997 upon the birth of his first grandson, Joseph. The love for his grandchildren had no bounds. There is no question that the pride in his grandchildren helped “Papa” manage the worst times in his life. Joe did everything in his power to make his grandchildren’s lives better. He supported all of their dreams and hopes and offered them the greatest gifts of unconditional love and wisdom.
Speaking of wisdom, Joe frequently offered unsolicited advice to everyone and anyone in his family (or not in his family) on just about any conceivable life issue, including obscure teenage relationships and drama, career, personal health, and somehow, slyly, made it seem like it was not unsolicited advice. He was also very often, right. Chances are good that many of you reading this have been on the receiving end of a Joe Crowley Advice Session.
He never missed an event for his grandchildren, and there were many. Even against all odds, in the last months of his life, when he was certainly not feeling well, Joe could be found limping very slowly and carefully unto basketball courts in order to “show up” for his youngest grandson, Calvin. Even then, he would be quick to inform the basketball coach that he was ready to jersey up if needed, never abandoning his charm and humor.
But besides Joe’s long list of accomplishments, things both named here and omitted as it will take too long, Joe was a good man who was a joy to be around and to know. He is the type of person you meet once and are assured the world is a good place. He had a way about him that put people at ease. Joe had a dry, smart sense of humor that displayed intelligence and a quick wit. He believed in and lived kindness, acceptance, honesty and integrity and our hearts ache for this enormous loss. He will never be forgotten. Beloved husband of Audrey (Devlin) Crowley. Cherished father of Megan E. Crowley and her fiancé Rick Abreu of Wi******er, and Ellen A. Crowley and her husband Joe Koltun of Woburn. Dear brother of David Crowley and his wife Mary, Janice J. Wright and her late husband Thomas, all of Woburn; and the late Elaine Bradley and her late husband Daniel. He was also predeceased by his late son-in-law, Jay Gratton. Dear brother-in-law of George Devlin and his wife Susan of Wilmington. Loving grandfather of Joseph D., twins Erin C. and Brooke C. Gratton, all of Wi******er, and Gabby and Calvin Koltun of Woburn. Joe is also survived by many loving nieces, nephews, colleagues, and friends.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Monday, December 15th at 10 a.m. in St. Charles Church, 280 Main Street, Woburn. Interment will follow at Woodbrook Cemetery, Woburn. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to calling hours at the Lynch-Cantillon Funeral Home, 263 Main Street, Woburn, on Sunday, December 14th from 2–5 p.m. Remembrances may be made in Joe’s honor to the Woburn Community Educational Foundation, P.O. Box 581, Woburn, MA 01801, or to the Woburn Historical Society, 7 Mishawum Road, Woburn, MA 01801.