05/31/2023
On February 13th 2023 our lives changed forever when our beautiful 5 month old boy Gage was sent to Children’s hospital in Plano because he was failing to thrive. He weighed 10lbs 2oz, just 2lbs shy from his birth weight. During that stay more problems occurred and he started having seizures, was incredibly uncomfortable and just became miserable.
Our family spent two weeks in hospital whilst a team of doctors at Children’s Medical Center tried to uncover what had occurred and why he was failing to thrive.
During our stay he had 7 X-rays, 45min EEG, 24hr EEG, Upper GI scan, Lower GI scan, swallow study, a lot of blood work and more tests. They could only diagnose him for the obvious which was failure to thrive, epilepsy, hypertonia, and developmentally delayed.
They placed a NG feeding tube in him, and we were initially told that with his NG tube, medication and management, we’d have to go and try to live our lives back at home as normally as possible, with no cure but we would have to have follow up appointments with doctors and do outpatient tests so they could still try and figure what and why this was happening.
2 months from Gage’s hospital stay, with tons of Physical Therapy, occupational therapy, Feeding Therapy, and vital stimulation therapy Gage had made an unbelievable amount of progress and our family started to gain some normality and hope.
Then in April, Gage had his first strong seizure, affecting his newly acquired fine motor skills, head strength, bottle eating/swallowing skills, and eye strength. All of his determination and progress was undone in one seizure.
A lot has happened since then… fast forward to today and our little boy has had countless tests, procedures and his first surgery, which was transitioning him from NG tube to GTube. Our family is finally back together after this week’s hospitalization.
Our little boy has been through so much, and had to endure more than most would in a lifetime, but everyday, he continues to amaze us with his determination, resilience and positivity. Gage is what keeps us strong, but this has been an incredibly hard time for our family.
Since this all began our lives have changed beyond recognition, with taking on Gage’s care management at home, we could not have been more blessed to have the incredible amount of help that Logan’s mom has provided us with. We’ve spent a huge amount of time in and out of hospital, and day to day we have to plan and think about things we couldn’t even imagine.
Having to watch your child go through so much and knowing his diagnosis of what is causing these seizures, development delay, and hypertonia is uncertain is the most heartbreaking thing a parent can experience. And the day to day practicalities of living in with the medical expenses are hard too.
With mounting expenses from traveling back and forth to appointments, specialists copays, tests that aren’t covered by insurance and hospital bills they have started to impact on our lives.
As a family we are very independent and have tried to tackle this alone for a while, however, the long term impact of this situation is starting to take its toll and we know that this will continue into the future. So, we now realise that we need to ask our friends and family for help.
Since this begun we have been inundated by well wishers and people that want to help, but often haven’t known how, which is why we decided to create this GoFundMe.
If you choose to give, we'll use the money to cover Gage’s medical expenses and for future appointments, tests, and procedures.
Thank you for checking in, and caring for our family. And if you can donate, thank you for caring for us in this way as well. It means more to us than you could know.