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09/02/2024
Happy Labor Day! Today, we celebrate the hard work and dedication of individuals in our community. We also want to acknowledge our team’s tireless efforts in supporting families during difficult times. Enjoy a well-deserved break and time with loved ones. Thank you for all you do to make our community stronger. Wishing you a safe and relaxing holiday!
08/30/2024
Friday Funeral Fact:
Did you know that ancient Greeks had a unique tradition of placing a coin in the mouth of the deceased? This coin, called an “obol,” was believed to be used as payment to Charon, the ferryman of the underworld, for safely transporting the soul across the River Styx to the afterlife. This practice highlights the Greeks’ deep respect for the journey of the soul and their belief in the importance of proper burial rites to ensure a smooth passage.
08/28/2024
08/27/2024
In tribute to the families we serve and the loved ones they’ve cherished, we plant a memorial tree for each online obituary we post. These trees are not only a sustainable gesture but also a living tribute that honors those who have passed. We hope that knowing a loved one’s memory is contributing to the beauty and preservation of our planet brings some comfort. Together, we’re keeping their legacy alive in a meaningful and environmentally-friendly way. If you have any questions or need support, we’re here for you.
08/23/2024
The Staff of Dellinger Funeral Homes sends their condolences to the family of Guy Baker.
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08/23/2024
Friday Funeral Fact:
Arlington National Cemetery is the final resting place for over 400,000 U.S. service members, veterans, and their families. Established during the Civil War, it’s also home to the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, guarded 24/7 by the dedicated Tomb Guard sentinels. Spanning 639 acres, Arlington hosts up to 30 funerals each day, honoring those who served our country.
08/20/2024
After a loved one’s passing, deciding what to do with their ashes can be a deeply personal choice. Here are some meaningful ways to honor their memory: Place Them at a Cemetery: There are many permanent memorialization options at your local cemetery that provides a place for family and friends to gather for generations. Keep Them in a Memory Urn: Select a beautiful urn that fits your home decor and keeps their memory close. Scatter Them in a Special Place: Choose a location that held significance for them, like a favorite park or beach. Create a Memorial Garden: Plant the ashes with flowers or trees to create a living tribute in your backyard. Each option offers a unique way to remember and honor your loved one.
08/16/2024
Friday Funeral Fact:
Did you know that traditional Hawaiian funerals often include beautiful ceremonies with chanting, hula dancing, and the scattering of flowers in the ocean? These practices honor the deceased and celebrate their life, connecting with the natural elements that are so central to Hawaiian culture. It’s a touching and serene way to say goodbye, reflecting the deep respect Hawaiians have for their loved ones and the environment.
08/12/2024
The Staff of Dellinger Funeral Homes sends their condolences to the family of Danny Lytton.
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08/09/2024
Friday Funeral Fact:
The infamous Boot Hill cemetery in Tombstone, Arizona, holds the graves of many notorious figures from the Wild West. Established in 1878, its name comes from the fact that many of its inhabitants “died with their boots on.” This historic cemetery is home to the graves of Billy Clanton and the McLaury brothers, who were famously killed in the Gunfight at the O.K. Corral. With its weathered wooden markers and colorful epitaphs, Boot Hill offers a unique glimpse into the rugged life of the American frontier.
08/06/2024
Summer is the perfect season for family reunions—time to reconnect, share stories, and create new memories together. As you gather with loved ones under the sun, take a moment to celebrate the bonds that bring you together. Enjoy every laugh, every story, and every cherished moment. Here’s to a summer filled with joy and the warmth of family!
08/05/2024
The Staff of Dellinger Funeral Homes sends their condolences to the family of Clara Hurd.
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08/05/2024
The Staff of Dellinger Funeral Homes sends their condolences to the family of Constance "Connie" Ayres.
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08/02/2024
Friday Funeral Fact:
Did you know that you can rest eternally under the sea, surrounded by vibrant marine life? The Neptune Memorial Reef, off the coast of Miami, FL, offers a unique and eco-friendly final resting place. Designed to resemble the lost city of Atlantis, this underwater cemetery becomes a thriving marine habitat over time. Cremated remains are mixed with eco-safe concrete to create personalized memorials that contribute to ocean health.
08/01/2024
Thanks, Jerry, for all you do for the families in our community!
07/30/2024
When a veteran passes away, their family may be eligible for benefits from the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA). These can include burial in a national cemetery, a government-provided headstone or marker, a burial flag, and a Presidential Memorial Certificate. Some families may also qualify for burial allowances and ongoing support through Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC). Contact the VA to understand all available benefits and how to apply or let us help you ensure your veteran and their families receive the support they deserve.
07/29/2024
The Staff of Dellinger Funeral Homes sends their condolences to the family of Mark Haskett.
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07/26/2024
Friday Funeral Fact:
What is a columbarium? A columbarium is a structure specifically designed to house cremated remains. These buildings or walls contain niches, each holding an urn with ashes, providing a respectful and dignified resting place for loved ones. Columbariums can be found in cemeteries, churches, or memorial parks, offering a serene space for family and friends to visit and remember.
07/24/2024
The Staff of Dellinger Funeral Homes sends their condolences to the family of Edith Marie Bushong.
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07/23/2024
Writing an obituary is a meaningful way to honor and remember a loved one. It celebrates their life by highlighting their achievements, passions, and unique qualities. An obituary also informs friends, family, and the community of the passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer support. Additionally, it serves as a lasting tribute that family and future generations can look back on to remember and cherish. Crafting an obituary can be a healing process, offering a sense of closure and a way to express your love and grief. More than just a notice, it is a heartfelt tribute to a life well-lived.
07/22/2024
The Staff of Dellinger Funeral Homes sends their condolences to the family of Terry Alan Grace.
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07/19/2024
Friday Funeral Fact:
Jazz funerals in New Orleans, dating back to the late 19th century, are a beautiful and unique tradition that transforms grief into a celebration of life. These ceremonies start with a solemn dirge and gradually lift spirits with lively jazz music, symbolizing the journey from mourning to joyous remembrance. It’s a procession that honors a loved one with heartfelt melodies and uplifting rhythms, reflecting the rich culture and spirit of New Orleans.
07/16/2024
The Staff of Dellinger Funeral Homes sends their condolences to the family of Paul Dinges.
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07/16/2024
Taking the time to plan your funeral arrangements in advance can bring peace of mind and relieve your loved ones of added stress during an already difficult time. Pre-planning allows you to: Ensure your wishes are known and respected. Ease the emotional and financial burden on your family. Make informed decisions without the pressure of time constraints. Lock in current prices, potentially saving money. By planning ahead, you're giving a thoughtful gift to your loved ones, allowing them to focus on honoring your memory and celebrating your life. We are here to help you plan when you’re ready.
07/12/2024
Friday Funeral Fact:
The tradition of a moment of silence began during World War I. First observed in Cape Town, South Africa, in 1918, it was later adopted in the UK on November 11, 1919, to commemorate Armistice Day, now Veterans Day in the U.S. The moment of silence has since been adopted globally as a way to honor the memory of those lost in wars, disasters, and other significant tragic events. It is a simple yet powerful gesture that transcends language and culture, allowing people to collectively reflect, mourn, and pay their respects.
07/09/2024
July is Bereaved Parents Awareness Month, a time to acknowledge and support parents who have experienced the unimaginable loss of a child. It's a month dedicated to raising awareness, offering compassion, and fostering understanding for those navigating this profound grief.
If you're wondering how to support grieving parents:
• Offer a listening ear without judgment.
• Share fond memories of their child.
• Respect their need for space and time to grieve.
• Provide practical help, like running errands or preparing meals.
Let's come together to provide comfort and solidarity to bereaved parents, reminding them that they are not alone.
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Dellinger Funeral Homes supports World Mental Health Day 💚
Today, on World Mental Health Day, we want to extend our heartfelt condolences to all those who have lost a loved one. Grief is a natural part of the human experience, and it can take a toll on our mental and emotional well-being.
We understand the importance of not only honoring the lives of those who have passed but also supporting those who are grieving. We believe that mental health matters, and during these difficult times, it's crucial to prioritize your well-being.
Here are some ways we can all support each other's mental health:
1. Connect: Reach out to someone you trust for support.
2. Talk: Share your feelings; it's okay not to be okay.
3. Professional Help: Seek professional guidance if needed.
4. Self-Care: Take time for yourself; self-care is vital.
5. Celebrate Memories: Remember the good times shared with your loved one.
At Dellinger Funeral Homes, we're here to support you through this journey. Reach out if you need assistance or guidance. Let's raise awareness for mental health and support each other. 💚 #WorldMentalHealthDay #MentalHealthMatters #GriefSupport
J. Frank Dellinger was born on April 13, 1858, and Minnie Lee Grim was born on July 9, 1864. They were married on December 9, 1880, in Hamburg, Va. J. Frank and Minnie started the funeral home in 1883 in Hamburg and called it the J. Frank Dellinger Funeral Home. J. Frank graduated from the Philadelphia Training School for Embalmers. He was licensed by the State Board of Embalming of Virginia on May 23, 1910. He and his wife opened a business in Mt. Jackson in 1909 and named it the J. F. Dellinger Funeral Home.
Vernon Lee (Pete) Dellinger, son of Frank and Minnie, was born June 17, 1889. He married Virginia Belle Stickley on December 19, 1909. Pete and Virginia lived with J. Frank until they built a house at Hamburg. Pete helped his father in the undertaking business and had his own planer mill. He also built houses for other people. In 1916, Pete and his wife bought the Alice Dodson place and opened a business in Conicville. The names of the funeral homes were changed to Dellinger and Son. After his father’s passing, Pete continued to run the Conicville and Mt Jackson businesses. In 1924, he moved everything to the Mt. Jackson location. In 1939, Pete Dellinger bought out the Frank Fravel Funeral business of Woodstock and built the funeral home located in Woodstock. Opening days were in August of 1940. In 1947, Pete bought the S.P. Lonas property, then known as the Ford Saum residence in Mt. Jackson, and converted it to the present funeral home there.
Pete and Virginia had three children: Elwood Dellinger was born Feb. 18, 1913. He received his funeral license in 1934. He died on May 9, 1959, and had no children.
Sadie Dellinger was born on April 13, 1917. She married Clyde W. Heishman. They had three children, Vernon Heishman, C. Dennis Heishman, and Bonita Heishman. Vernon had three boys; Dennis had a son and a daughter, all of whom were married in the chapel.
Pete’s third child was Margaret Virginia Dellinger who was born February 7, 1921; she married David Stanley Kagey who became a licensed funeral director in 1950. They operated the funeral home in Mt. Jackson. They had two children. Janelle Kagey Fadely who is a licensed fourth-generation funeral director and is currently enjoying retirement She had a son, David Lee Litten who is a fifth-generation funeral director and is currently enjoying retirement. Margaret and Stanley’s son, V.L.D Kagey is a former funeral director but is not currently employed with the family business.