Ashley Dearling Occupational Therapists

Ashley Dearling Occupational Therapists Ashley Dearling OT is a Ballito based OT practice, passionate about Sensory Integration

πŸš€ Introducing Our New Series: Ask an OT β€” Straight Answers for Everyday Parenting!We know parenting isn’t always straigh...
08/01/2026

πŸš€ Introducing Our New Series: Ask an OT β€” Straight Answers for Everyday Parenting!

We know parenting isn’t always straightforward β€” and questions about your child’s development pop up all the time. That’s why we’re launching a new series to answer the questions we hear most from parents and teachers like you.
From choosing the right bicycle 🚲 to teaching your child to tie their own shoelaces πŸ‘Ÿ, we’ll share practical, easy-to-understand tips to help your little ones grow more confident and independent every day.

Got a burning question about your child’s development, motor skills, or everyday challenges? Drop it in the comments or send us a message β€” we’ll be answering them right here!

Follow along and let’s make parenting just a little easier, together. πŸ’™

We're Back! Practice Now Open. Happy New Year! Our practice reopened today, Monday, 5 January 2026, and we're excited to...
05/01/2026

We're Back! Practice Now Open. Happy New Year! Our practice reopened today, Monday, 5 January 2026, and we're excited to welcome all our families back. What a wonderful break β€” we're refreshed, energised, and ready to support your children's development journeys in the year ahead.

Looking forward to seeing you all soon! ✨

πŸ“ž 084 860 8221 πŸ“§ info@ashleydearlingot.co.za

02/01/2026

πŸŽ‰ Celebrating 8 Years with Our Amazing Tilly! πŸŽ‰ Today we're celebrating a truly special milestone - Tilly's 8th work anniversary with Ashley Dearling Occupational Therapists! For eight years, Tilly has been an integral part of our team, bringing dedication, skill, and genuine care to every therapy session. Her commitment to helping children reach their full potential has touched countless families throughout our community.

Tilly's expertise, warm approach, and unwavering passion for paediatric occupational therapy make her not just an exceptional therapist, but a valued colleague and friend. From celebrating small victories to navigating challenges, she's been there with professionalism and heart.

Thank you, Tilly, for eight wonderful years of making a difference in the lives of our little clients and their families. Your contribution to our practice and the Ballito community is immeasurable.

Here's to many more years of growth, success, and changing lives together! πŸ’™

Happy New Year 2026! Welcome to a new year filled with possibilities, growth, and fresh starts.As we step into 2026, we ...
01/01/2026

Happy New Year 2026! Welcome to a new year filled with possibilities, growth, and fresh starts.
As we step into 2026, we are filled with excitement for what lies ahead: new milestones to celebrate, challenges to overcome together, and the continued privilege of supporting your children's development journeys.

Our practice reopens Monday, 5 January, and we can't wait to see all our families again. Here's to another year of progress, persistence, and watching your children thrive.

Thank you for being part of our Ashley Dearling OT family. Let's make 2026 a year of meaningful growth together. ✨

πŸ“± What to Do When They've Had Too Much Screen Time.  You've been relaxed about screens over the holidaysβ€”and now you're ...
29/12/2025

πŸ“± What to Do When They've Had Too Much Screen Time. You've been relaxed about screens over the holidaysβ€”and now you're paying for it. Your child is irritable. Everything is "boring" unless it involves a screen. Meltdowns when screens are removed have escalated.

This is common when screen time has significantly increased, and research shows it's reversible.

What's happening:
Studies show excessive screen time, particularly passive or fast-paced content, is linked to emotional and behavioural difficulties. When children rely on screens to manage boredom, they miss opportunities to develop healthy emotional regulation.
The good news? Gradually reducing screen time and replacing it with regulating activities helps restore balance.

How to reset:
1. Acknowledge it "I've noticed screens are making it harder for your body to feel calm. We're going to make some changes."

2. Reduce gradually
Cut screen time by 25-50%
Set clear, consistent times
Use timers
Give advance warnings

3. Replace with regulating activities
Research shows these support regulation:
βœ… Outdoor play
βœ… Physical activity
βœ… Water play
βœ… Sensory activities (playdough, sand, baking)
βœ… Heavy work (carrying, pushing)
βœ… Creative play

4. Expect resistance
Children may initially:
Complain of boredom
Negotiate
Test boundaries
This is normal. Stay consistent.

5. Maintain boundaries
Once limits are set:
Stick to specific times
Use timers
When it's done, it's done
Choose high-quality content

Supporting the transition:
Increase outdoor time. Research shows outdoor play supports emotional wellbeing, reduces stress, and improves regulation.
Plan engaging activities. Stick to sleep routines. Model healthy screen use.

The Bottom Line:
If screen time increased over holidays and you're seeing behavioural effects, you can restore balance through consistent boundaries and alternatives.

Research shows reducing excessive screen time and increasing physical activity supports children's emotional regulation. Be patient. Change takes time. πŸ’™

πŸ“± Screen Time During the Holidays: Let's Talk About It.During the holidays, routines have disappeared, and suddenly your...
27/12/2025

πŸ“± Screen Time During the Holidays: Let's Talk About It.

During the holidays, routines have disappeared, and suddenly your child is asking for "just one more episode" before breakfast. Let's be honest: screen time increases during holidays. And that's okay. You're not failing because your child watches more TV in December. But if you're feeling uneasy or noticing behaviour changes, this post is for you.

What we're covering:
βœ… WHO screen time guidelines by age
βœ… Passive vs. active screen time
βœ… Signs screen time might need adjusting
βœ… Practical strategies for balance

WHO Guidelines:
πŸ“± Under 2: No screen time (except video calls)
πŸ“± 2-4 years: Max 1 hour/day, high-quality, supervised
πŸ“± 5+ years: Limits that don't interfere with sleep, activity, or connection

Why holidays = more screens:
During term, structure limits screens naturally. During holidays? That structure disappears. You're juggling work, visitors, and entertaining children.
Screens fill gaps. They give breathing room. That's okay.

What KIND of screen time matters:

βœ… Better quality passive screen time:
βœ… High-quality educational content
βœ… Low stimulation shows (slower pace, calmer visuals)
βœ… Parental supervision and co-viewing
βœ… Discussion afterwards

Avoid problematic passive screen time:
❌ Endless Autoplay videos
❌ Fast-paced, overstimulating content
❌ Watching alone
❌ Used solely to avoid boredom

Encourage Active screen time:
βœ…Educational apps requiring problem-solving
βœ…Video calls with family
βœ… Creating content (drawing apps, coding)

Signs screen time needs adjusting:
🚩 Meltdowns when screens removed
🚩 Everything else is "boring"
🚩 Disrupted sleep
🚩 Physical complaints (headaches, eye strain)
🚩 Withdrawal from family activities

Practical Strategies:
1️⃣ Set clear limits. Use timers.
2️⃣ Screens come AFTER: getting dressed, breakfast, outdoor time.
3️⃣ Screen-free zones: meals, bedrooms at night, first hour after waking.
4️⃣ Co-view when possible. Discuss.
5️⃣ Model healthy use.

You don't need perfect rules. When things tip out of balance? Course-correct. No guilt. Just adjustments.

Wishing You a Peaceful Christmas. To all the families we've had the privilege of working with this year: thank you. Than...
25/12/2025

Wishing You a Peaceful Christmas. To all the families we've had the privilege of working with this year: thank you. Thank you for trusting us with your children, for showing up to every session, for implementing strategies at home, and for never giving up even when things felt hard.

This work is a partnership, and your commitment to your children's growth inspires us every single day. Watching your children develop new skills, gain confidence, and overcome challenges is why we do what we do.

May your festive season be filled with rest, laughter, connection, and joy. You've all worked so hard this year: you deserve this time together.

Merry Christmas from the entire Ashley Dearling OT team. πŸŽ„

Bored Kids? Here's What Their Brain Is Actually Doing. Your child complains they're bored. You feel that familiar pull t...
23/12/2025

Bored Kids? Here's What Their Brain Is Actually Doing. Your child complains they're bored. You feel that familiar pull to fix it, entertain them, or suggest something. But what if we told you that when your child says "I'm bored," their brain is actually doing important developmental work?

What's happening in a bored brain:
When children experience boredom, their brain shifts into what neuroscientists call the "default mode network." This is when:
The brain processes recent experiences
Creativity and imagination activate
Problem-solving pathways strengthen
Self-awareness develops
Future planning begins

The developmental skills boredom builds:
βœ… Executive function - Planning and organising their own activities
βœ… Emotional tolerance - Managing uncomfortable feelings without external fixes
βœ… Internal motivation - Discovering what genuinely interests them
βœ… Resourcefulness - Finding solutions with what's available
βœ… Delayed gratification - Not every need requires immediate satisfaction

The science bit:

Research shows children need unstructured time for healthy brain development. Overscheduled, constantly entertained children often struggle with:
Self-directed play
Creative thinking
Independent decision-making
Emotional regulation

What this means for the holidays:
Don't fill every moment. Don't panic when they complain. The discomfort is temporary, but the skills they build are lasting.

Create space for boredom:
Keep open-ended materials accessible (not toys with one purpose)
Resist the urge to immediately suggest activities

Let them experience the full cycle: boredom β†’ discomfort β†’ creativity β†’ engagement

Your role isn't entertainment director. It's creating an environment where boredom can transform into discovery.

The holidays are the perfect time to let boredom work its magic. Trust the process. Trust your child's brain. πŸ’™

"Mom, I'm bored!" β€” The Phrase Every Parent Dreads (But Maybe Shouldn't). The holidays have barely started, and you've a...
18/12/2025

"Mom, I'm bored!" β€” The Phrase Every Parent Dreads (But Maybe Shouldn't). The holidays have barely started, and you've already heard it: "I'm bored. There's nothing to do." Before you rush to fill every moment or hand over a screen, here's something important: boredom is actually good for your child's development. When children experience boredom, their brains get creative. They problem-solve. They imagine. They discover what genuinely interests them.

What boredom teaches:
βœ… Problem-solving (What CAN I do?)
βœ… Creativity (I'll make my own fun!)
βœ… Self-awareness (What do I actually enjoy?)
βœ… Emotional regulation (I can sit with uncomfortable feelings)
βœ… Independence (I don't need an adult to fix this)

What to say when your child says they're bored:
"I wonder what you could do about that?"
"Sometimes being bored helps us come up with great ideas."
"You're welcome to help me with [chore], or you can find something to do."

Yes, they might grumble. They might complain. They might sit and stare at the wall for 20 minutes.

And then? Magic happens. They pull out the Lego. They build a fort. They draw. They disappear into imaginative play you didn't know they were capable of.

Supporting creative boredom:
Keep open-ended materials accessible (paper, crayons, cardboard, building blocks)
Create a "bored jar" with activity ideas
Let them help with real tasks (cooking, gardening, sorting)

Remember: you are not your child's entertainment director. Boredom isn't a problem you need to fixβ€”it's an opportunity for them to learn creating their own fun.

The holidays are long. There will be structured activities, outings, and yes, some screen time. But don't underestimate the power of a few genuinely boring afternoons.

Your child's brain will thank you for it. πŸ’™

Our Sip & Paint End-of-Year Christmas Party was the perfect way to end the year: a chance to unwind, laugh, and connect ...
15/12/2025

Our Sip & Paint End-of-Year Christmas Party was the perfect way to end the year: a chance to unwind, laugh, and connect with the incredible people who make up Ashley Dearling Occupational Therapists. In truth, the team is what brings this practice to life far more than I ever could alone. I am genuinely so grateful for this group: the strongest team of OTs I've had since starting my practice in 2018. Each therapist brings unique strengths, experiences, and passions, creating a team that is not only skilled but deeply supportive and committed to growth.

Their passion for the children and families we serve, their never-give-up attitudes, and the way they stand by me and each other through both the good days and the challenging ones is something I value more than words can capture. They lift one another, learn from one another, and make our practice a place filled with heart and purpose.

Celebrating alongside Kirsten Talbot Speech Therapy for the third year in a row made the evening even more special. We sipped and painted, enjoyed delicious food, played dirty Secret Santa and charades, and laughed until our cheeks hurt: the kind of night that fills your cup.

To my incredible team: thank you for your dedication, your growth, your courage, and your unwavering commitment. You make this journey meaningful. Ashley Dearling Occupational Therapists is what it is because of you.

End of Year Practice Closure Notice. As we head into the festive season, we wanted to let you know that our practice wil...
12/12/2025

End of Year Practice Closure Notice. As we head into the festive season, we wanted to let you know that our practice will be closed from today Friday, 12 December 2025 and will reopen Monday, 5 January 2026.

This year has been filled with so many meaningful moments: watching children reach milestones they've worked so hard for, supporting families through challenges, and witnessing the incredible resilience of every child who walks through our doors. Thank you for trusting us with your children's development journeys.

We hope this break gives your family time to rest, connect, and recharge. For any urgent queries during this period, please email info@ashleydearlingot.co.za and we'll respond when we return in January.

Wishing you all a peaceful and restorative festive season.
πŸ“ž 084 860 8221
πŸ“§ info@ashleydearlingot.co.za

Foundations for the Future: OT & Early Intervention Workshop. Join us as Ashley unpacks the importance of early interven...
07/10/2025

Foundations for the Future: OT & Early Intervention Workshop. Join us as Ashley unpacks the importance of early intervention and how to support your child’s development at home.

πŸ—“ Saturday, 18 October 2025 | 9 AM – 11 AM
πŸ“ Dolphin Coast Pre-Primary
πŸ‘§ Childcare services available

✨ Topics include:
βœ” What OT and early intervention really are
βœ” How to know if your child may benefit from OT
βœ” Strategies to support your child at home
βœ” Screen time balance & Grade 1 readiness

πŸ’° R35 (Dolphin Coast Parents) | R65 (Ballito Community Parents)
πŸ“ž RSVP: Lindy – 032 946 2979

Let’s build strong foundations for confident, capable kids!

ALL WELCOME!

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Unit 8 Rey Park, Rey's Place
Ballitoville
4399

Opening Hours

Monday 08:00 - 17:00
Tuesday 08:00 - 17:00
Wednesday 08:00 - 17:00
Thursday 08:00 - 17:00
Friday 08:00 - 17:00

Telephone

+27848608221

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