Steven Santiago-Torres LMT - Massage Therapist

10/14/2025

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10/14/2025

Although we shoot the c**a 💩 and life during sessions I ask the most high to provide a word that may resonate and encourage/empower those that pass through my hands.

Watch and protect them as they go through out their lives. Until next we meet 👋. Blessings.

Thank you 🙏🏽

10/14/2025

Annie says to Book your Massage!

10/14/2025

The first rule of entrepreneurship:

Use what you got.

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Age doesn’t define respect. ✨

10/14/2025

Your ego isn't protecting you. It's isolating you.

Here's the uncomfortable truth:

Every time you refuse feedback, you're choosing ignorance.
Every time you won't admit you're wrong, you're choosing stagnation.
Every time you're too proud to ask for help, you're choosing to suffer alone.

And you call this "confidence."

The people crushing life aren't the ones with the biggest egos.

They're the ones who can say:
"I fu**ed that up."
"I don't know."
"Can you teach me?"
"You're right, I was wrong."

Your ego convinces you that being vulnerable is weakness.

Reality: Being unteachable is the actual weakness.

I've learned more from the moments I felt stupid than all the times I pretended to have answers.

The friends who stuck around aren't the ones who watched me perform.
They're the ones who saw me struggle and didn't judge.

Your ego is a defense mechanism against growth.

Drop it or stay stuck.

Most people choose stuck because it feels safer.

Don't be most people.

10/14/2025

☕🐾 Reminder: PUP UP at Gather 256 Café! 🐾☕

Don’t forget to join us this Saturday, October 18th from 10:00 AM – 2:00 PM at Gather 256 Café in York for a special PUP UP event! 💙

All month long, Gather 256 is serving up the Fluffy Love Latte — a delicious mix of peanut butter and chocolate — with a portion of proceeds benefiting the York County SPCA and our life-saving work for animals in need. 🐶🐱

On Saturday, we’ll be there in person with:
🛍️ YCSPCA merch for sale
🐾 A couple of adorable adoptable pups to meet
☕ Lots of good coffee & great company

Stop by, sip for a cause, and maybe meet your new best friend while you’re at it! 💛

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This is a perspective shift for many people, and it’s also a sign of improving emotional maturity when we can begin to hold space for these complex and often conflicting feelings and truths.

People aren’t simply “good” or “bad.”
We’re all complex, multi-layered, with complicated histories, deeply ingrained patterns, and, for the most part, I believe we’re all trying to do the best we can.

Which means good people can do bad things sometimes.
But seeing the good in someone doesn’t mean you have to stay in harmful patterns or unsafe dynamics.
It means that we can still see and love them and understand how they came to a behavior, AND not be willing to tolerate that behavior.

Learning to separate out the person from the behavior is a sign of your own growth and maturity.
It means growing to trust yourself to maintain boundaries without needing hate, anger, or judgment.
You’re allowed to have boundaries simply because what you need is what you need.

Remember, boundaries ARE kind.
Boundaries are letting people see you; boundaries are part of how we co-create relationships together, through sharing our limits and needs with one another.
They’re how we build real trust because we can see how people respond when we show them parts of ourselves in naming what we need.

If you’re new to creating the types of boundaries that welcome people in, there is a lot of emotion in this process. The Relationship Management Workshop begins October 23rd. Come learn new ways to navigate conflict, communication, intimacy, repair, and more as you work on deepening your ability to relate more securely in your relationships.
Last workshop of 2025! Just a few spots left.
https://theeqschool.co/relationship-management-workshop