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Hello, I'm Jolene, a narrative therapist dedicated to helping individuals unlock their full potential, transform challenges into opportunities for growth, and uncover a brighter, more hopeful future.

11/04/2026

The enemy doesn’t just want to attack your future, he wants to attack your mind. That’s why the helmet of salvation is so vital.
The devil may not mind that you’re going to heaven, but he does want to rob you of everything Jesus paid for you to walk in right now — peace, healing, deliverance, joy, and provision.
That’s why you must protect your mind with the truth of your salvation. Don’t let the enemy “whack away” at your thoughts until all you expect is heaven someday. Jesus gave you more than that. Put on the helmet of salvation and stand firm in everything God has provided for you.
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06/04/2026

A healthy relationship starts when to partner work together I love this guys stories listen it’s beautiful

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06/04/2026

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22/03/2026
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22/03/2026

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Good morning beautiful people 💕💕

You can’t keep being everything for everybody
and nothing for yourself.

At some point, you have to turn that same love inward.

Take care of you today…
not last, not later, today.





Hi 💗I’ve started something very close to my heart called Ashes to Beauty Counselling 🦋It’s for women who feel stuck with...
20/03/2026

Hi 💗

I’ve started something very close to my heart called Ashes to Beauty Counselling 🦋

It’s for women who feel stuck with emotional eating, weight struggles, or just feeling overwhelmed and lost.

This is not just about weight loss… it’s about healing, identity, and becoming who God created you to be 🌸

I’m currently taking on a few clients and I’d love to walk this journey with you 🤍

If this speaks to you, or you know someone who needs this, please message me 💗

You are not stuck. You are becoming 🦋

It still does not mean you can’t have boundaries
09/03/2026

It still does not mean you can’t have boundaries

09/03/2026
Narrative TherapyDefinition, Techniques & InterventionsNarrative therapy is a collaborative and person-centered counsell...
08/03/2026

Narrative Therapy

Definition, Techniques & Interventions

Narrative therapy is a collaborative and person-centered counselling approach. It separates people from their problems and views individuals as the experts in their own lives.

This approach was developed by Michael White and David Epston.

The goal of narrative therapy is to help clients re-author or rewrite their life stories so they can move away from negative or limiting beliefs and build healthier, empowering narratives.



Key Components and Techniques

1. Externalization

Externalization means separating the person from the problem.

Instead of saying “I am anxious”, narrative therapy encourages language such as:

“Anxiety is affecting my life.”

This helps the person see that they are not the problem — the problem is the problem.



2. Re-authoring / Re-storying

Clients explore “unique outcomes” or positive moments that do not fit the negative story they believe about themselves.

These moments help clients create a new, more empowering life story.



3. Deconstruction

Deconstruction involves examining and breaking down the stories people tell about themselves.

This helps clients understand how culture, family, society, and past experiences may have influenced those stories.



4. Externalizing Conversations

Therapists use specific language that separates the person from the problem.

Example questions:
• “How does anxiety affect your daily life?”
• “When did this problem start influencing you?”

This keeps the focus on the problem’s influence, not on blaming the person.



5. Documentation

Narrative therapy sometimes uses letters, certificates, or written reflections to support the new story the client is creating.

These documents help reinforce growth and progress.



Goals of Narrative Therapy

Empowerment

Helping clients recognize their strengths, skills, values, and abilities instead of seeing themselves as failures.

Alternative Perspectives

Encouraging clients to discover new and more positive ways of understanding their experiences.

New Meaning

Helping clients create healthier and more constructive meanings for past events.



Common Applications

Narrative therapy can be used in:
• Individual counselling
• Family counselling
• Child therapy
• Trauma recovery
• Grief and loss
• Eating disorders
• Relationship challenges



Core Principle

Narrative therapy is respectful and non-blaming.

It focuses on understanding how a person’s life has been influenced by problem stories and supports them in building a future that reflects their true identity, strengths, and values.

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05/03/2026

This sounds amazing and I agree we all need that special person u may also come see me if u struggle
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