03/10/2026
If your baby is wide awake at 2am, you are not doing anything wrong.
In the first 4 months, babies do not have a developed circadian rhythm. They do not know day from night. Their tiny tummies need frequent feeds, and biologically they are wired to wake often.
Frequent waking is normal. Night confusion is normal. Wanting to be held is normal.
What you can do
Expose baby to natural daylight in the morning
Keep nighttime calm and dim
Feed on demand
Lower expectations and focus on survival and bonding
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