05/01/2026
We’re taught to start the year by fixing ourselves – our bodies, our habits, our productivity, our emotions.
That’s not accidental.
Patriarchy (and the systems tied to it) profits when we believe we are broken:
🔹when girls and femmes are taught to shrink, perfect, and buy solutions;
🔹when boys and masc folks are taught to override their bodies, ignore rest, and prove worth through output.
Diet culture, hustle culture, and “self-improvement” industries thrive on this lie: that you are a problem to be solved.
But you are not.
Movement doesn’t have to be punishment.
Food doesn’t have to be controlled.
Rest doesn’t need to be earned.
You don’t need a reset, a glow-up, or a better version of yourself to deserve care.
This year, we’re opting out of the pressure.
Choosing softness over discipline.
Care over control.
You were never broken.
And you don’t need fixing.