Pillow Talk Therapy

Pillow Talk Therapy LMFT specializing in couples/relationships and s*x therapy. LGBTQIA+, poly/kink, and neurodiversity affirming. CA/FL

Happy Pans*xual Pride Day! 🩷💛💙 𝐩𝐚𝐧·𝐬𝐞𝐱·𝐮·𝐚𝐥a s*xual attraction to all people, regardless of their gender identity or bio...
12/09/2025

Happy Pans*xual Pride Day! 🩷💛💙

𝐩𝐚𝐧·𝐬𝐞𝐱·𝐮·𝐚𝐥
a s*xual attraction to all people, regardless of their gender identity or biological s*x

Pillow Talk Therapy is proudly celebrating with the pans*xual community today, December 8th! We stand for love, acceptance, and inclusivity for all. 🌈

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12/09/2025

Here's an honest review of the book 𝗛𝘂𝗿𝘁 𝗦𝗼 𝗚𝗼𝗼𝗱: 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗰𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗖𝘂𝗹𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗣𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝗼𝗻 𝗣𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗯𝘆 𝗟𝗲𝗶𝗴𝗵 𝗖𝗼𝘄𝗮𝗿𝘁! I expected one thing, but got a mind-blowing, conversational deep-dive into the vast spectrum of pain on purpose. 👀

What did you think of this fascinating deep-dive? Share your thoughts! 👇

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Is your relationship feeling low on fuel? The fix isn't always tackling the big problems—often, it’s about magnifying th...
12/05/2025

Is your relationship feeling low on fuel? The fix isn't always tackling the big problems—often, it’s about magnifying the small, good things. ✨

Therapy research shows clients find the affirmation of partners and reviewing pleasant incidents to be the most powerful interventions. Why? Because they reinforce the positive behavioral exchanges that sustain a healthy partnership.

💡 𝗦𝘄𝗶𝗽𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘂𝗻𝗹𝗼𝗰𝗸 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗵𝗶𝗴𝗵-𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁 𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗸𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗶𝘁𝗲𝗺!
It’s simple, free, and proven to boost connection and appreciation. Save this post to remind you this weekend!

Visit 🌐 www.pillowtalktherapy.com for a free consultation today! ❤️

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11/29/2025

𝗜'𝗺 𝗮 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 & 𝗦𝟯𝘅 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗽𝗶𝘀𝘁, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗜'𝗺 𝗯𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗜𝘀 𝗕𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗱 🧠

Love doesn’t fail because people are flawed — it fails because expectations are.
Money differences. Parenting realities. Future fantasies.

So many couples fall apart because they fall in love with potential, not the person in front of them.
When you bet on who someone might become, you miss who they actually are.

Which issue is the hardest to work through, in your experience? 👇



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❤️ Catch up on my Love Is Blind couples break down:
Anton & Ali: https://www.instagram.com/p/DQanW54jWyl/

Edmond & KB: https://www.instagram.com/p/DQfcfkxEQxy/

Jordan & Megan: https://www.instagram.com/p/DQx5ZOYAY5O/

Joe & Madison: https://www.instagram.com/p/DQ7VuPbgQJi/

Patrick & Kacie: https://www.instagram.com/p/DQ-qjV6jCq_/

Nick & Annie: https://www.instagram.com/p/DRV8qsZEeM7/

Youtube Playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLr7BFwuZpRyWRIzKEL8KabNMVzxIa55sF&si=9rdh1kSnuvLT707h

11/22/2025

𝗜'𝗺 𝗮 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 & 𝗦𝟯𝘅 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗽𝗶𝘀𝘁, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗜'𝗺 𝗯𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗜𝘀 𝗕𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗱 🧠

Be honest, have you ever chased someone harder the more distant they became?

Nick and Annie showed us what happens when one partner seeks constant reassurance and the other hides behind a mask 👀

In this breakdown, I unpack:
➡️ The Masked Partner
➡️ Boundaries
➡️ Anxious Attachment

So… is anxiety to blame, or was Nick never fully in it? Tell me what you think 👇

I have thoughts on all the couples! Hit follow so you don't miss the rest of my Love Is Blind therapist reactions 🔔

🚫 The Stigma Has to GoFor too long, Erectile Dysfunction has been wrongly tied to outdated ideas of masculinity, leading...
11/20/2025

🚫 The Stigma Has to Go

For too long, Erectile Dysfunction has been wrongly tied to outdated ideas of masculinity, leading to silence, shame, and isolation. If you're struggling, we want you to know:

➡️ You Are Not Alone. ED is one of the most common health issues men face.

➡️ It's Not a Character Flaw. It is a treatable medical condition.

➡️ It Affects All Ages. It's not just an "older guy" problem. Nearly 1 in 5 young men (ages 18-24) meet the diagnostic criteria too.

Break the silence and talk to a doctor and/or s*x therapist. Talking about ED could literally save your life.

Don't let shame be a barrier to better health.

Click the link in the comment section to read the full blog.

It's time to normalize the conversation. Read, share, and break the silence this November! ❤️

👇 Connect with me
📩 hello@pillowtalktherapy.com
🌐 pillowtalktherapy.com

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11/13/2025

𝗜'𝗺 𝗮 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 & 𝗦𝟯𝘅 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗽𝗶𝘀𝘁, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗜'𝗺 𝗯𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗜𝘀 𝗕𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗱. 🧠

Love Square Disaster! 🤯 Let's dive deep into the saga of Kacie, Patrick, Anna, and Blake.

➡️ Anna's avoidance
➡️ Kacie's meltdown
➡️ Culture factor

Hit play to see how this love square unraveled.

Follow for more of my therapist reactions to Love Is Blind 🔔

11/11/2025

𝗜'𝗺 𝗮 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 & 𝗦𝟯𝘅 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗽𝗶𝘀𝘁, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗜'𝗺 𝗯𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗜𝘀 𝗕𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗱. 🧠

Be honest... Could you love someone if the spark wasn’t there?

Madison and Joe’s story in Love Is Blind forces us to confront one of the hardest truths about relationships: attraction matters — but not always in the way we think.

Follow for the rest of my Love Is Blind therapist reactions 🔔

You spend 100% of your time with one person: YOU ✨Is that relationship thriving or just surviving?Your self-relationship...
11/11/2025

You spend 100% of your time with one person: YOU ✨

Is that relationship thriving or just surviving?

Your self-relationship isn't some vague concept. It's the foundation for every achievement, boundary, and successful connection you have. It influences everything from your confidence in a meeting to how you handle a bad day.

💡 Swipe through to define your relationship with yourself and start building a stronger one today.

Which component do you need to work on most? Let me know below! 👇

11/08/2025

𝗜'𝗺 𝗮 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 & 𝗦𝗲𝘅 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗽𝗶𝘀𝘁, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗜'𝗺 𝗯𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗜𝘀 𝗕𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗱. 🧠

“Sparkle Megan” looked radiant on camera... but what was underneath the shimmer? 💭

This couple’s story reveals how financial imbalance, parental responsibility, and identity collide when the honeymoon phase fades.

There’s so much more beneath the surface than TV can show.

Binge my therapist takes on the other couples to get the full emotional map of this season ❤️‍🔥

Gratitude in relationships is important, but is your appreciation actually reaching your partner and strengthening your ...
11/05/2025

Gratitude in relationships is important, but is your appreciation actually reaching your partner and strengthening your bond?

Swipe to learn the 3 skills that build unshakable bond:

👉 Sun exercise
👉 Validation & empathy
👉 The platinum rule

Transform your interactions & activate your relationship's resilience shield.

Read the full blog post today & master these techniques.
🔗 https://pillowtalktherapy.com/beyond-thank-you-gratitudes-true-relational-currency-for-resilient-love/

10/31/2025

𝗜'𝗺 𝗮 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 & 𝗦𝗲𝘅 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗽𝗶𝘀𝘁, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗜'𝗺 𝗯𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗜𝘀 𝗕𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗱 🧠

KB & Edmond had a deep connection in the pods, but the real world revealed a conflict.

I'm a therapist analyzing why the polarity was missing and how clashing expectations highlighted their incompatibility.

Tell me: what was the biggest red flag YOU saw? 👇

I have thoughts on all the couples! Hit follow so you don't miss the rest of my Love Is Blind therapist reactions 🔔

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