01/13/2026
To the Families Who Love Someone Struggling With Addiction:
You didn’t cause this.
You can’t control it.
And you are not failing.
Loving someone with addiction can feel like living in two worlds at once. One filled with hope, the other with fear, exhaustion, and unanswered questions. It’s okay to grieve what you’ve lost while still believing in what’s possible.
What’s important to know:
Addiction changes the brain. It can hijack decision-making, impulse control, and stress responses. This means your loved one’s behavior may not reflect their values or their love for you.
What does help:
• Education over shame
• Boundaries that protect everyone
• Support for you, not just them
• Compassion that doesn’t excuse harm
• Hope grounded in treatment and connection
You are allowed to rest.
You are allowed to ask for help.
You are allowed to set boundaries and still love deeply.
Recovery is rarely a straight line, but it is possible. And you don’t have to walk this road alone.
If you’re looking for a safe place to breathe, learn, and be understood:
Our Family Support Group offers connection, education, and encouragement for those walking alongside a loved one in addiction. You’re welcome to join, listen, or simply sit with others who get it.
Because supporting someone in recovery shouldn’t mean doing it alone
We will be offering in person and zoom
To get on the list for the upcoming family group call or text Lindsey 618.331.4829 or email lmccoy@amarenfp.org