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How you praise your child makes a difference!Years of research show that just using praise in a special way can be used ...
19/02/2021

How you praise your child makes a difference!

Years of research show that just using praise in a special way can be used as a tool to develop good behaviors in your child that may turn into beneficial habits that will form a character.

There are four components of the praise:

1) Choose the behavior you want to enhance
2) Praise your child emotionally
3) Describe what the child did well
4) Important: Always finish praise with a non-verbal appreciation gentle touch (hug, kiss, or pat on the back), or give a high ✋

Example:

We choose the behavior that we want to strengthen and praise - the smaller the child, the more emotional the praise should be: “You cleared the table all by yourself! That's great!" - come up and hug tightly. “You put the toys in the closet! That is fantastic! I didn't even have to remind you of this!" It is important to give lavish praise to children. At the same time, to know when to praise, for what, and how. Errors in praise can not only not be beneficial, but also harm the child, which may even negatively affect his adult life.

Parent Counselling  When parent counselling might be helpful? Raising children is one of the most important and fulfilli...
31/01/2021

Parent Counselling

When parent counselling might be helpful?

Raising children is one of the most important and fulfilling jobs but it can also be one of the most challenging, leaving us feeling frustrated and intellectually and emotionally drained. Even on the best day, we can feel like we are struggling and question our parenting abilities. This is a common feeling amongst many parents and is nothing to be worried about. Parenting in today’s world while juggling jobs, finances, family, and other commitments, can be demanding and stressful and daily life at home can feel exhausting and overwhelming. However, there are many evidence-based parenting techniques that can make your day-to-day life at home much easier, helping you to cope with your stresses, while developing positive behaviours in your children.

What are the possible results of parent counselling?

Parent counselling may result in improving your child’s behavior and work to strengthen your relationships with your loved ones. It will improve the family atmosphere and can change not only your child’s behavior but may also help you to get rid of your own unconscious patterns of behavior, so you can better serve yourself and your family. It will help you to act more consciously and add happiness to your family-life.
Examples of behaviors that can be developed:
- Playing nicely with a sibling (stop hitting or throwing things)
- Playing quietly
- Handling a disagreement or disappointment without a tantrum
- Being good at sports
- Completing chores
- Complying with a request right away
- Compromising or being flexible
- Helping you without complaint
- Putting in more effort on a difficult task and accomplishing it
- Showing compassion
- Staying at the dinner table without fidgeting or getting up
- Talking about their feelings and what is happening at school
- Using manners
- Waiting patiently
- Compromising
- Listening to the teachers
- What will happen during a consultation?

Together we will look at the challenging situations in your home and/or at school, discuss the behaviors that you wish to develop in your child, and those you would like to see less of. Then we will apply research-based methods suitable for each particular case for a successful resolution.

What guarantees a good result?

Only continuous application of the techniques will ensure positive changes. Knowing does not mean doing. ‘Knowledge without practice is useless. Practice without knowledge is dangerous.’ - Confucius

What is Play Therapy?Play therapy is a form of psychotherapy used mainly for children 3-12 years old, as they may not be...
30/01/2021

What is Play Therapy?

Play therapy is a form of psychotherapy used mainly for children 3-12 years old, as they may not be able to deal with their own emotions or explain their problems to parents or other adults. It is a research-based technique utilized for almost 100 years, and is supported by extensive clinical literature.

Who will benefit from play therapy?

Children who experience depression, anxiety, stress, grief, uncontrolled anger, and many other issues, caused by complex life experiences, such as sibling appearance, family breakdown, mental or physical abuse, witnessing or experiencing domestic violence, loss of a relative, relocation, chronic illnesses and hospitalization, natural disasters or neglect. Play therapy can also encourage the use of language and improve fine and gross motor skills. It may also help children with developmental delay or learning disabilities, eating disorders, and children who exhibit autistic behaviors.
*However, if a child has a diagnosed mental or physical illness, play therapy does not replace medications or any other necessary treatments. Play therapy can be used alone or alongside other therapies.

What is the result?

Play therapy results in social integration, growth and development, decreased aggression, emotional modulation, social skill development, empathy, and trauma resolution, taking more responsibility for his/her behaviors, developing self-respect, respect for others, and stronger family relationships. Play therapy also develops self-efficacy, coping skills, and improves a child’s behavior in general. Children will also simply benefit from receiving emotional support and gaining a positive experience from a therapist, which will help them to develop trust in the outside world.

How does it work?

Since children often cannot verbalize what worries them, they use play to communicate at their own pace, without feeling interrogated or threatened. Using toys or puppets, drawing life scenes, creating a scene in a sand tray, telling stories, children may re-enact or play out traumatic or difficult life experiences to make sense of their past and cope better with their present, building resilience for the future. A trained therapist uses playtime to observe and gain insight into what is going on with a child and then helps him understand muddled feelings and upsetting events, and deal with unresolved trauma.

How long does play therapy last?

It is recommended that children attend 6 to 12 one-hour sessions once a week. However, when problems have persisted for a long time or are complicated, it may require a longer-term intervention. Sessions are usually held once a week and consistency in day, time, and location is very important for developing a trusting relationship. Unplanned or missed sessions may disrupt the progress. It is important to know that the behavior of a child may get worse before it becomes better. This is why it is important not to leave play therapy in the middle of the process.

The place for psychological counselling is designed and arranged with love respect for those who come here. It is very c...
27/01/2021

The place for psychological counselling is designed and arranged with love respect for those who come here. It is very cozy and relaxing with a park and river view. It has both - space for adults, and an area for play therapy for kids.
The office is situated in Phu My Hung, 10 min walk from Saigon South International School

Hello, my name is Lana and I am a qualified counseling psychologist. My missionis to help people to overcome obstacles, ...
25/01/2021

Hello, my name is Lana and I am a qualified counseling psychologist.

My mission

is to help people to overcome obstacles, gain balance and meaning in their lives, set and reach goals, grow emotionally and spiritually, and achieve overall wellbeing; heal children from traumatic events, develop trust in themselves and the world, build resilience, self-confidence, and reinforce character strengths.

I believe that liberating ourselves from the tricks of our minds will allow us to see things as they are, will open us to new possibilities, and will enable us to experience the inner joy of our existence to the fullest and as it is. Our body is a miracle that we need to cherish. Giving it enough rest, nutritious food, and regular exercise is necessary for our mental health and happiness.

Education

I hold a Master Degree in Education and a Master Degree in Psychology. I also have additional certificates in psychology and coaching from Yale University and the University of California. I am trained to use different counseling approaches such as gestalt therapy, cognitive-behavioral therapy, positive psychology, play therapy, and Individual (Adlerian) psychology.

If you feel you need a helping hand, please do not hesitate to contact me – together we will work it out!

My office is located in Phu My Hung. Please contact me via messenger, WhatsApp, Zalo: 090 463 58 05, or via email: altermind.life@gmail.com

Address

200-202 Ha Huy Tap, Khu Phố Nam Thiên 3, Tân Phong, Quận 7
Ho Chi Minh City
700000

Opening Hours

Monday 08:00 - 18:00
Tuesday 08:00 - 18:00
Wednesday 08:00 - 18:00
Thursday 08:00 - 18:00
Friday 08:00 - 18:00
Saturday 08:00 - 12:00

Telephone

+84904635805

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