30/12/2025
Thereâs something sacred about the pause between years⌠that quiet moment where reflection becomes clarity and clarity becomes intention.
This past year stretched me, softened me, challenged me, and reshaped me in ways I didnât see coming.
These arenât cute one-liners, theyâre the truths that carved me open and rebuilt me.
As I walk into 2026, these are the lessons Iâm taking with me:
1ď¸âŁ Action beats perfection every time.
Perfect kept me stuck. Showing up messy, real, in motion moved my life more than waiting to feel âreadyâ ever did.
2ď¸âŁ Be the egg, not the s***m.
Regulated, receptive, intuitive energy is magnetic. I realised I donât have to chase, I choose.
3ď¸âŁ Your feelings create your reality.
Alignment isnât conceptual, itâs emotional. When I opened the valve to joy, presence, gratitude⌠everything shifted.
4ď¸âŁ Let go of the small things so you can rise into the big things.
I wasnât lacking discipline, I was lacking focus. Busy isnât effective. Refinement changed everything.
5ď¸âŁ True evolution is choosing differently, again and again.
The work isnât about being perfectly regulated, itâs catching the moment you drift and recalibrating.
6ď¸âŁ People can only meet you where they are.
Not where you wish theyâd be. Their capacity has nothing to do with your worth.
7ď¸âŁ Your environment determines your expansion.
You rise faster in rooms where dreaming big is normal and delusion is celebrated.
8ď¸âŁ You have the capacity for more than you could ever dream of
It wasnât fear of failure, it was fear of success. My capacity had expanded, I just had to acknowledge it.
9ď¸âŁ Your big dreams require you to be a little delulu.
Conviction in the absence of evidence is the common thread of every extraordinary woman I met this year.
đ Get comfortable in the uncomfortable.
Discomfort isnât the barrier, itâs the invitation. The resistance you feel is proof youâre expanding.
Hereâs to walking into 2026 with clarity, courage, softness, and a wildly expanded sense of whatâs possible â¨
What were your biggest lessons this year?