05/16/2026
May 15, 2026
Happy birthday to the bravest boy I know! Levi is TWELVE 😳. Not sure how that happened because I'm definitely not old enough to have a 12 year old, right? RIGHT?!?
His actual birthday twelve years ago was a very dark day, one that took me a lot of years of therapy to be able to get through this day each year without a sting. I had had a feeling since I got the positive pregnancy test that the baby had Down syndrome and despite every test saying that I was wrong, I just knew and couldn't shake it. The fear gripped me my entire pregnancy so much that I didn't even tell Branden for fear that it would be true. His birth day was pretty traumatic and ended in a C-section followed immediately by his diagnosis. I don't remember much after that (drugs are not nice to me) other than waking up occasionally to vomit until the nurses came in that night to tell us Levi had coded and was currently in the NICU. From there we spent two weeks in the NICU where we learned he would need open heart surgery and learned how to feed our baby with an ng tube. It was terrifying and the future felt bleak. Not exactly the way I pictured starting parenthood.
Over the next several years, we honestly considered NOT having more kids not because we were afraid of having another child with Down syndrome but because Levi was the easiest, coolest kid and we didn't really want to rock the boat (enter: Graham. He rocked the boat. IYKYK 😜). From day one he has captivated people and loved people in a way I will never understand. He has always been the life of the party and typically is just happy to be a part of the party. He loves life and really makes us better people.
Today we are thankful for a new year of Levi, free of cancer. He was nine when he was diagnosed so it feels good knowing that after nearly three years, his 12th year could be the year he is just a kid again before becoming a teen. He is incredibly resilient and brave. ❤️
Today, Levi was so excited to wake up to balloons and an army of aliens downstairs - he's insisted on the same Pizza Planet birthday party for six years and counting 🤣. He was then excited to attend school on his birthday, especially because it was a field trip day to Stan Hywett where he had a lot of fun. Then his favorite part, a birthday party at Que Pasa with some of his favorite people. On Sunday he asked for ANOTHER party at his house so we are having family over and having cake, per usual. Low key, but a perfect celebration for our sweet boy.
We are praying that year 12 is uneventful and that Levi falls right back into being a regular kid again.
Happy birthday, sweet boy. We are so grateful for you ❤️