Daniel B. Sobel Friendship House

Daniel B. Sobel Friendship House Friendship and community for individuals in recovery and isolation. The Daniel B.

Sobel Friendship House provides support and guidance to individuals and families struggling with isolation, addiction and other life crises through a welcoming Jewish recovery community that offers friendship, support, and a variety of programs that facilitate lasting success.

12/06/2024

Dear Friends,

This week’s Torah portion recounts a powerful and deeply human moment in the life of our forefather Jacob. He finds himself in a place of extreme darkness—fleeing from his brother Esau, who seeks to take his life. Jacob is in the throes of trauma and uncertainty, yet the Torah tells us: “He came upon the place” and prayed there during the night.

From this episode, our sages derive the tradition of the evening prayer, Ma’ariv. In Jewish mysticism, nighttime symbolizes chaos, pain, and the struggle to feel God’s presence in our lives. It represents those moments when we feel lost, unsure, and disconnected.

And yet, in the midst of this darkness, Jacob turns to prayer. His action reflects an unshakable connection to God—a connection rooted not in understanding, but in trust.

It’s like a child whose mother takes them to the doctor. As the doctor prepares a shot, the child, terrified, instinctively runs back to their mother’s arms. You might wonder, Why run to her? Isn’t she the one who brought you here? But to the child, it makes no difference. They know their mother loves them and wants only what’s best.

The evening prayer mirrors this dynamic. It embodies the tension of living in a world filled with uncertainty while holding onto the bedrock belief that God is with us. Even when we don’t understand His plan, we lean into His love and care, trusting that He is guiding us toward what’s best.

As we face the challenges in our lives, let’s remember Jacob’s prayer in the night. Let it inspire us to turn to God not only in times of light and clarity but also in moments of darkness and doubt.

Wishing you strength, connection, and peaceful Shabbat.
Warm regards,
Rabbi Benny Greenwald

Shabbat candle-lighting today in West Bloomfield is at 4:44

Save the date: Chanukah Celebration December 26th at 6 p.m.

10/15/2024

The Friendship House recovery community is warmly invited to an unforgettable evening of Sushi and Soup in the Sukkah—an experience filled with delicious food, great company, and a festive atmosphere under the stars.

Tuesday, October 22nd at 6:00 PM RSVP

Looking forward to celebrating together!

For the address and RSVP please email Benny@friendshipcircle.org

With our friends at the graduation for the recovery coaching program!
06/28/2024

With our friends at the graduation for the recovery coaching program!

Are you a member of the recovery community?Join us this Memorial Day for a Sober BBQ hosted by the Daniel B. Sobel Frien...
05/24/2024

Are you a member of the recovery community?

Join us this Memorial Day for a Sober BBQ hosted by the Daniel B. Sobel Friendship House! Let's honor our heroes while celebrating togetherness, community, and sobriety. Enjoy delicious food, great company, and a safe, welcoming environment. 🍔🌟

RSVP, by emailing benny@friendshipcircle.org

The  presents an eye-opening session with Dr. Chantelle Thomas, PhD, Executive Clinical Director at Windrose Recovery. D...
05/17/2024

The presents an eye-opening session with Dr. Chantelle Thomas, PhD, Executive Clinical Director at Windrose Recovery. Delve into the intricate relationship between trauma, substance use, and recovery, gaining valuable insights and empowering strategies along the way. Don't miss out on this chance to expand your understanding and foster resilience. Reserve your spot today!

🗓️ When: Monday, June 17th, 2024 | ⏰ 6:30PM-8PM
📍 Where: Farber Center, 5586 Drake Rd, West Bloomfield Township, MI 48322
RSVP https://bit.ly/4bLEG9X

Light refreshments will be served. Open to all seeking knowledge and support on the path to healing and providing 1.5 CEU's for social workers.

04/22/2024

This Monday night we begin the holiday of Passover, a holiday that many of us associate with getting together with family, eating traditional food etc. However, in addition to these amazing things there is a special energy of freedom that we can tap into on these days.

The Talmud instructs us that "In every generation one must look upon himself as if he personally had gone out of Egypt." It’s not enough to just remember our ancestors' liberation, we have to work towards and experience a personal liberation as well. While we are not slaves in the traditional sense, forced to build pyramids for the Egyptians, we experience a spiritual slavery in our lives. We can be enslaved to destructive behaviors or attitudes.

The root of our personal slavery is an obsession with self, our ego, and our insecurities. Matzah represents humility, the antidote to this obsession. This Passover as we eat the matzo, let's work to be free of the bo***ge of self, free of the things that are holding us back from living a spiritual connected life. Let's celebrate the fact that with G-d's help, we can live a free and serene life.

Pumped for sober super bowl party tonight!
02/11/2024

Pumped for sober super bowl party tonight!

06/12/2022

No go zone

This week's Torah portion speaks about some one who violates a boundary of theirs. While the act may have been fine for someone else, for them it is completely off limits
This idea is one that we are all challenged with in recovery. Whether it is finding a justification for going into a bar, or dwelling on the negative emotion or resentment until we are consumed by it. We can find ourselves thinking, "well it's not so bad, this won't lead to anything worse." However if we fast-forward the tape, we'll see the devastating effect that these broken boundaries will have on our lives. We must therefore recognize the violation of the boundary as a no go zone in itself.
We are not always conscious of what is going on when this happens. However if we are blessed with the recognition that we are breaking our boundary, we should take that moment to reach out to a friend, and to take the actions necessary to get back to a healthier way of living. And then this challenge will turn into a stepping stone, leading us to a happier, healthier life.

04/11/2022

Today is the 11th of Nissan on the Jewish Calendar, the birth date of the Lubavitcher Rebbe.

The Rebbe’s unconditional love for people knew no bounds. To the Rebbe they all belonged. He made them feel at home. The Rebbe’s warm smile would heal every aching heart. The Rebbe was always there, offering counsel and blessings, comfort and hope, and often, material help as well.

It is his belief that none of us is complete unless all of us are included. That is the very core and essence of what the Rebbe teaches.

It is this single concept on which Friendship Circle was founded.

Today and every day, we further the Rebbe's legacy and vision of an inclusive world by working to spread friendship to individuals with special needs, celebrating their unique missions, and empowering folks on both ends of the spectrum to make a difference.

04/08/2022

Cleaning house

Next Friday night, April 15th is the first night of Passover. Many of us are familiar with the story of Passover which celebrates the freedom of our people from slavery in Egypt.

This exodus is not ancient history, but something that we must work to experience each and every day. In the Hagadda, we read of the obligation for people “in every generation, (and every day,) to see themselves leaving Egypt.”

The Hebrew name for Egypt is “Mitzrayim,” which literally means “limitations.” We must work to free ourselves from spiritual slavery, from being enslaved to the self-destructive behaviors and feelings of inflated ego, or its close friend, the sense of worthlessness.

Before Passover we clean our homes to rid it of all chametz (leaven). Spiritually speaking, if we want to leave our emotional and spiritual enslavement, we need to clean house. We do this by being honest about our character defects, realize what they are and then we can work on getting rid of them.

Only then are we truly free!

Pre Passover dinner and learn - Monday 4/11/22 6:30 at the Friendship House

May we all have an uplifting and joyful Shabbat.

Shabbat candle-lighting time this Friday in West Bloomfield is at 7:50 pm

04/04/2022

Tonight! exploring Passover through the lens of recovery
6:30

dinner discussion at the Friendship House

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